\u017dem\u0117 niekada neklausia, i\u0161 kur ir kada krenta lietus. \u2013 \u0160i mintis visada mane \u012fkvepia pabandyti pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visk\u0105 i\u0161 gamtos pozicijos, o ne vien manosios. Tokiu pj\u016bviu \u017evelgiu ir \u012f vaiko savaranki\u0161kumo ugdym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tikiu, kad vaik\u0173 nepriklausomyb\u0117 yra esmin\u0117 j\u0173 brandos dalis. Mes, kaip t\u0117vai, turime skatinti juos atlikti u\u017eduotis, atitinkan\u010dias j\u0173 am\u017ei\u0173 ir geb\u0117jimus, nes tai ugdo atsakomyb\u0117s jausm\u0105 ir pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi. I\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s \u2013 per didel\u0117 globa gali trukdyti vaikui tapti savaranki\u0161ku ir pasirengusiu gyvenimo i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vos tik tapau mama, viduje u\u017evir\u0117 kova tarp dviej\u0173 bals\u0173. Vienas balsas visu paj\u0117gumu palaik\u0117 t\u0105 auk\u0161\u010diau apra\u0161yt\u0105 mint\u012f apie vaik\u0173 skatinim\u0105 tapti nepriklausomais, nepaisant to, jog visi procesai vyksta ilgiau, reikalauja daugiau pastang\u0173, mano emocinio \u012fsitraukimo, steb\u0117senos ir pan. O antrasis \u2013 nuolat nor\u0117jo greito rezultato, kaip m\u0117gstame sakyti, \u201e\u017eymos\u201c ar \u201eu\u017ed\u0117tos varnel\u0117s\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Esu tikrai d\u0117kinga likimui, kad mane supa \u017emon\u0117s, kurie kuria manyje auk\u0161to standarto vertybes, tad nat\u016bralu, jog visus de\u0161imt motinyst\u0117s met\u0173 siekiau, jog antrasis balsas dingt\u0173. \u012evaizdavau, kad \u012fmanoma pasiekti b\u016bsenos, kai atsidavimas t\u0117vystei, vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo ir saviugdos svarba bus \u0161imtaprocentin\u0117, ta vidin\u0117 kova baigsis. Bet tik visai neseniai suvokiau \u2013 tiksliau, atradau draug\u0117se \u2013 jog ta kova ir yra esmin\u0117 mano gyvenimo dalis, be kurios a\u0161 tiesiog gyven\u010diau vakuume: joki\u0173 trigd\u017ei\u0173, joki\u0173 nauj\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173, jokio tobul\u0117jimo. Nepaisant to, jog \u017emogi\u0161kasis pradas b\u016btent ir siekia \u0161ios b\u016bsenos \u2013 nirvanos \u2013 bet s\u0105moningo \u017emogaus paskirtis ne tokia. Mus ugdo, kei\u010dia, augina nuolatinis pasirinkimas: mano interesai ar i\u0161sikeltas tikslas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iuo atveju \u2013 vaik\u0173 nepriklausomyb\u0117 nuo t\u0117v\u0173. Mes siekiame, jog vaikai geb\u0117t\u0173 pasir\u016bpinti savimi materialiai, atitinkamai pagal savo am\u017e\u0173 ir brand\u0105. Neb\u016btinai tai atitiks vidurkio lenteles vadov\u0117liuose. Kiekvienas \u017emogus vystosi individualiai. Did\u017eiausia u\u017eduotis man, kaip mamai, yra \u012fveikti pa\u010di\u0105 save.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tikroji nepriklausomyb\u0117 vaikui kainuoja ne tik jo paties pastang\u0173, bet ir t\u0117v\u0173 vidini\u0173 kov\u0173, patogumo atsisakymo, greito rezultato, emocinio darbo su savimi. Visa tai yra \u201ekaina\u201c, kuri\u0105 mama s\u0105moningai pasirenka mok\u0117ti, kad vaikas augt\u0173 savaranki\u0161kas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaip \u017eem\u0117 priima liet\u0173 \u2013 nesvarbu, i\u0161 kur jis ateina \u2013 taip ir a\u0161 mokausi priimti abi savyje esan\u010dias dalis. Viena j\u0173 nori auginti vaik\u0173 nepriklausomyb\u0119 kantriai, su \u012fsitraukimu. Kita \u2013 siekia grei\u010dio, patogumo, \u201evarneli\u0173\u201c. Bet tik leid\u017eiant \u0161iems balsams egzistuoti kartu, su pagarba j\u0173 skirtingai prigim\u010diai, galiu augti ir a\u0161 \u2013 kaip mama. Nes gal\u0173 gale, tai ne tik vaikas mokosi b\u016bti savaranki\u0161kas \u2013 bet ir a\u0161 mokausi b\u016bti ta \u017eem\u0117, kuri myli liet\u0173 bet kokiu pavidalu, bet vis tiek i\u0161lieka i\u0161tikima savo tikslui \u2013 auginti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u017dem\u0117 niekada neklausia, i\u0161 kur ir kada krenta lietus. \u2013 \u0160i mintis visada mane \u012fkvepia pabandyti pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visk\u0105 i\u0161 gamtos pozicijos, o ne vien manosios. Tokiu pj\u016bviu \u017evelgiu ir \u012f vaiko savaranki\u0161kumo ugdym\u0105. Tikiu, kad vaik\u0173 nepriklausomyb\u0117 yra esmin\u0117 j\u0173 brandos dalis. Mes, kaip t\u0117vai, turime skatinti juos atlikti u\u017eduotis, atitinkan\u010dias j\u0173 am\u017ei\u0173 ir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680.jpg",2048,1365,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680-800x800.jpg",800,800,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680-800x533.jpg",800,533,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680-768x512.jpg",768,512,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680-1536x1024.jpg",1536,1024,true],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mamos_gimse-680.jpg",2048,1365,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"\u017dem\u0117 niekada neklausia, i\u0161 kur ir kada krenta lietus. \u2013 \u0160i mintis visada mane \u012fkvepia pabandyti pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti \u012f visk\u0105 i\u0161 gamtos pozicijos, o ne vien manosios. 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