{"id":20033,"date":"2025-05-30T23:22:27","date_gmt":"2025-05-30T20:22:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=20033"},"modified":"2025-05-30T23:47:54","modified_gmt":"2025-05-30T20:47:54","slug":"as-pavargau-buti-viskuo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/as-pavargau-buti-viskuo\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u016aTI VISKUO"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>O gal tai normalu moteriai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u0105 mint\u012f tyliai esu sau sakiusi ne kart\u0105. Ir tikrai ne a\u0161 viena. Moter\u0173 gyvenimuose da\u017enai jau\u010diamas slaptas \u2013 o kartais visai atviras \u2013 spaudimas b\u016bti viskuo: partnerio ramintoja, vaik\u0173 mama, savo pa\u010dios kritike, virtuv\u0117s f\u0117ja, emocij\u0173 vertintoja, logistikos vadove&#8230; ir vis dar \u0161velnia, moteri\u0161ka, \u012fkvepian\u010dia. Geriausia \u2013 viskuo vienu metu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ilg\u0105 laik\u0105 tai vadinau \u201eperd\u0117tu atsakomyb\u0117s jausmu\u201c, \u201enoru visk\u0105 suvaldyti\u201c, \u201eperd\u0117tu jautrumu\u201c. Bet kai prad\u0117jau apie tai galvoti i\u0161 moters prigimties pus\u0117s \u2013 tarsi viskas \u0161iek tiek susid\u0117liojo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Negaliu prisiminti kur, bet vien\u0105 kart\u0105 nugirdau labai taikli\u0105 mint\u012f: moters viduje lyg egzistuoja keturi pagrindiniai poliai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>25 % mergait\u0117s, kuri nori \u017eaisti, b\u016bti laisva, \u017eavi ir priimama be s\u0105lyg\u0173;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>25 % mamos, kuri r\u016bpinasi, apkabina, atsp\u0117ja, pasir\u016bpina;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>25 % \u017emonos, kuri kuria artum\u0105, partneryst\u0119, \u0161ilum\u0105 dviese;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>ir 25 % vyro \u2013 kuris daro, sprend\u017eia, tempia reikalus \u012f priek\u012f.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir, \u017einot, visi tie ketvirtadaliai man pa\u017e\u012fstami. Vien\u0105 dien\u0105 manyje gyvena r\u016bpestinga mama, kit\u0105 \u2013 ta, kuri nori visk\u0105 padaryti pati. Vien\u0105 vakar\u0105 norisi b\u016bti mergait\u0117 su nuda\u017eytais nagais, kit\u0105 \u2013 pasakau garsiai, kad neturiu nei j\u0117g\u0173, nei \u017eod\u017ei\u0173. Ir tai n\u0117ra nenuoseklumas. Tai \u2013 gyvenimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moteris savo prigimtimi apima visum\u0105. Ji priima, reaguoja, jau\u010dia. Ji yra ta, kuri gimdo \u2013 ne tik k\u016bn\u0105, bet ir erdv\u0119, jausm\u0105, bendrum\u0105. Joje nat\u016braliai telpa daug. Tod\u0117l jos vaidmuo ir nuotaika kei\u010diasi. Ne tod\u0117l, kad ji \u201enenuosekli\u201c, o tod\u0117l, kad ji gyva. Tarsi sistema, kuri perjungia re\u017eim\u0105 pagal tai, kas \u0161iuo metu svarbiausia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir i\u0161 ties\u0173 \u2013 \u017emogus, kaip l\u0105stel\u0117 bendrame organizme, yra gyvas ne tada, kai laikosi plano, o kai jau\u010dia visumos poreik\u012f. Tad visai nat\u016bralu, kad vien\u0105 dien\u0105 gyvenimas tave \u201ekvie\u010dia\u201c b\u016bti mama, kit\u0105 \u2013 lydere, tre\u010di\u0105 \u2013 tylia steb\u0117toja, o ketvirt\u0105 \u2013 tiesiog b\u016bti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Galb\u016bt problema atsiranda ne tod\u0117l, kad mes per daug darom, o tod\u0117l, kad per ma\u017eai leid\u017eiam sau b\u016bti tuo, kuo i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 esame. Galb\u016bt per ma\u017eai apie tai kalbam. O juk gamta taip ir veikia \u2013 kei\u010diasi, prisitaiko, reaguoja. Ji ne stovi, o gyvena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien vis da\u017eniau leid\u017eiu sau paklausti: <em>kuo a\u0161 turiu b\u016bti \u0161iandien?<\/em><br>Ne \u201eko i\u0161 man\u0119s tikisi\u201c ar \u201ek\u0105 noriu parodyti\u201c, bet \u2013 <em>kur gyvenimas mane pastat\u0117?<\/em> Kam galiu b\u016bti naudinga? K\u0105 per mane \u0161iandien gali gauti kitas \u017emogus \u2013 net jei tai tik tylus buvimas \u0161alia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir vis da\u017eniau pastebiu, kad ne a\u0161 pati renkuosi t\u0105 vaidmen\u012f, o jis \u2013 mane. Kartais jau\u010diu, kad \u0161iuo metu i\u0161 man\u0119s aplinkai reikia daugiau ramyb\u0117s, o kartais \u2013 veiksm\u0173. Ir tai n\u0117ra paprasta, turi gerai pasistengti. Tikroji pusiausvyra atsiranda, kai <em>leid\u017eiu gyvenimui per mane reik\u0161tis taip, kaip tuo metu reikia visumai<\/em>.  Ne d\u0117l \u012fvaizd\u017eio. Ne d\u0117l pareigos. O d\u0117l to, kad esu gyva visumos dalis. Kad manyje yra visi tie vaidmenys \u2013 ir visi jie labai svarb\u016bs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moteris \u2013 tai ne vien funkcija. Tai buvimas visuma.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O gal tai normalu moteriai? T\u0105 mint\u012f tyliai esu sau sakiusi ne kart\u0105. Ir tikrai ne a\u0161 viena. Moter\u0173 gyvenimuose da\u017enai jau\u010diamas slaptas \u2013 o kartais visai atviras \u2013 spaudimas b\u016bti viskuo: partnerio ramintoja, vaik\u0173 mama, savo pa\u010dios kritike, virtuv\u0117s f\u0117ja, emocij\u0173 vertintoja, logistikos vadove&#8230; ir vis dar \u0161velnia, moteri\u0161ka, \u012fkvepian\u010dia. 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