Sakoma, kad \u017emogus gali daug k\u0105 i\u0161gyventi dar mintyse \u2013 neb\u016btina laukti, kol gyvenimas supurtys, kad prad\u0117tum matyti. Kartais u\u017etenka atidumo: sau, kitam, santykiui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pa\u017evelkime \u012f \u0161eim\u0105. Da\u017enas vyro l\u016bkestis \u2013 gr\u012f\u017eus namo jaustis laukiamu. Ramyb\u0117, \u0161ypsena, \u0161iltas \u017evilgsnis. Tai nat\u016bralu \u2013 kiekvienas nori sugr\u012f\u017eti \u012f erdv\u0119, kurioje jau\u010diasi priimtas. Ir, ties\u0105 sakant, beveik kiekviena moteris pati nor\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti tokia \u2013 \u0161velni, gyvybinga, d\u017eiaugsminga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta\u010diau realyb\u0117 da\u017enai sako k\u0105 kita. Dienos b\u0117ga tarp vaik\u0173, buities, darbo, emocij\u0173, planavimo ir nenumatyt\u0173 nutikim\u0173. Arbata lieka nei\u0161gerta, nes vis ka\u017ekas nutinka: vaikas susi\u017eeid\u017eia, pameta \u017eaisl\u0105, reikia i\u0161klausyti draug\u0119 ar pasir\u016bpinti vyro reikalais. O kai vakare pagaliau nutyla garsai, moteris lieka su savimi \u2013 bandydama susivokti mintyse, pajusti save, galb\u016bt net prisiminti, ko ji pati nor\u0117jo \u0161\u012fryt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai ne vis\u0173 moter\u0173 gyvenimas, bet daugeliui labai pa\u017e\u012fstamas. Tod\u0117l svarbu apie tai kalb\u0117ti. Ne i\u0161 gailes\u010dio, o i\u0161 pagarbos. Nes ji tikrai daro, k\u0105 gali. Kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105. Tik ne visada turi kur pasikrauti, b\u016bti matoma ar i\u0161silieti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017dinoma, ir vyras stengiasi \u2013 jis dirba, r\u016bpinasi, ne\u0161a atsakomyb\u0119. Ta\u010diau vis da\u017eniau santykyje atsiranda tylus vertinimas: ji pasikeit\u0117. Tapo tylesn\u0117, ni\u016bresn\u0117, \u201enebe tokia\u201c. Ir i\u0161 \u0161io atotr\u016bkio da\u017enai gimsta ne supratimas, o priekai\u0161tas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet gal ne pokytis yra problema? Gal problema ta, kad da\u017enai nematome, kod\u0117l<\/em> tas pokytis \u012fvyko? Reikalaujame, kad kitas atlikt\u0173 savo vaidmen\u012f, bet pamir\u0161tame pasir\u016bpinti s\u0105lygomis, kurios leist\u0173 t\u0105 vaidmen\u012f i\u0161pildyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vyras ir moteris \u2013 tai dvi prie\u0161ingos, bet viena kit\u0105 papildan\u010dios sistemos. Vienas duoda krypt\u012f, kitas \u2013 gyvyb\u0119. Vienas stato strukt\u016br\u0105, kitas j\u0105 pripildo \u0161iluma. Tai ne tik psichologija \u2013 tai pasaulio pamatas. Kai \u0161i jungtis neveikia, skilimas i\u0161tinka ne tik \u0161eim\u0105, bet vis\u0105 sistem\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tod\u0117l svarbu ne tai, kas k\u0105 pasitinka su \u0161ypsena. Svarbu, ar abu vis dar plaukia viena kryptimi. Ne vienas prie\u0161 kit\u0105 \u2013 o vienas \u0161alia kito. Ne tik laukdami, bet gird\u0117dami. Ne tik i\u0161gyvendami \u2013 bet ir kurdami bendr\u0105 krypt\u012f. Prasming\u0105, gyv\u0105. Ir piln\u0105 meil\u0117s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sakoma, kad \u017emogus gali daug k\u0105 i\u0161gyventi dar mintyse \u2013 neb\u016btina laukti, kol gyvenimas supurtys, kad prad\u0117tum matyti. Kartais u\u017etenka atidumo: sau, kitam, santykiui. Pa\u017evelkime \u012f \u0161eim\u0105. Da\u017enas vyro l\u016bkestis \u2013 gr\u012f\u017eus namo jaustis laukiamu. Ramyb\u0117, \u0161ypsena, \u0161iltas \u017evilgsnis. Tai nat\u016bralu \u2013 kiekvienas nori sugr\u012f\u017eti \u012f erdv\u0119, kurioje jau\u010diasi priimtas. 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