{"id":20218,"date":"2025-08-29T00:02:44","date_gmt":"2025-08-28T21:02:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=20218"},"modified":"2025-11-12T00:26:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-11T22:26:11","slug":"kada-jie-vel-susitiks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kada-jie-vel-susitiks\/","title":{"rendered":"KADA JIE V\u0116L SUSITIKS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji gal\u0117jo susitaikyti su daug dalyk\u0173, bet niekaip ne\u012fsteng\u0117 t\u0119sti savojo monologo, kur\u012f iniciavo vyro klausimas: ,,Kaip tu \u0161iandien?&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Tai buvo daug \u017eadantis klausimas, ta\u010diau jau po keli\u0173 sakini\u0173 \u017eod\u017eiai \u0117m\u0117 dau\u017etis \u012f sienas, atsirado keistas jausmas, jog ji kalba su savimi. Nor\u0117josi patrinti akis ir \u012fsitikinti ar jis dar \u010dia, su ja. Taip, k\u016bnas gul\u0117jo \u0161alia, bet tarp j\u0173 stov\u0117jo siena.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji stipriai u\u017e\u010diaup\u0117 l\u016bpas, u\u017esitrauk\u0117 antklod\u0119 ant veido ir tyliai pravirko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; <em>Tu t\u0119sk, t\u0119sk, klausau.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji gal\u0117jo susitaikyti su daug dalyk\u0173, bet niekaip ne\u012fsteng\u0117 t\u0119sti savojo monologo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Vakaro tyloje jos galvoje pe\u0161\u0117si mintys. Vienos \u012fsakiai tikino, jog tai pats laikas \u012fsi\u017eeisti, atker\u0161yti, pamokyti. Kitos &#8211; maldavo apsvarstyti visos dienos situacij\u0105. K\u0105 ji pasirinks?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Vienoje svarstykli\u0173 pus\u0117je &#8211; jos poreikis tiesiog b\u016bti kartu, kitoje &#8211; pad\u0117ti dar vien\u0105 plyt\u0105 tarp j\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Nuolatin\u0117 kova d\u0117l santyki\u0173, d\u0117l gersn\u0117s abiej\u0173 ateities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji atpalaidavo rankas, kurios gniau\u017e\u0117 pagalv\u0117s kamp\u0105. Pa\u010dios problemos suvokimas ir buvo i\u0161\u0117jimo durys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jie gyvena kartu, bet jau\u010diasi vieni\u0161i. Jis daug dirba, ji r\u016bpinasi \u0161eima. Jis po darbo dirba namie, ji &#8211; tvarko namus.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Dabar ji mama, jos visos akys ir ausys nukreiptos \u012f vaikus, jie jos gyvenimo centras, nes taip sukurta gamtos.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jis kasdien eina \u012f darb\u0105, susiduria su dideliais sunkumais, jo mintys ten. Galb\u016bt jis privalo ten b\u016bti visa \u0161irdimi, galb\u016bt nuo jo priklauso kit\u0173 likimas. O gal jam tiesiog sunku gr\u0131\u017eti \u012f triuk\u0161mingus namus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji nori, jog jis jaust\u0173 jos i\u0161gyvenimus, jos jausmus. O jis negali niekuo jai pad\u0117ti. Gr\u012f\u017eus namo vaikai \u0161\u016bkauja, ji u\u017esi\u0117musi nam\u0173 reikalais. K\u0105 jis gali padaryti? Jis to n\u0117 nekontroliuoja.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji jau\u010diasi tokia vieni\u0161a, neturi su kuo pasikalb\u0117ti apie visas galvoje besisukan\u010dias mintis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Kaip u\u017epildyti \u0161i\u0105 tu\u0161tum\u0105 tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173? Kaip sugriauti sienas ir i\u0161lilti kartu, kai atrodo, net pati gamta tam prie\u0161inasi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji tada dar ne\u017einojo k\u0105 tiksliai daryti. Viena jos dalis ver\u017e\u0117si i\u0161tr\u016bkti, kita likti ir tiesiog pasikalb\u0117ti apie j\u0173 santykius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">J\u012f \u017eudo tokie pokalbiai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jis nesupranta k\u0105 dar ji nori \u017einoti? Jis myli j\u0105 ir viskas.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Patinas apvaisina patel\u0119 ir ji toliau pati r\u016bpinasi jais. Viena. Tokia jos ir jo biologin\u0117 kilm\u0117. Ta\u010diau jie auk\u0161tesn\u0117 i\u0161sivystimo forma, jie \u017emon\u0117s, tod\u0117l jai t\u0105 vakar\u0105 tr\u016bko keli\u0173 detali\u0173.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji galvojo. Ie\u0161kojo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji nor\u0117jo ry\u0161io su savo vyru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji nor\u0117jo j\u0173 kartu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji nor\u0117jo \u017einoti kaip jis jau\u010diasi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Kit\u0105 vakar\u0105 jis gr\u012f\u017eo v\u0117lai. Kaip visada pavarg\u0119s ir mintyse dar darbe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji sukaup\u0117 visas j\u0117gas, anksti suruo\u0161\u0117 vaikus miegui, u\u017ekait\u0117 virtul\u012f arbatos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; <em>Prisijungsi<\/em>?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list ul1\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jis sutriko. Linktel\u0117jo galv\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Kambaryje tvyrojo ne\u012fprasta tyla. Abu paslap\u010diomis band\u0117 maskuoti j\u0105 pokalbiais apie niek\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji buvo u\u017etikrinta ir nusiteikusi karingai kovoti u\u017e savo santuok\u0105. Jai ner\u016bp\u0117jo jis, kaip vienetas. Ji atakavo savo r\u016bpes\u010diu ir d\u0117mesi\u0173 j\u0173 ry\u0161\u012f, kuris po truput\u012f sklaid\u0117 vieni\u0161umo jausm\u0105 tarp j\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jiems patiko \u017ei\u016br\u0117ti vienas kitam \u012f akis. Jie nemok\u0117jo flirtuoti. Tai buvo taip velni\u0161kai nuo\u0161irdu ir vaiki\u0161ka, jog jiedu i\u0161raudo kaip du paaugliai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji pagaliau pasijuto ne viena. Jis &#8211; jos gyvenimo dalis.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji bijojo, kad \u0161i akimirka tuoj baigsis, o jis primin\u0117, jog jie patys gali nuspr\u0119sti kada.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">T\u0105 vakar\u0105 tarp j\u0173 gim\u0117 planas!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jis skambina jai kelis kartus per dien\u0105. Ji vakarais skiria daugiau d\u0117mesio jiems abiems. Ne vaikai, o ry\u0161ys tapo jos gyvenimo centras.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Jis nuperka jai g\u0117li\u0173 be jokios progos. Ji paruo\u0161ia jo m\u0117gstam\u0105 vakarien\u0117. Jie ima \u017eaisti ,,duodu- gaunu&#8221; \u017eaidim\u0105. Jie reguliariai i\u0161eina pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti kartu, dviese. Bando pa\u017einti vienas kit\u0105 i\u0161 naujo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ji jau\u010diasi tvirtai. Jis ramiai. \u017dinoma, iki kito stumtel\u0117jimo i\u0161 j\u0173 komforto zonos. Jie tai \u017eino, tod\u0117l kuria pastovum\u0105 bendriems veiksmams dar iki tai nutinkant.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Ir \u0161tai at\u0117jo tas vakaras, kai \u012fsp\u016bdis suma\u017e\u0117jo ir j\u0173 dialogai tampa \u012f sienas skriejantys monologai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; <em>Mes pasi\u017ead\u0117jome bandyti i\u0161likti kartu<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; <em>Privalome tai padaryti.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ji gal\u0117jo susitaikyti su daug dalyk\u0173, bet niekaip ne\u012fsteng\u0117 t\u0119sti savojo monologo, kur\u012f iniciavo vyro klausimas: ,,Kaip tu \u0161iandien?&#8221;. Tai buvo daug \u017eadantis klausimas, ta\u010diau jau po keli\u0173 sakini\u0173 \u017eod\u017eiai \u0117m\u0117 dau\u017etis \u012f sienas, atsirado keistas jausmas, jog ji kalba su savimi. Nor\u0117josi patrinti akis ir \u012fsitikinti ar jis dar \u010dia, su ja. Taip, k\u016bnas [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":20217,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[185],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20218","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-istraukos-is-moters-gyvenimo-knygos"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1.jpg",1019,509,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1-800x509.jpg",800,509,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1.jpg",1019,509,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1.jpg",1019,509,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/ef39d6c1-93ea-4482-ba95-90e59db627d1.jpg",1019,509,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ji gal\u0117jo susitaikyti su daug dalyk\u0173, bet niekaip ne\u012fsteng\u0117 t\u0119sti savojo monologo, kur\u012f iniciavo vyro klausimas: ,,Kaip tu \u0161iandien?&#8221;. Tai buvo daug \u017eadantis klausimas, ta\u010diau jau po keli\u0173 sakini\u0173 \u017eod\u017eiai \u0117m\u0117 dau\u017etis \u012f sienas, atsirado keistas jausmas, jog ji kalba su savimi. Nor\u0117josi patrinti akis ir \u012fsitikinti ar jis dar \u010dia, su ja. 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