\u0160ie metai buvo revoliuciniai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kai kalb\u0117jausi su kitomis \u0161eimomis, kurios jau kelerius metus moko namuose \u2013 taip pat su tomis, kurios turi patirties kitose \u0161alyse \u2013 jos visos man sak\u0117 t\u0105 pat\u012f: tau reikia ma\u017edaug trij\u0173 ar keturi\u0173 met\u0173, kol i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 suprasi, k\u0105 darai. Prie\u0161 tai tu daugiausia mokaisi, kas apskritai yra mokymasis namuose. Ir ka\u017ekaip tu turi i\u0161gyventi tuos metus \u2013 i\u0161gyventi, eksperimentuoti, suprasti \u2013 ir tu nori juos nugyventi prasmingai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi tu bandai \u012fvairius metodus. I\u0161bandai vien\u0105, paskui kit\u0105. Ir galiausiai \u0161i\u0105 vasar\u0105 a\u0161 pavadinau revoliucine vasara, kuri kiek kitaip \u012ftakojo ir rugs\u0117j\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pas mus daug poly\u010di\u0173 \u2013 nauji namai, pakito gyvenimo b\u016bdas, kasdienis ritmas. Ir \u0161eimos dinamika pasikeit\u0117, vaikai paaugo metais. Tai privert\u0117 sustoti ir rimtai pagalvoti: kas dabar yra geriausia, k\u0105 galime padaryti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Did\u017eiausias suvokimas at\u0117jo tada, kai gr\u012f\u017eau prie Charlotte Mason minties, kad vaiko prot\u0105 reikia maitinti. Smegenys vis\u0105 laik\u0105 turi b\u016bti aktyvios \u2013 ne atsitiktiniu triuk\u0161mu, o dalykais, kurie tikrai augina \u017emog\u0173: dalykais, kurie maitina prot\u0105 ir \u0161ird\u012f, kurie moko ka\u017eko tikro, kurie formuoja charakter\u012f. Dalykais, kurie tarsi programuoja siekti pozityvaus pasaulio vaizdo, supratimo, skatina pa\u017einti gamtos d\u0117snius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimai nebuvo nauja mintis. Bet a\u0161 visada kovojau su klausimu, kaip tai suderinti su ugdymu \u0161eimoje, t.y. su pa\u010dia mokyklos programa. Nes \u010dia viskas kitaip. Mes ne Amerikoje, ne Australijoje ar Jungtin\u0117je Karalyst\u0117je. Mes neturime stipri\u0173 ugdymo \u0161eimoje organizacij\u0173 savo rajone. N\u0117ra dar didel\u0117s bendruomen\u0117s, \u012f kuri\u0105 gal\u0117tum remtis. Daugum\u0105 laiko visk\u0105 darai vienas, u\u017e u\u017edar\u0173 dur\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kartais tai \u012fkvepia. Kartais vargina. Kartais painu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Arba tai, jog pra\u0117jo ketveri metai, arba a\u0161 subrendau iki reikiamos faz\u0117s, kad mano suvokime ka\u017ekas susijung\u0117. A\u0161 suvokiau, naujai, kaip svarbu turinys \u2013 kuo mes maitiname vaik\u0173 protus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Su pirmu vaiku visada sunkiau; tu bandai suprasti, ko i\u0161 tav\u0119s nori knygos, ir ko tu nori savo vaikui. Tu supranti, kad esm\u0117 ne tarnavimas knygoms \u2013 knygos turi tarnauti mums. Ir vis d\u0117lto labai lengva prarasti t\u0105 fokus\u0105 ir leisti, kad akademiniai dalykai u\u017ego\u017et\u0173 esm\u0119. Bet v\u0117l prad\u0117ti su pirmoke kur kas laisviau. Tu jau \u017einai knygas, matai platesn\u012f paveiksl\u0105 \u2013 kur visa tai veda. Tod\u0117l leidi sau dr\u0105siai derinti turin\u0131 taip, kad jis atitikt\u0173 BUP, bet kartu nelikt\u0173 tik fakt\u0173 mokymas. Beto, akademin\u0117s pamokos – tai tik dvi ar trys valandos per dien\u0105. Visas kitas laikas – \u017emogaus asmenyb\u0117s k\u016brimui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iemet mokslo metus prad\u0117jome vasaros viduryje. A\u0161 nor\u0117jau pails\u0117ti po persikraustymo \u2013 viso to pakavimo, r\u016b\u0161iavimo, vietos paie\u0161k\u0173 kiekvienam daiktui. Net dabar kai kurios meno priemon\u0117s vis dar pasimetusios ka\u017ekur pa\u017eym\u0117tose d\u0117\u017e\u0117se.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet vaikai i\u0161sireikalavo, d\u0117l ko dabar d\u017eiaugiuosi, nes tai atved\u0117 mane prie naujos minties: tau nereikia b\u016bti visur ar visk\u0105 daryti pa\u010diai. Tu gali b\u016bti pagrindin\u0117 organizator\u0117 \u2013 ta, kuri renkasi aplink\u0105 ir turin\u012f, kuriame tavo vaikai auga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir jeigu yra mokykla, kuri i\u0161 ties\u0173 atitinka j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimos vertybes \u2013 kod\u0117l gi ne? Esm\u0117 ne tame, kad esame \u201eprie\u0161\u201c ka\u017ek\u0105. Svarbu tai, kas veikia j\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimai dabar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mums dabar veikia mi\u0161rus variantas: m\u016bs\u0173 ugdymosi branduolys \u0161eimoje ir i\u0161oriniai u\u017esi\u0117mimai, kurie vaikams labai patinka. Dukra pasirinko technin\u012f dizain\u0105 ir teatr\u0105. S\u016bnus prisijung\u0117 prie orientavimosi sporto, elektronikos ir lego programavimo. Potencialiai gera aplinka ugdyti ne tik sugeb\u0117jimus, bet socializuotis pagal am\u017ei\u0173, bei pom\u0117gius. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prisipa\u017einsiu, nebuvo lengva paleisti kontrol\u0119. Ma\u017eas vaikas manyje vis dar nori visk\u0105 i\u0161bandyti, visur b\u016bti. A\u0161 bijojau, kad jie tiesiog \u201elinksminsis\u201c u\u017e nam\u0173 rib\u0173, o namie liks tik rimtos pamokos \u2013 matematika, literat\u016bra ir pana\u0161iai. Bet dabar matau \u2013 mes visk\u0105 darome ir toliau, tik viduje \u017einau, kad ,,jeigu kas” tam tikri \u012fdom\u016bs daykai bus padengti ne namuose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai atpalaiduoja. O ramios smegenys sugeneruoja daugiau id\u0117j\u0173! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kalbant apie ,,rimtas pamokas”, tai \u0161iuos dalykus mokom\u0117s Charlotte Mason b\u016bdu: pasakojame, m\u0105stome, jungiame id\u0117jas. Nors naudojam\u0117s vadov\u0117liais, bet labiau kaip \u012frankiais \u2013 pratimams, supratimui patikrinti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi tiems, kurie tik pradeda arba jau\u010diasi pasimet\u0119: \u017einokite \u2013 tai kelias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tu pasitik\u0117si savimi, tada j\u012f prarasi, tada v\u0117l atrasi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toks ritmas. Tai visas \u017eavesys. Jis augina tave, ir jis augina ka\u017ek\u0105 naujo tarp tav\u0119s ir tavo vaik\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai ver\u010dia jungtis, reikalauja puosel\u0117jimo, ir mainais duoda ka\u017ek\u0105 labai tikro. Tai dovana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir tikiu, kad \u0161eimos, kurios neugdo vaik\u0173 \u0161eimoje, randa savo b\u016bd\u0173 kaip atrasti ry\u0161\u012f su vaikais \u2013 nes \u0161is procesas, kad ir koks chaoti\u0161kas ar neai\u0161kus, pilnas d\u017eiaugsmo, augimo ir t\u0173 nuostabi\u0173, smagi\u0173, paprast\u0173, nepamir\u0161tam\u0173 akimirk\u0173.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0160ie metai buvo revoliuciniai. Kai kalb\u0117jausi su kitomis \u0161eimomis, kurios jau kelerius metus moko namuose \u2013 taip pat su tomis, kurios turi patirties kitose \u0161alyse \u2013 jos visos man sak\u0117 t\u0105 pat\u012f: tau reikia ma\u017edaug trij\u0173 ar keturi\u0173 met\u0173, kol i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 suprasi, k\u0105 darai. Prie\u0161 tai tu daugiausia mokaisi, kas apskritai yra mokymasis namuose. 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Kai kalb\u0117jausi su kitomis \u0161eimomis, kurios jau kelerius metus moko namuose \u2013 taip pat su tomis, kurios turi patirties kitose \u0161alyse \u2013 jos visos man sak\u0117 t\u0105 pat\u012f: tau reikia ma\u017edaug trij\u0173 ar keturi\u0173 met\u0173, kol i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 suprasi, k\u0105 darai. Prie\u0161 tai tu daugiausia mokaisi, kas apskritai yra mokymasis namuose.…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20309"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20310,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20309\/revisions\/20310"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}