Kol pasakoju apie mergait\u0119, tuo pat metu imu \u017eirkles ir padarau ant mergait\u0117s langel\u012f, kur\u012f atv\u0117rus matosi jos jausmai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
,,Tai kas jai nutiko? Gali nupie\u0161ti?”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir dukra nupie\u0161ia situacij\u0105, d\u0117l kurios jai buvo sunku. Vizualiai tai parodo, daug lengviau kalba. Juk tai ,,ne apie j\u0105”, o mergait\u0119. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ,,O kaip ji nor\u0117t\u0173 jaustis?”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Klausiu ir dukra pasakoja. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ,,O kaip padaryti, kad ji taip jaust\u0173si?<\/em> Gal nupie\u0161kime vaist\u0173 buteliuk\u0105 ir sud\u0117kime \u012f j\u012f visus dalykus”<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Tada kartu galvojame: d\u017eiaugsmas, apkabinimas, padr\u0105sinimas, meil\u0117. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Matau, kaip vaikas kyla vir\u0161 b\u016bsenos. Did\u017eiuojuosi tuo. T\u0119siame, nes noriu i\u0161girsti kuria meil\u0117s kalba a\u0161 \u0161iandien jai parody\u010diau, kad ji man svarbi. Juk tik ry\u0161ys mums padeda \u012fveikti visus sunkumus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ,,Tu dabar paklausyk, kuris i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 veiksm\u0173 leist\u0173 Levandai (toks mergait\u0117s vardas) pajausti, kad ji yra mylima, kaip ji jau\u010dia, kad j\u0105 myli:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u017dod\u017eiai: Man patinka, kai man sako \u201ea\u0161 tave myliu\u201c, \u201etu man brangus\u201c. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Glaudimasis: Jau\u010diu, kad mane myli, kai apkabina, pasodina ant keli\u0173, paglosto galv\u0105.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dovanos: Man smagu, kai man padovanoja ma\u017e\u0105 staigmen\u0105 \u2014 net pie\u0161in\u012f ar akmenuk\u0105. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Laikas kartu: Jau\u010diu meil\u0119, kai \u017eaid\u017eiam kartu, kai t\u0117tis ar mama b\u016bna tik su manimi. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pagalba: Man gera, kai man padeda, kai kartu sutvarkom \u017eaislus ar i\u0161kepam sausaini\u0173.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kas vyko toliau, turb\u016bt jau lengva \u012fsivaizduoti. Ta\u010diau tik tokiais \u017eingsneliais mes mokome vaikus priimti savo emocijas ir kreiptis pagalbos. Per \u0161ilt\u0105 ry\u0161\u012f kartu projektuojame savo mintis \u012f ta\u0161k\u0105, kuriame norime b\u016bti. Tada ie\u0161kome kaip ten patekti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Galima vakare prie\u0161 mieg\u01ce paklausti \u201eKas \u0161iandien tau parod\u0117, kad tave myli?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ar gali parodyti su rankomis, kokia meil\u0117 \u0161iandien buvo did\u017eiausia? <\/p>\n\n\n\n O mums, t\u0117vams belieka steb\u0117ti kas i\u0161 ties\u0173 pripildo vaiko emocin\u012f rezervuar\u0105.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Da\u017enai vaikui tam tikroje situacijoje u\u017epl\u016bsta mintys, emocija ir tada jau reakcijoa, po kuri\u0173 b\u016bna sunku nuairaminti, norisi pasikalb\u0117ti, bet sunku. Tai sugalvojau tok\u012f \u017eaidim\u0105 – nupie\u0161kime mergait\u0119. Pirmiausia, ant A4 popieriaus lapo dukra pie\u0161\u0117 mergait\u0119. Tada prasideda pasakojimas: ,,Kart\u0105 gyveno mergait\u0117, kuri nemok\u0117jo papasako, kas vyksta jos \u0161irdyje. Bet, kai ji sutiko tikr\u0105 draug\u0105, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":20689,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,159],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-emocijos-zmogus","category-veiklos-pazinkime-vienas-kita"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/1a058f04-e203-4c9c-b69d-21d5533de2cb.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Da\u017enai vaikui tam tikroje situacijoje u\u017epl\u016bsta mintys, emocija ir tada jau reakcijoa, po kuri\u0173 b\u016bna sunku nuairaminti, norisi pasikalb\u0117ti, bet sunku. Tai sugalvojau tok\u012f \u017eaidim\u0105 – nupie\u0161kime mergait\u0119. Pirmiausia, ant A4 popieriaus lapo dukra pie\u0161\u0117 mergait\u0119. Tada prasideda pasakojimas: ,,Kart\u0105 gyveno mergait\u0117, kuri nemok\u0117jo papasako, kas vyksta jos \u0161irdyje. Bet, kai ji sutiko tikr\u0105 draug\u0105,…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20690"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20690\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20691,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20690\/revisions\/20691"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20689"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![](\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/aab76305-e4fa-4af7-8eb4-733c4cf46940-1024x1024.jpg\")
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