Vis galvoju ir galvoju, kokia yra pagrindin\u0117 problema santykiuose. Galb\u016bt nesugeb\u0117jimas \u012fvertinti esamos situacijos ir jud\u0117jimas pirmyn. Kur?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u012e b\u016bsimos akimirkos statym\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Atrodo, kad \u0161i\u0173 laik\u0173 \u017emogaus viduje vis u\u017esiplieskia sistemin\u0117 problema, skatindama veikti impulsyviai. O kaip \u017einoma, impulsyvumas, pasipuo\u0161\u0119s emocijomis, nuoskaudomis, \u012fsitikinimais ir l\u016bkes\u010diais, da\u017eniausiai realizuojasi neigiamai. Jis tarsi reikalauja, kad kiti prisitaikyt\u0173 prie jo matymo, kitaip pasaulis neteisingas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet tai tik \u017eemiausia b\u016bsena \u2013 refleksas, automatin\u0117 reakcija, kuri\u0105, tikiu, dar reikia i\u0161mokti pa\u017eaboti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jeigu tik atrandu j\u0117g\u0173 bent trumpam susikoncentruoti \u012f geresn\u0119 ateit\u012f, \u012f tvarius santykius, pamatau, kad \u017emogus sukurtas ne tam, kad u\u017estrigt\u0173 purve. Gamta, visa integrali sistema, visada ver\u010dia jud\u0117ti \u012f kit\u0105, dar nepasiekt\u0105 pakop\u0105 \u2013 b\u016bsen\u0105, kurioje esame ar\u010diau vieni kit\u0173, ar\u010diau tikro ry\u0161io. Tik ta sistemin\u0117 problema da\u017enai neleid\u017eia to pamatyti. O ir gyvenimas vis stumia tave i\u0161 komforto zonos, visai kaip Campbell apra\u0161ytoje universalioje herojaus kelion\u0117je \u2013 herojus privalo \u017eengti \u012f ne\u017einomyb\u0119, \u012f \u201edar neatrast\u0105 lauk\u0105\u201c, viet\u0105 u\u017e pa\u017e\u012fstamo pasaulio rib\u0173. Tik per \u0161\u012f i\u0161\u0117jim\u0105 \u012f ne\u017einom\u0105 erdv\u0119 \u017emogus gali transformuotis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mes kiekvienas esame herojus, kiekvienas turime savo kelion\u0119 ir savo transformacijos kain\u0105, galiojimo dat\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nor\u0117\u010diau, tiksliau b\u016bt\u0173 daug lengviau, jeigu gyventume pasaulyje, kuriame \u017emon\u0117s nebijo savo vidini\u0173 signal\u0173. Jie j\u0173 negesina skubotais veiksmais ar impulsyviais sprendimais. Nebando panaikinti vidin\u0117s \u012ftampos kontroliuodami kitus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jie leid\u017eia tiems signalams kaukti viduje, nes jie tik primena, kas mes gal\u0117tume b\u016bti i\u0161 ties\u0173. Tada \u012fsijungia visai kita kryptis \u2013 ne atsitraukimas \u012f savo kiaut\u0105, bet jud\u0117jimas link sprendimo, kuris kuria nauj\u0105 realyb\u0119: ne tik manyje, bet ir tarp m\u016bs\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u017daisti tok\u012f \u017emog\u0173 dabar matau kaip vienintel\u012f b\u016bd\u0105 i\u0161gyventi. Tai tarsi i\u0161\u0117jimas i\u0161 u\u017estrigimo: ne pataisyti kit\u0105, ne nutildyti vidinius signalus, o s\u0105moningai \u017eengti \u012f b\u016bsen\u0105, kurioje m\u016bs\u0173 ry\u0161ys tampa truput\u012f artimesnis tam, kaip veikia visa gamtos sistema \u2013 abipusio papildymo ir jud\u0117jimo pirmyn principais.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Vis galvoju ir galvoju, kokia yra pagrindin\u0117 problema santykiuose. Galb\u016bt nesugeb\u0117jimas \u012fvertinti esamos situacijos ir jud\u0117jimas pirmyn. Kur? \u012e b\u016bsimos akimirkos statym\u0105. Atrodo, kad \u0161i\u0173 laik\u0173 \u017emogaus viduje vis u\u017esiplieskia sistemin\u0117 problema, skatindama veikti impulsyviai. O kaip \u017einoma, impulsyvumas, pasipuo\u0161\u0119s emocijomis, nuoskaudomis, \u012fsitikinimais ir l\u016bkes\u010diais, da\u017eniausiai realizuojasi neigiamai. 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