{"id":20860,"date":"2026-01-09T23:45:30","date_gmt":"2026-01-09T21:45:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=20860"},"modified":"2026-01-09T23:45:30","modified_gmt":"2026-01-09T21:45:30","slug":"skylutes-bambutei-kvepuoti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/skylutes-bambutei-kvepuoti\/","title":{"rendered":"SKYLUT\u0116S BAMBUTEI KV\u0116PUOTI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Kada pradeda veikti kritinis m\u0105stymas<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Purendama tre\u010dio s\u016bnaus patalus, prisiminiau juoking\u0105 pardav\u0117jos komentar\u0105 apie vaiki\u0161k\u0105 \u010di\u016b\u017einuk\u0105. Buvome jauni b\u016bsimi t\u0117vai, rinkom\u0117s tarp keli\u0173 skirting\u0173 \u010diu\u017einuk\u0173 lovelei. Kam tos skylut\u0117s \u010diu\u017einyje, paklaus\u0117 vyras. Konsultant\u0117 patikino, kad jos labai svarbios, jog k\u016bdikis neu\u017edust\u0173, mat skylut\u0117s bambutei kv\u0117puoti. Mudu negal\u0117jome sulaikyti juoko. Dar ir \u0161iandien \u0161is sakinys abu gr\u0105\u017eina \u012f t\u0105 juokingai nepatogi\u0105 situacij\u0105, kuri primena nepamir\u0161ti kritinio m\u0105stymo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Tai viena svarbiausi\u0173 man geb\u0117jim\u0173, kuriuos noriu i\u0161ugdyti vaikams. Kas \u017eino, gal dar ir mudu su vyru sp\u0117sime \u012f t\u0105 pat\u012f traukin\u012f!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Da\u017enai kritinis m\u0105stymas painiojamas su pasitik\u0117jimu savimi ar dr\u0105sa tur\u0117ti nuomon\u0119. Ne apie tai kalbu. Mano patirtyje tai veikiau geb\u0117jimas sustoti, kai ka\u017ekas formuoja mano mint\u012f vietoj man\u0119s. O \u0161iandien taip nutinka nuolat. Autoritetai, etiket\u0117s, \u201etaip reikia\u201c, \u201etaip saugiau\u201c, \u201evisi taip daro\u201c. Net tokiose, atrodyt\u0173, nekaltose situacijose kaip \u010diu\u017einuko pirkimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">T\u0105kart man pasisek\u0117, kad jautriausiu gyvenimo momentu greta stov\u0117jo \u017emogus, kuris r\u0117m\u0117si ne baime, o elementariais gamtos d\u0117sniais. Kitu atveju, labai tik\u0117tina, b\u016b\u010diau atidavusi sprendim\u0105 \u012f svetimas rankas vien tod\u0117l, kad jos atrod\u0117 labiau \u017einan\u010dios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Per dvylika met\u0173 toki\u0173 situacij\u0173 buvo ne viena. I\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 jos g\u0105sdino, o dabar jos mane i\u0161mok\u0117 klausti. I\u0161girdusi teigin\u012f ie\u0161kau prie\u017easties \u2013 kod\u0117l? \u017di\u016briu, kam tai naudinga. Bandau \u012fsivaizduoti, kaip tai atrodyt\u0173, jei nuimtume visas baimes ir paliktume tik paprastus gamtos d\u0117snius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Prisipa\u017einsiu, n\u0117ra lengva nusimesti visus nuo vaikyst\u0117s \u012fra\u0161ytus \u0161ablonus. Ta\u010diau vis da\u017eniau pagaunu save d\u017eiaugiantis tais momentais, kai ai\u0161kiai suvokiu: po galais, a\u0161 nieko nesuprantu apie \u0161\u012f pasaul\u012f. Ir tame atsiveria ne tu\u0161tuma, o gyvyb\u0117. Nes tik tada gimsta klausimai. Ne tam, kad greitai gaut\u0173 atsakym\u0105, o tam, kad vest\u0173 giliau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Kol vidinis kritikas panikoje kuria teorijas, a\u0161 mokausi atsitraukti. Nuo instinkto, nuo automatinio reagavimo, nuo to \u201ereikia greitai apsispr\u0119sti\u201c. Ir kuo labiau pavyksta taip atsitraukti, tuo ai\u0161kiau matau: mint\u012f galima tikrinti tik matuojant. Ne jausmu, ne autoritetu, ne savo teisumu, o lyginant \u2013 ar \u010dia daugiau tiesos, ar daugiau patogaus melo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Man kritinis m\u0105stymas prasideda ne nuo atsakym\u0173, o nuo ry\u0161io su ka\u017ekuo gilesniu nei a\u0161 pati. Su tuo, kas nepriklauso nuo mano nuotaikos, baimi\u0173 ar interes\u0173. Kai pavyksta prie to prisiliesti, net trumpam, daugelis \u201efakt\u0173\u201c nebei\u0161laiko paprasto vidinio patikrinimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"p2\">Gal tod\u0117l \u0161iandien taip sunku b\u016bti kriti\u0161ku. Ne tod\u0117l, kad tr\u016bkt\u0173 informacijos, o tod\u0117l, kad kritika per da\u017enai tampa b\u016bdu apginti save, o ne ie\u0161koti tiesos. O tiesa atsiveria tik ten, kur klausimas t\u0119siamas, o ne u\u017edaromas pirmu patogiu atsakymu<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kada pradeda veikti kritinis m\u0105stymas Purendama tre\u010dio s\u016bnaus patalus, prisiminiau juoking\u0105 pardav\u0117jos komentar\u0105 apie vaiki\u0161k\u0105 \u010di\u016b\u017einuk\u0105. Buvome jauni b\u016bsimi t\u0117vai, rinkom\u0117s tarp keli\u0173 skirting\u0173 \u010diu\u017einuk\u0173 lovelei. Kam tos skylut\u0117s \u010diu\u017einyje, paklaus\u0117 vyras. Konsultant\u0117 patikino, kad jos labai svarbios, jog k\u016bdikis neu\u017edust\u0173, mat skylut\u0117s bambutei kv\u0117puoti. Mudu negal\u0117jome sulaikyti juoko. 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