{"id":21096,"date":"2026-03-13T23:20:39","date_gmt":"2026-03-13T21:20:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=21096"},"modified":"2026-03-13T23:20:39","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T21:20:39","slug":"kur-is-tikruju-norime-sugrizti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kur-is-tikruju-norime-sugrizti\/","title":{"rendered":"KUR I\u0160 TIKR\u0172J\u0172 NORIME SUGR\u012e\u017dTI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u0160iandien i\u0161\u0117jau \u012f g\u0117lyn\u0105 pasigauti serotonino. Draug\u0117 sak\u0117, kad reikia daugiau s\u0105ly\u010dio su \u017eeme, ir nusprend\u017eiau pasinaudoti patarimu.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Besidarbuodama pagalvojau vis da\u017enai gird\u017eiu, kad&nbsp; \u017emogui norisi pab\u0117gti i\u0161 miesto, nuo to tempo, emocinio&nbsp; triuk\u0161mo. I\u0161 viso to, kas per greita, ko per daug, kad per dirbtina. Ir a\u0161 pati ne kart\u0105 esu taip galvojusi, kad gal ka\u017ekur kitur b\u016bt\u0173 lengviau, tikriau, \u0161variau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet gyvenimas man ne kart\u0105 parod\u0117, jog ne vietoje esm\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Galima gyventi mieste ir tur\u0117ti tikr\u0105 santyk\u012f su gyvenimu. Ir galima gyventi mi\u0161ke, bet jausti tu\u0161tum\u0105. Ir atvirk\u0161\u010diai. Man atrodo, tas \u0161iandien visur jau\u010diamas noras gr\u012f\u017eti prie paprastumo, prie \u201etikresnio\u201c gyvenimo n\u0117ra atsitiktinis. \u017dmon\u0117s pavargo. Pavargo nuo grei\u010dio, nuo santyki\u0173 trapumo, nuo pasaulio, kuriame vis ma\u017eiau rib\u0173, vis ma\u017eiau g\u0117dos, vis ma\u017eiau vidinio saiko. Mes ilgim\u0117s ne vien l\u0117tesnio ritmo. Mes ilgim\u0117s pasaulio, kuriame dar galiot\u0173 bent ka\u017ekokie moraliniai d\u0117sniai, kur \u017emogus nejaust\u0173, kad viskas byra vien tod\u0117l, kad kiekvienas tempia \u012f savo pus\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet \u010dia ir yra sud\u0117tingiausia vieta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Argi galime gr\u012f\u017eti atgal, \u012f sen\u0105 gyvenimo form\u0105, \u012f trobas, \u012f primityvi\u0105 buit\u012f, \u012f laikus, kai \u017emogaus norai buvo ma\u017eesni, o pats gyvenimas paprastesnis. O gal tai tik \u017eingsnis atgal?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evoliucija vyksta. Norai auga.&nbsp; Ir b\u016btent tod\u0117l senos formos m\u016bs\u0173 jau nebei\u0161gelb\u0117ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gamtoje viskas vystosi. Ir \u017emoguje taip pat. Kuo toliau, tuo ma\u017eiau \u017emogus nori rib\u0173, tuo sunkiau jam skaitytis su kitu, tuo labiau jis stato save \u012f centr\u0105. Tod\u0117l ir atsiranda tas keistas jausmas, kad pasaulyje ka\u017ekas ne taip, kad nebe\u012fmanoma taip gyventi, kaip gyvenome iki \u0161iol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Galb\u016bt \u017emogus turi prieiti rib\u0105, kai nebeapsiken\u010dia. Tik ne kit\u0173. Ne vald\u017eios. Ne miesto. Ne laikme\u010dio. O pirmiausia sav\u0119s. Savo nuolatinio noro visk\u0105 siurbti \u012f save. Savo nepakantumo. Savo noro, kad visi duot\u0173, suprast\u0173, myl\u0117t\u0173, atliept\u0173. Savo noro gauti visk\u0105, bet viduje nenoro u\u017e tai mok\u0117ti darbu, d\u0117mesiu, atsakomybe, tikru r\u016bpes\u010diu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir man atrodo, kad \u010dia yra tikroji problema. Ne vietoje. Ne kituose \u017emon\u0117se. Problema prasideda manyje\u2026 ten, kur a\u0161 pati dar nemoku pakankamai myl\u0117ti, pakankamai investuoti, pakankamai r\u016bpintis, kur vis dar per stipriai visk\u0105 matuoju per save.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kartais labai romantizuojame praeit\u012f. Bet tikrasis kelias, man atrodo, yra ne atgal. O pirmyn \u012f brandesn\u012f \u017emog\u0173. \u012e tok\u012f, kuris jau nebeie\u0161ko kur pab\u0117gti, o pradeda klausti kaip pasikeisti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0160iandien i\u0161\u0117jau \u012f g\u0117lyn\u0105 pasigauti serotonino. Draug\u0117 sak\u0117, kad reikia daugiau s\u0105ly\u010dio su \u017eeme, ir nusprend\u017eiau pasinaudoti patarimu.&nbsp; Besidarbuodama pagalvojau vis da\u017enai gird\u017eiu, kad&nbsp; \u017emogui norisi pab\u0117gti i\u0161 miesto, nuo to tempo, emocinio&nbsp; triuk\u0161mo. I\u0161 viso to, kas per greita, ko per daug, kad per dirbtina. Ir a\u0161 pati ne kart\u0105 esu taip galvojusi, kad [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21095,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05.jpg",1366,683,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05-800x683.jpg",800,683,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05-800x400.jpg",800,400,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05-1024x512.jpg",1024,512,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05.jpg",1366,683,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/4b726b96-54f2-433b-b10a-3b68e878fd05.jpg",1366,683,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"\u0160iandien i\u0161\u0117jau \u012f g\u0117lyn\u0105 pasigauti serotonino. 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