Kod\u0117l \u0161iandien taip sunku kalb\u0117tis su kitu \u017emogumi? Ne tik su nepa\u017e\u012fstamais, kolegomis, bet ir \u0161eimoje po keli\u0173 minu\u010di\u0173 pokalbio ka\u017ekas viduje ima prie\u0161intis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gyvename tokiu laiku, kai turime daugiau \u017eini\u0173, \u012franki\u0173 ir net s\u0105moningumo nei bet kada. Tai kod\u0117l ka\u017ekas neveikia b\u016btent ten, kur tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti papras\u010diausia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iandien \u017emon\u0117s patiria stres\u0105, jau\u010diasi pavarg\u0119, i\u0161sibla\u0161k\u0119. Bet tai nepaai\u0161kina to, jog net kai yra laiko, net kai yra noro – ka\u017ekas tarp \u017emoni\u0173 tiesiog nebesusijungia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tarsi du \u017emon\u0117s kalb\u0117t\u0173\u2026 bet nesusitikt\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ugdydama vaikus (ir save) \u0161eimoje \u0117miau pasteb\u0117ti vien\u0105 dalyk\u0105, kam anks\u010diau nesuteikdavau didel\u0117s reik\u0161m\u0117s. Pasirodo egzistuoja tokia paprasta tiesa – kiekvienas \u017emogus yra visi\u0161kai skirtingas. Skirtingas jo m\u0105stymo b\u016bdas. Skirtingas tempas. Skirtingi interesai. Skirtingos reakcijos. Ir tai n\u0117ra \u017emogaus pasirinkimas. Jis toks gimsta ir yra formuojamas visko, kas j\u012f supa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ar kada pagalvojote, kas gi vyksta, kai susitinka du visi\u0161kai skirtingi vidiniai pasauliai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kiekvienas jau\u010dia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eA\u0161 suprantu.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eA\u0161 matau teisingai.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eA\u0161 \u017einau, kaip turi b\u016bti.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O kitas\u2026 neatitinka. Ir ka\u017ekas viduje i\u0161 karto sureaguoja. Ne tod\u0117l, kad norime konflikto. Bet tod\u0117l, kad negalime i\u0161eiti u\u017e savo suvokimo rib\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Visada nujau\u010diau, kad yra dar ka\u017ekas, ko mes nematome, bet tai pasikartoja \u0161imtus, gal net t\u016bkstan\u010dius kart\u0173 per dien\u0105. Atrodo gali sutikti \u017emog\u0173 su atvirumu, net su meile. Ir staiga ka\u017ekas u\u017esidaro, atsiranda prie\u0161inga mintis. Vertinimas. Tai taip greita, automati\u0161ka. Tarsi ka\u017ekas mumyse labiau rinkt\u0173si atsiskyrim\u0105 nei ry\u0161\u012f. Asmenin\u012f laim\u0117jim\u0105, nei bendr\u0105 paveiksl\u0105. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da\u017enai bandome sau atsakyti \u012f klausim\u0105 \u201eKaip geriau bendrauti?\u201c, bet gal tikrasis klausimas – kas tai per j\u0117ga mumyse, kuri trukdo ry\u0161iui, net tada, kai mes jo norime?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gal tod\u0117l jokia sistema negali sutvarkyti santyki\u0173. Nei mokykla, nei pati visuomen\u0117, net \u0161eimos strukt\u016bra. Nes tai vyksta kiekvieno i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 viduje. Ir gal darbas prasideda ne nuo kit\u0173 keitimo, reikalavimo, jog kiti ka\u017ek\u01ce daryt\u0173, o nuo mokymosi pamatyti \u0161\u012f mechanizm\u0105 savyje, kai jis pasirodo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kod\u0117l \u0161iandien taip sunku kalb\u0117tis su kitu \u017emogumi? Ne tik su nepa\u017e\u012fstamais, kolegomis, bet ir \u0161eimoje po keli\u0173 minu\u010di\u0173 pokalbio ka\u017ekas viduje ima prie\u0161intis? Gyvename tokiu laiku, kai turime daugiau \u017eini\u0173, \u012franki\u0173 ir net s\u0105moningumo nei bet kada. Tai kod\u0117l ka\u017ekas neveikia b\u016btent ten, kur tur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti papras\u010diausia? \u0160iandien \u017emon\u0117s patiria stres\u0105, jau\u010diasi pavarg\u0119, i\u0161sibla\u0161k\u0119. 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