Charlotte Mason teig\u0117, kad vaikas, kuris dar nemoka skaityti, neb\u016btinai negali m\u0117gautis knyga. Jis gali gauti t\u0105 malonum\u0105 klausydamasis. Gali \u012f\u017eengti \u012f \u012fsivaizduojam\u0105 pasaul\u012f kartu su kitais \u0161eimos nariais, kurie jau moka skaityti. Jam neb\u016btina pa\u010diam mok\u0117ti skaityti, kad knyga j\u012f paliest\u0173. Kartais u\u017etenka tiesiog b\u016bti \u0161alia ir klausytis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir man atrodo, kad tas pats principas galioja ne tik skaitymui, bet ir daugeliui kit\u0173 sri\u010di\u0173. Vaikas tam tikrame savo raidos etape ka\u017eko dar nedaro, negeba, tyrin\u0117ja i\u0161 tolo, atmeta, nepriima, atstumia. Bet tai nerei\u0161kia, kad jis vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 to nedarys. Kartais mes per greitai padarome i\u0161vad\u0105 pagal tai, k\u0105 matome \u0161iandien. O \u0161iandien dar n\u0117ra visas vaiko kelias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160iandien viriau dar\u017eovi\u0173 sriub\u0105: morkos, svog\u016bnai, bakla\u017eanai, tokie \u0161iek tiek rytieti\u0161ki skoniai ir prieskoniai. A\u0161 \u017einojau, kad vienas vaikas t\u0173 dar\u017eovi\u0173 grei\u010diausiai nevalgys. Bet tada pagalvojau: o kas jam draud\u017eia m\u0117gautis sultiniu? Tiesiog sultiniu. Gal \u0161iandien jam u\u017etenka tiek. Gal tai yra geriau negu nieko. Gal jis vis tiek dalyvauja bendrame \u0161eimos valgyme, tik ne taip, kaip a\u0161 buvau \u012fsivaizdavusi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toki\u0173 situacij\u0173 \u0161eimoje yra labai daug. Kartais vaikas dar neskaito, bet klauso. Dar nevalgo visos sriubos, bet geria sultin\u012f. Dar nera\u0161o taip, kaip mums nor\u0117t\u0173si, bet stebi. Dar nepie\u0161ia pagal u\u017eduot\u012f, bet savaip tyrin\u0117ja linij\u0105, spalv\u0105, judes\u012f. Ir jeigu mes matome tik neatitikim\u0105 savo l\u016bkes\u010diui, labai lengvai galime praleisti pat\u012f ry\u0161\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Man atrodo, \u010dia labai svarbu mamai pa\u010diai i\u0161mokti save sulaikyti. T\u0105 vidin\u012f nor\u0105 sukritikuoti: kaip tai galima nevalgyti, kaip tai galima nedaryti, juk reikia. Bet ar tikrai visada reikia b\u016btent taip ir b\u016btent dabar? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Labai daug dalyk\u0173 mes gauname i\u0161 visuomen\u0117s kaip norm\u0105: k\u0105 vaikas turi daryti, kada turi daryti, kiek turi suvalgyti, kaip turi mokytis, kaip turi elgtis. Bet i\u0161 kur mes \u017einome, kad b\u016btent taip ir yra teisinga? Kartais tos normos b\u016bna sukurtos ne pagal gyv\u0105 \u017emogaus augim\u0105, o pagal patogi\u0105 sistem\u0105, baim\u0119, \u012fprot\u012f ar nor\u0105 visk\u0105 i\u0161matuoti. Ir tada jos ima tolti nuo paprast\u0173 gamtos d\u0117sni\u0173, kurie visada kalba apie laik\u0105, brendim\u0105, palaipsni\u0161kum\u0105, aplinkos \u012ftak\u0105 ir ry\u0161\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u0161 matau augindama savo vaikus, kad yra tam tikri etapai, kuriuose gali vaik\u0105 spausti, gali versti, gali reikalauti, bet i\u0161 esm\u0117s nieko gero tuo nepadarysi. Tik prarasi jautrum\u0105 tam, kas i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 vyksta. O kartais tereikia palikti vaikui galimyb\u0119 dalyvauti tiek, kiek jis \u0161iandien paj\u0117gia. Ne nura\u0161yti. Ne nuolaid\u017eiauti. O matyti, kad \u017emogus auga ne pagal m\u016bs\u0173 patog\u0173 grafik\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ir turb\u016bt svarbiausia \u010dia ne sriuba, ne skaitymas ir net ne u\u017eduotys. Svarbiausia – neprarasti ry\u0161io su vaiku d\u0117l savo l\u016bkes\u010dio. Nes kartais mes taip stipriai laikom\u0117s to, kaip \u201etur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti\u201c, kad nebematome, kaip yra. O tame \u201ekaip yra\u201c da\u017enai jau yra ma\u017eas \u017eingsnis. Tik jis ne visada atrodo taip, kaip mes tik\u0117jom\u0117s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Charlotte Mason teig\u0117, kad vaikas, kuris dar nemoka skaityti, neb\u016btinai negali m\u0117gautis knyga. Jis gali gauti t\u0105 malonum\u0105 klausydamasis. Gali \u012f\u017eengti \u012f \u012fsivaizduojam\u0105 pasaul\u012f kartu su kitais \u0161eimos nariais, kurie jau moka skaityti. Jam neb\u016btina pa\u010diam mok\u0117ti skaityti, kad knyga j\u012f paliest\u0173. Kartais u\u017etenka tiesiog b\u016bti \u0161alia ir klausytis. 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