Augindami vaikus mes nei\u0161vengiamai galvojame kelet\u0105 \u017eingsni\u0173 \u012f priek\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Neb\u016btinai apie tai, kuo jie taps. K\u0105 dirbs. Kur gyvens. Ar daug u\u017edirbs. Man atrodo, ka\u017ekur giliau slypi kitas klausimas \u2013 \u012f kuri\u0105 pus\u0119 bus nukreiptas j\u0173 vidinis kompasas?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir turb\u016bt daugelis m\u016bs\u0173 \u012f klausim\u0105, ko labiausiai norime savo vaikams, atsakytume labai paprastai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Noriu, kad jis u\u017eaugt\u0173 \u017emogumi.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet pastaruoju metu vis pagaunu save galvojan\u010di\u0105 \u2013 o k\u0105 i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 rei\u0161kia u\u017eaugti \u017emogumi<\/strong>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ar \u017emogus yra tas, kuris i\u0161moko gyventi savo gyvenim\u0105? Pa\u017e\u012fsta save, atranda, kas jam tinka, dirba gal ir visai paprast\u0105 darb\u0105, bet jau\u010diasi savo vietoje. Moka d\u017eiaugtis, kurti santykius, pasir\u016bpinti savimi ir artimaisiais. Gyvena ger\u0105, pilnavert\u012f gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Atrodyt\u0173 \u2013 ko daugiau nor\u0117ti savo vaikui?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet yra ir kita kryptis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kai mano vaikai buvo ma\u017ei, buvau atradusi ugdymo metod\u0105, kuriame buvo viena man labai \u012fstrigusi mintis: vaiko talentus reik\u0117t\u0173 auginti ne vien tam, kad jie pad\u0117t\u0173 jam pa\u010diam gerai gyventi. Reik\u0117t\u0173 pad\u0117ti vaikui atrasti, kaip savo geb\u0117jimais jis gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti naudingas kitiems.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir \u0161i mintis ka\u017ekod\u0117l niekur nedingo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nes i\u0161 karto atsiranda labai nepatogus klausimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kokiam pasauliui mes ruo\u0161iame vaik\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kartais pasi\u017ei\u016bri \u012f j\u012f ir norisi i\u0161mokyti b\u016bti stipr\u0173. Neleisti sav\u0119s i\u0161naudoti. Mok\u0117ti konkuruoti. Pastov\u0117ti u\u017e save. Suprasti, kaip veikia pasaulis, ir neb\u016bti naiviam. Nes pasaulis tikrai ne visada pasitiks j\u012f i\u0161sk\u0117stomis rankomis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir tai b\u016btina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet jeigu visas ugdymas galiausiai tampa tik mokymu gerai prisitaikyti prie to, kas jau yra<\/strong>, kas tada keis tai, kas yra?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0160itas klausimas mane sustabdo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jeigu vaikus mokysime tik rasti savo viet\u0105 pasaulyje, kas kurs kitok\u012f pasaul\u012f?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Galb\u016bt vaiko unikalumas n\u0117ra skirtas vien tam, kad jis pats patogiau susikurt\u0173 gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vienas turi nepaprast\u0105 prot\u0105. Kitas \u2013 rankas, kurios geba i\u0161 nieko sukurti daikt\u0105. Vienas jau\u010dia \u017emones. Kitas mato sistemas ir sprendimus ten, kur kiti mato chaos\u0105. Ka\u017ekas kurs technologijas, ka\u017ekas mokys vaikus, ka\u017ekas statys namus, gydys, augins maist\u0105, ra\u0161ys muzik\u0105 ar tiesiog bus \u017emogus, \u0161alia kurio kitiems pasidaro truput\u012f geriau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gal dovana n\u0117ra tik tai, k\u0105 gavau a\u0161<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gal tikrasis klausimas yra: k\u0105 su tuo, k\u0105 gavau, padarysiu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Man atrodo, \u010dia ir atsiranda tas vidinis kompasas, kur\u012f nor\u0117\u010diau pad\u0117ti savo vaikams u\u017eauginti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ne aukl\u0117ti juos aukotis. Ne mokyti pamir\u0161ti save d\u0117l kit\u0173. Ir tikrai ne auginti patogius \u017emones, kurie visiems duoda, o patys lieka paskutiniai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Visai ne apie tai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nor\u0117\u010diau, kad jie jaust\u0173, jog yra didesn\u0117s visumos dalis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad pasaulis n\u0117ra ka\u017ekas, \u012f k\u0105 a\u0161 ateinu kaip \u012f parduotuv\u0119: pasiimu, kas man naudinga, pasinaudoju galimyb\u0117mis, \u017emon\u0117mis, gamta, visuomene, o kai ka\u017ekas nepatinka \u2013 u\u017etrenkiu duris ir einu ie\u0161koti kitos vietos, i\u0161 kurios gal\u0117\u010diau pasiimti daugiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nes jeigu visi taip gyvename, labai greitai gauname b\u016btent tok\u012f pasaul\u012f, kok\u012f \u0161iandien da\u017enai ir matome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pasaul\u012f, kur\u012f vartojame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ryjame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Imame i\u0161 jo tiek, kiek galime, ir stebim\u0117s, kod\u0117l jis darosi vis \u0161altesnis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tod\u0117l vis da\u017eniau galvoju, kad viena svarbiausi\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti labai paprasta: pasodinti vaikui mint\u012f, kad tai, k\u0105 jis gavo i\u0161 gyvenimo, turi paskirt\u012f.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Jo protas. Jo jautrumas. Jo k\u016brybi\u0161kumas. Jo stipryb\u0117. Jo geb\u0117jimas kalb\u0117ti, skai\u010diuoti, konstruoti, organizuoti, pasteb\u0117ti kit\u0105 \u017emog\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Visa tai priklauso jam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet ne vien jam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir gal tada klausimas \u201eKuo b\u016bsi u\u017eaug\u0119s?\u201c tampa nebe toks svarbus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Daug svarbiau b\u016bt\u0173, kad ka\u017ekur giliai likt\u0173 kiti klausimai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n K\u0105 a\u0161 galiu duoti?<\/strong>\u2028<\/strong>Kur man\u0119s reikia?<\/strong>\u2028<\/strong>K\u0105 d\u0117l man\u0119s \u0161iame pasaulyje galima padaryti bent truput\u012f geriau?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Gal skamba utopi\u0161kai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet kuo ilgiau apie tai galvoju, tuo ma\u017eiau man tai atrodo utopija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nes jei savo vaikams perduosime tik geb\u0117jim\u0105 prisitaikyti prie pasaulio, jie grei\u010diausiai puikiai prie jo prisitaikys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O jeigu perduosime ir jausm\u0105, kad pasaulis tam tikra prasme yra j\u0173 atsakomyb\u0117, galb\u016bt jie ne tik ras jame savo viet\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Galb\u016bt dal\u012f jo sukurs patys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir turb\u016bt b\u016btent \u012f t\u0105 pus\u0119 nor\u0117\u010diau, kad rodyt\u0173 j\u0173 vidinis kompasas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Augindami vaikus mes nei\u0161vengiamai galvojame kelet\u0105 \u017eingsni\u0173 \u012f priek\u012f. 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