Kartais ugdant vaikus \u0161eimoje nutinka toki\u0173 ma\u017e\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kurie, atrodo, visai nereik\u0161mingi. Na, smulkmena ir tiek. Pasijuokei, pasid\u017eiaugei ir gyveni toliau. Bet vis da\u017eniau pagalvoju, kad galb\u016bt verta kartais tokiais dalykais pasidalinti. Ne tod\u0117l, kad parody\u010diau, kaip viskas gra\u017eu ir puiku, ar kad ugdymas \u0161eimoje yra ka\u017ekokia pasaka, gra\u017eus \u201eInstagram\u201c paveiksl\u0117lis. Tikrai ne. Bet kartu tai yra galimyb\u0117 pa\u017einti pasaul\u012f savaip, savu tempu ir kartais atrasti dalyk\u0173, kuri\u0173 net neplanavai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai \u0161tai vienas toks ma\u017eas nutikimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kartais savait\u0117s pabaigoje, o kartais ir prad\u017eioje, priklausomai nuo mokomojo dalyko, pasinaudojame EDUKA ir atliekame tok\u012f savoti\u0161k\u0105 \u017eini\u0173 pasitikrinim\u0105. O kartais vaikams duodu net ir toki\u0173 tem\u0173, kuri\u0173 mes dar nesame mok\u0119si. Tiesiog tam, kad pamaty\u010diau, kiek jie jau \u017eino. Nes i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 vaikai labai daug skaito papildomai, stebi, domisi, klausin\u0117ja ir kartais net nebe\u017einai, ar verta gai\u0161ti laik\u0105 ai\u0161kinant tai, k\u0105 jie jau seniai \u017eino.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tai tokios diagnostin\u0117s u\u017eduot\u0117l\u0117s visai praver\u010dia. Ai\u0161ku, pati j\u0173 strukt\u016bra ir kai kurios formuluot\u0117s ne visada man patinka, ne visada jos atitinka m\u016bs\u0173 mokymosi b\u016bd\u0105, bet \u0161\u012f kart\u0105 ne apie tai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taigi, vaikai atlikin\u0117jo istorijos ir visuomeninio ugdymo u\u017eduotis. Savaranki\u0161kai. A\u0161 ten prie vieno prieinu, prie kito, pasi\u017ei\u016briu, kaip sekasi, ir staiga pamatau s\u016bnaus atsakym\u0105:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eA\u0161 ne proto bok\u0161tas!\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pirmoji mano mintis: \u201eNa, negi negali pasukti t\u0173 smegen\u0117li\u0173? Sugalvok, pabandyk!\u201c Bet jau po keli\u0173 sekund\u017ei\u0173 prad\u0117jau juoktis. Nuginklavo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Tada pri\u0117jau prie dukros, o ten kitas atsakymas:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eTai bus sud\u0117tinga.\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir \u010dia jau visai juokas su\u0117m\u0117. Atsis\u0117dau \u0161alia jos, dar su ta pa\u010dia juoko emocija, ir mes visai ramiai pasi\u0161nek\u0117jome, kas jai pasirod\u0117 taip sud\u0117tinga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir po viso \u0161ito pagalvojau, kad a\u0161 jiems net \u0161iek tiek baltai pavyd\u017eiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tos dr\u0105sos. To paprastumo pasakyti, k\u0105 i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 galvoja. Kad ne\u017eino, kad nesupranta, kad per sud\u0117tinga. Ir ka\u017ekaip visai nesijaudinti, jog galb\u016bt taip atsakyti negalima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mes i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 daug mokom\u0117s komunikuoti. Jeigu ka\u017ekas neai\u0161ku, jeigu i\u0161kyla problema, jeigu \u0161iandien skauda galv\u0105 ar tiesiog sunku susikaupti \u2013 pasakyk. Jeigu nesupranti u\u017eduoties, pasakyk. Nes tik tada galime ka\u017ek\u0105 su tuo daryti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir man labai patinka, kad jie tai daro. Kad yra atviri, nuo\u0161ird\u016bs, kad nebijo pasakyti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O galb\u016bt tas mano baltas pavydas atsirado tod\u0117l, kad pati augdama tokios galimyb\u0117s nelabai tur\u0117jau. Reik\u0117jo s\u0117d\u0117ti, tyl\u0117ti, daryti taip, kaip visi. Savo nuomon\u0119 kartais geriau b\u016bdavo pasilikti sau. Ir, \u017einoma, atsakyti taip, kaip i\u0161 tav\u0119s tikimasi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ir dabar, \u017ei\u016br\u0117dama \u012f savo vaikus, kartais pagalvoju, kaip stipriai vis d\u0117lto norisi i\u0161saugoti t\u0105 j\u0173 dr\u0105s\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai\u0161ku, a\u0161 tikrai nekalbu apie tai, kad vaikas turi i\u0161si\u0161okti, demonstruoti save ar daryti tik tai, k\u0105 nori. Mes esame visuomen\u0117s dalis, gyvename tarp \u017emoni\u0173, turime susitarimus, taisykles, atsakomybes. Ir visa tai labai svarbu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bet man atrodo, kad ne ma\u017eiau svarbu yra i\u0161mokti pasakyti, k\u0105 galvoji. Mok\u0117ti pasakyti, kad ka\u017eko nesupranti. Nebijoti suklysti, paklausti ar net suabejoti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Juk pasaulis kei\u010diasi. Jis daug dinami\u0161kesnis, globalesnis, vis labiau susij\u0119s. Ir a\u0161 vis da\u017eniau galvoju, kad vien geb\u0117jimo atlikti u\u017eduotis pagal pateikt\u0105 instrukcij\u0105 m\u016bs\u0173 vaikams tikrai nepakaks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Reik\u0117s mok\u0117ti m\u0105styti, bendradarbiauti, susikalb\u0117ti, suprasti kit\u0105 \u017emog\u0173. Ir kartu nebijoti b\u016bti savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n O kartais visa tai, matyt, prasideda nuo toki\u0173 ma\u017e\u0173 dalyk\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nuo vieno \u201eA\u0161 ne proto bok\u0161tas!\u201c vidury istorijos u\u017eduoties. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Kartais ugdant vaikus \u0161eimoje nutinka toki\u0173 ma\u017e\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kurie, atrodo, visai nereik\u0161mingi. Na, smulkmena ir tiek. Pasijuokei, pasid\u017eiaugei ir gyveni toliau. Bet vis da\u017eniau pagalvoju, kad galb\u016bt verta kartais tokiais dalykais pasidalinti. Ne tod\u0117l, kad parody\u010diau, kaip viskas gra\u017eu ir puiku, ar kad ugdymas \u0161eimoje yra ka\u017ekokia pasaka, gra\u017eus \u201eInstagram\u201c paveiksl\u0117lis. Tikrai ne. 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