{"id":2496,"date":"2020-03-04T11:38:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-04T09:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/?p=2496"},"modified":"2020-06-14T12:44:18","modified_gmt":"2020-06-14T09:44:18","slug":"patogus-ar-samoningas-vaikas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/patogus-ar-samoningas-vaikas\/","title":{"rendered":",,PATOGUS&#8221; AR S\u0104MONINGAS VAIKAS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u0160iandien kalb\u0117jau su artima drauge ir jos i\u0161gyvenimai vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo tema labai giliai paliet\u0117. Kilo noras para\u0161yti apie suaugusi\u0173 nor\u0105, kad vaikai b\u016bt\u0173 ,,patog\u016bs\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kas labiau myli, pa\u017e\u012fsta ir puosel\u0117ja savo vaikus jeigu ne t\u0117vai? Tik mes nuo pat pirmos u\u017egimimo dienos esame \u0161alia, jau\u010diame kokius etapus vaikai praeina, kaip kei\u010diasi j\u0173 pasaulio suvokimas. Kartu d\u017eiaugiam\u0117s, kartu li\u016bdime. \u017dinoma, mes pateisiname daug dalyk\u0173, tik d\u0117l to, nes jau\u010diame, kad dar vyksta vystymosi procesas, kuris neduoda rezultat\u0173 i\u0161kart. Tai \u017eino tik t\u0117vai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet tik i\u0161eini i\u0161 nam\u0173 \u012f vie\u0161um\u0105, sutinki daugyb\u0119 ,,ekspert\u0173\u201d, kurie vos per kelias minutes nustato tavo aukl\u0117jimo tr\u016bkumus, i\u0161kart papila \u012fvairius pamokymus, kritik\u0105, savo nuomones ir reikalavimus. Kaimyn\u0117 nori, kad vaikas ,,skraidyt\u0173\u201d, ne\u017eaist\u0173 ant grind\u0173, negrot\u0173, b\u016bt\u0173 gerai, kad ir kalb\u0117t\u0173 pa\u0161nib\u017edomis, parduotuv\u0117je \u017emon\u0117s nepatenkinti, nes mat vaikai gauna privilegijas apsipirkti be eil\u0117s, dar\u017eelyje ar mokykloje v\u0117l daugyb\u0117 dalyk\u0173, kuri\u0173 vaikas neturi ar negali daryti. Tai kyla klausimas &#8211; kaip jam egzistuoti? Kaip jam tapti s\u0105moningu \u017emogumi, jeigu ant kiekvieno kampo jis kritikuojamas, bei mokomas vis skirting\u0173 dalyk\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 jau nekalbu apie s\u0105moningus t\u0117vus, kurie nesulaukia jokio visuomen\u0117s palaikymo, gyvena nuolatin\u0117je vidin\u0117je kovoje &#8211; ,,spjauti\u201d k\u0105 sako visuomen\u0117 ir toliau siekti auginti s\u0105moning\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 vieniems ar pasiduoti tam spaudimui ir formuoti kitiems (individams) ,,patog\u0173\u201d vaik\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Patogus vaikas &#8211; gerai i\u0161dresiruotas vaikas. Patogus vaikas &#8211; tai tas, kuris daro, k\u0105 a\u0161 pasakau. Tik paprastai mano pra\u0161ymai, net saky\u010diau, reikalavimai vaikui kyla i\u0161 mano ,,a\u0161\u201d, o ne i\u0161 bendro visuomen\u0117s susitarimo. Tai labiausiai ir klaidina, nes taip ir ,,tampome\u201d vaikus kiekvienas savo asmeniniems norams patenkinti, pamir\u0161dami apie tikrus vaik\u0173 poreikius. O vaikai savo prie\u0161i\u0161kumu, mai\u0161tavimu mums reikalauja krypties i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turb\u016bt n\u0117ra tokio vaiko, kuris nekopijuot\u0173 suaugusio ir nenor\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti ,,didelis\u201d kaip jis. Jie laukia m\u016bs\u0173 pavyzd\u017eio. Jie tiesiog gim\u0117, kad i\u0161mokt\u0173 gyventi, b\u016bti \u017emon\u0117mis, pa\u017eint\u0173 aplink mus veikian\u010dius gamtos d\u0117snius. Jie mus stumia \u012f kit\u0105, visi\u0161kai nauj\u0105 pakop\u0105 &#8211; ry\u0161i\u0173, bendravimo. Pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117kime, jie soc. tinkluose jau\u010diasi gyvi. Viskas, ko jaunimas i\u0161 tikro nori yra bendrauti, dalintis, pad\u0117ti vienas kitam. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta\u010diau m\u016bs\u0173, suaugusi\u0173, ,,A\u0160\u201d visa tai kreipia tokia linkme, kad tik nereik\u0117t\u0173 nieko keisti, ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti. Vietoj to, kad priim\u010diau vaik\u0173 reikalavim\u0105 kaip pagalb\u0105 pakilti \u012f auk\u0161tesn\u012f socialin\u012f egzistavimo lygmen\u012f, \u012f kur\u012f mus stumia ir pati Gamta, a\u0161 renkuosi ir toliau auginti man ,,patogius\u201d vaikus. U\u017emerkiu akis ir viskas ,,pasidaro\u201d taip, kaip a\u0161 noriu.<br>Bet ar turiu kit\u0105 pasirinkim\u0105?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur benuvykt\u0173 \u017emogus, visur jis susidurs su tuo pa\u010diu rei\u0161kiniu &#8211; \u017emogus galvoja tik apie save. Tik jis yra pasaulio valdovas. Jis protingiausias. Jis geriausias. Bet tuom visas jo vystymasis ir baigiasi. Ta\u0161kas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dmonijai verkiant reikalinga kita pakopa, kurioje i\u0161 linijinio m\u0105stymo tik apie save pereit\u0173 \u012f global\u0173, kuriame matyt\u0173 ir kitus kaip savo gyvenimo dalimi.<br>\u0160tai kur veda mus m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai. \u0160tai kur reikalinga vieninga kryptis, vieningas aukl\u0117jimas, kad nesvarbu namuose, gatv\u0117je, mokykloje &#8211; visur b\u016bt\u0173 kalbama apie \u0161i\u0105 pakop\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasaulis globalus. Tad ir mums reikia grei\u010diau ie\u0161koti b\u016bd\u0173 gyventi globaliai.<br>\u0160iandien mus i\u0161tinkan\u010dios problemos ai\u0161kiai parodo, kad visas pasaulis yra vienoje valtyje. Juk mes nenorime nusk\u0119sti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ie\u0161kokime kartu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" width=\"560\" height=\"248\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u0161 nekalbu apie s\u0105moningus t\u0117vus, kurie nesulaukia jokio visuomen\u0117s palaikymo, gyvena nuolatin\u0117je vidin\u0117je kovoje &#8211; ,,spjauti\u201d k\u0105 sako visuomen\u0117 ir toliau siekti auginti s\u0105moning\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 vieniems ar pasiduoti tam spaudimui ir formuoti kitiems (individams) ,,patog\u0173\u201d 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