{"id":2500,"date":"2020-02-15T11:42:00","date_gmt":"2020-02-15T09:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/?p=2500"},"modified":"2020-06-14T12:34:05","modified_gmt":"2020-06-14T09:34:05","slug":"2500-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/2500-2\/","title":{"rendered":"ALFA KARTA. kod\u0117l j\u0173 niekas nebejaudina?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Neseniai pa\u017eistamas pasidalino savo nuostaba:
– \u017dinai, neseniai skridau pas gimines \u012f \u0160veicarij\u0105. Pamaniau pasiimsiu an\u016bk\u0105 kartu, jam bus naujas \u012fsp\u016bdis, pirmas kartas skristi l\u0117ktuvu. Ir \u0161tai mes jau oro uoste, lipame \u012f l\u0117ktuv\u0105 ir a\u0161 matau, kad tai visai jo nejaudina. Vos \u012flipome, atsis\u0117dome, jis prisiseg\u0117 saugos dir\u017eus ir pasipra\u0161\u0117 picos. Net nepanoro s\u0117sti prie lango! Atrod\u0117, kad jis b\u016bt\u0173 skraid\u0119s l\u0117ktuvu \u0161imtus kart\u0173. Mes atostog\u0173 metu daug kalb\u0117jome, aplank\u0117me daug \u012fdomi\u0173 viet\u0173, ta\u010diau jis \u012f visk\u0105 \u017evelg\u0117 taip nat\u016braliai. Tarsi visk\u0105 jau \u017einot\u0173. Likau suglum\u0119s, kad \u0161iandien vaik\u0173 niekas nebejaudina taip, kaip jaudino mus vaikyst\u0117je.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikrai taip. Pagaunu save, kai vis bandau vaikams si\u016blyti dalykus, kurie man buvo naujov\u0117, kuo a\u0161 \u017eav\u0117jausi ir netur\u0117jau ar \u0161iandien nor\u0117\u010diau pati i\u0161bandyti. Ir nustembu, kai jie tai priima taip ,,paprastai\u201d, be dideli\u0173 emocij\u0173.
A\u0161 vis praleid\u017eiu ma\u017eyt\u0119 esmin\u0119 detal\u0119 – \u0161i karta kitokia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016bs\u0173 vaikai gim\u0117 pasaulyje, kuriame viskas jau atrasta, paai\u0161kinta, sukurta. Jie materialiai apr\u016bpinti viskuo. J\u0173 ne\u017eavi ateities planai: \u012fgyti i\u0161silavinim\u0105, susirasti darb\u0105, \u012fsigyti b\u016bst\u0105, sukurti \u0161eim\u0105 ir t.t. Tai n\u0117ra juos ,,ve\u017eantis\u201d arkliukas. Didelis procentas vaik\u0173 pasaulyje nuo 10-11 met\u0173 jau vartoja antidepresantus, nes jau\u010dia viduje mil\u017eini\u0161k\u0105 tu\u0161tum\u0105. Visko nusivylim\u0105. Jie gyvena tarsi pakib\u0119 ore tarp \u017eem\u0117s ir dangaus. Tai jau\u010diasi ir suaugusieji, ta\u010diau mes labiau patyr\u0119. Mokame vaidinti, nukreipti mintis kitur. Ir mums tai padaryti lengviau, nes nejau\u010diame to didelio vidinio spaudimo, kok\u012f \u0161iandien jau\u010dia vaikai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manyje nuolatos vyksta paie\u0161kos, steb\u0117jimai ir skai\u010diavimai – tai ko gi tr\u016bksta m\u016bs\u0173 vaikams? Kaip i\u0161tr\u016bkti i\u0161 to nusivylimo?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nema\u017eai yra literat\u016bros apie alfa kartos vaikus, apie j\u0173 specifinius po\u017eymius, jiems b\u016bdingus mokymosi ir bendravimo principus. Labiausiai \u012fstrigo tai, kad \u0161ie vaikai link\u0119 dirbti kaip partneriai, draugai; reikalauja pagarbos; jie visame kame reikalauja paai\u0161kinimo ,,kod\u0117l?\u201d; ie\u0161ko gyvenimo prasm\u0117s; labiausiai \u017eavi mokslai apie kosmos\u0105, nes tikisi, kad visatoje atras auk\u0161tesn\u012f, nei \u0161is materialus, pasaul\u012f, kuriame pa\u017eins visus aplink mus veikian\u010dius d\u0117snius; negali pak\u0119sti, kai juos ver\u010dia ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti, nori veiksmus atlikti savo iniciatyva; jiems reikalingas ne mokytojas, o pagalbininkas; \u0161ios kartos vaikai ie\u0161ko tiesos, tad labai greitai jau\u010dia netikrum\u0105, mel\u0105 ir atmeta tai; jie labiausiai lavinami vaikai i\u0161 vis\u0173 kart\u0173; labai jautr\u016bs ir u\u017edari, mieliau renkasi virtual\u0173, iliuzin\u012f bendravim\u0105, nors i\u0161 ties\u0173 trok\u0161ta ger\u0173 tarpusavio santyki\u0173, fizinio bendravimo, ta\u010diau to pasaulyje neranda ir ,,b\u0117ga\u201d \u012f iliuzij\u0105, kurioje gali b\u016bti bet kas…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\ud83d\udc46\ud83c\udffcTai paai\u0161kina daug dalyk\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinot, stebiu savo vaikus, vaikus aplink, klausau kit\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173 \u012f\u017evalg\u0173 ir tikrai matau, kad m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai tarsi ka\u017eko, patys nesuvogdami, inirtingai ie\u0161ko. Pabando vien\u0105 dalyk\u0105 – meta, tikrina kit\u0105 – ne, tai ne tai. Ir v\u0117l ie\u0161ko. I\u0161 to kyla ir hiperaktyvumas, nes jie tarsi \u0161okin\u0117ja ragaudami visk\u0105 i\u0161 eil\u0117s ir nerasdami reikiamo skonio. Ir tik laiko klausimas kada mano vaikas pavargs, pasiduos ir nuleis rankas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mane, kaip mam\u0105, jaudina tai kokio skonio jie ie\u0161ko. Galb\u016bt yra ir daugiau t\u0117v\u0173, \u017evelgian\u010di\u0173 \u012f savo vaikus ir galvojan\u010di\u0173: ,,Kokio vidinio turinio jie reikalauja? Kaip mes, suaugusieji, turime elgtis, kad ,,suvaldyti\u201d \u0161itaip siaut\u0117jan\u010di\u0105 kart\u0105? Kas jiems suteikt\u0173 gyvenimo tiksl\u0105? Ko jie tur\u0117t\u0173 siekti? Kokio ateities pasaulio jiems reikia? Kokia m\u016bs\u0173 paskirtis?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Turb\u016bt, kai atsakysime patys sau \u012f \u0161iuos klausymus – \u017einosime k\u0105 duoti vaikams. \u0160iai dienai galime sujungti savo r\u016bpest\u012f \u012f vien\u0105 didel\u012f ta\u0161k\u0105 ir giliai \u0161irdyje panor\u0117ti visa tai su\u017einoti, pajausti ir, galiausiai, i\u0161tr\u016bkti i\u0161 tos nevilties jausmo, kuris kartais aplanko kiekvien\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neseniai pa\u017eistamas pasidalino savo nuostaba:
\n– \u017dinai, neseniai skridau pas gimines \u012f \u0160veicarij\u0105. Pamaniau pasiimsiu an\u016bk\u0105 kartu, jam bus naujas \u012fsp\u016bdis, pirmas kartas skristi l\u0117ktuvu. Ta\u010diau likau suglum\u0119s, kad \u0161iandien vaik\u0173 niekas nebejaudina taip, kaip jaudino mus vaikyst\u0117je.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2828,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[135,136,112,123],"class_list":["post-2500","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai","tag-alfa-karta","tag-kartu-skirtumai","tag-straipsniai","tag-vaiku-auklejimas"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-straipsniai-alfa-karta-01.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Neseniai pa\u017eistamas pasidalino savo nuostaba: - \u017dinai, neseniai skridau pas gimines \u012f \u0160veicarij\u0105. Pamaniau pasiimsiu an\u016bk\u0105 kartu, jam bus naujas \u012fsp\u016bdis, pirmas kartas skristi l\u0117ktuvu. 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