{"id":2524,"date":"2020-04-07T15:09:26","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T12:09:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/?p=2524"},"modified":"2020-06-14T17:06:38","modified_gmt":"2020-06-14T14:06:38","slug":"gera-buti-mama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/gera-buti-mama\/","title":{"rendered":"GERA B\u016aTI MAMA!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8211; Ech, jau\u010diu nebegaliu&#8230;<br>Ir tada pasigirsta vyro klausimas:<br>&#8211; O d\u0117l ko tu tai darai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pastaruoju laiku gyvenimo tempas toks greitas, kad norisi kartais ,,paleisti\u201d visk\u0105 i\u0161 savo rank\u0173. Ir tik d\u0117l to, jog manai, kad nesugebi suvaldyti visko. Vyro klausimas ,,d\u0117l ko a\u0161 tai darau, d\u0117l ko a\u0161 mama, savo laisv\u0105 laik\u0105 skirianti vaik\u0173 ugdymui ir aukl\u0117jimui\u201d man ilgai neleido miegoti.<br>Svars\u010diau kas b\u016bt\u0173 jeigu nusto\u010diau s\u0105moningai investuoti \u012f vaikus: nesuk\u010diau galvos kokias vertybes gauna vaikai, kokioje aplinkoje b\u016bna, nesivargin\u010diau apie visk\u0105 pasakoti, rodyti, nepalik\u010diau vietos vaikams pasijausti lygiaver\u010diais \u0161eimos nariais, nepad\u0117\u010diau kartu \u012fveikti augimo \u0161uoli\u0173, nesmerkiant ir nekritikuojant, nesuteik\u010diau galimyb\u0117s laisvai vystyti savo potencial\u0105. Tai b\u016bt\u0173 katastrofa! Vaikai ma\u017eai kuo skirt\u0173si nuo gyv\u016bn\u0173.<br>\u0160is paskai\u010diavimas kiekvien\u0105 kart\u0105 pa\u0161alina abejones.<br>Gamta apdovanoja mus vienomis ar kitomis savyb\u0117mis. Jau\u010diu, kad sukauptas \u017eini\u0173 ir patirties baga\u017eas n\u0117ra \u0161eip sau man duotas. Privalau j\u012f naudoti. Nuolatinis darbas su savo vaikais sukuria daug nuostabi\u0173 dalyk\u0173: vaikas s\u0105moning\u0117ja, pradeda suvokti pagal kokius d\u0117snius gyvename ir kaip prie j\u0173 prisitaikyti, atranda savyje \u012fvairiausi\u0173 a\u0161tri\u0173 kamp\u0173 ir dr\u0105siai juos priima kaip b\u016btinus jo vystymuisi, mokosi pa\u017einti kokie yra geri santykiai tarp \u017emoni\u0173 ir kaip priimti tokius, kokius turime \u0161iandien, ir svarbiausia, per vaikus a\u0161 taip pat kei\u010diuosi. \u0160i abipus\u0117 transformacija i\u0161 gyv\u016bno \u012f s\u0105moning\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 mus labai jungia. \u017dinios dings, o tas ry\u0161ys liks am\u017eiams ir persiduos i\u0161 kartos \u012f kart\u0105. Vaikai pajut\u0119 tikr\u0173 santyki\u0173 skon\u012f, sieks toki\u0173 visur. O kur geri santykiai &#8211; ten mes jau\u010diam\u0117s laimingi. Juk tai tikroji realyb\u0117. Tai laimingas gyvenimas, kurio norime savo vaikams. Ir tai atsakymas \u012f mano vyro klausim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dabar galiu ramiai miegoti, nes laukia nauja diena, po kurios visi b\u016bsime visai kitokie ir turb\u016bt v\u0117l i\u0161tarsiu: ,,jau\u010diu nebegaliu\u201d.<br>Bet visada yra pasirinkimas- galiu \u0161aukti, ignoruoti, vadovauti, kritikuoti, bet tai bus tik gyv\u016bno dresiravimas. Ne aukl\u0117jimas. Arba galiu ie\u0161koti b\u016bd\u0173 kaip dirbti su manyje prabunda\u010diu \u017ev\u0117riu, nepakenkiant vaik\u0173 vystymuisi ir rodant teising\u0105 pavyzd\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai u\u017edaras ratas, kuris sukasi tik artimos aplinkos palaikymu, supratimu. 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