Meil\u0117 – tai abipusis palaikymas vienas kito. Meil\u0117 – tai jausmas, kad tave myli u\u017e tai koks tu esi, tavimi r\u016bpinasi. Tai labai stiprios emocijos. Gyv\u016bnai \u0161ito neturi.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Visada poroje atsiranda toks momentas, kad du \u017emon\u0117s tarsi myli vienas kit\u0105, ta\u010diau vienas \u012fsivaizduoja meil\u0119 vienaip, kitas – kitaip. Ir tai yra d\u0117l to, kad \u017emon\u0117s nebuvo mokomi kaip reikia myl\u0117ti. Meil\u0117 tai \u017emoni\u0173 santykiai, poreikis, po\u017ei\u016bris vieniems \u012f kitus. D\u0117l to mums reikia studijuoti ir mokyti \u0161ito. Tai ne seksas, tai labiau sugeb\u0117jimas u\u017epildyti vidinius kito \u017emogaus poreikius. Tai gali b\u016bti visi\u0161kai nesusij\u0119 su seksu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet k\u0105 mokytis apie meil\u0119? Kaip pakeisti savo \u012fpro\u010dius, kad kitam suteik\u010diau malonum\u0105?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kad tai padarytum, turi pajausti koks yra kitas \u017emogus. Tai reikalauja labai rimto darbo vienam su kitu. Ir svarbu neb\u016bti droviems. Kalb\u0117ti, ai\u0161kintis, netyl\u0117ti ir negalvoti:,, ne, a\u0161 noriu, kad jis atsp\u0117t\u0173\u201d. Kaip jis gali atsp\u0117ti? Tai kas pad\u0117t\u0173 porai bet kokioje situacijoje laikytis meil\u0117s d\u0117snio j\u0173 tarpusavio santykiuose?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pirmiausia reikia i\u0161mokti nusileisti. Meil\u0117 yra gyv\u016bnas, esantis \u0161alia tav\u0119s ir j\u012f turi \u0161erti tarpusavio nusileidimais. Moters prigimtyje yra sugeb\u0117jimas prisiderinti prie vyro. Ji i\u0161mintinga. Ji suteikia gyvyb\u0119. Ji turi sukurti tam tikr\u0105 aplimk\u0105, kad i\u0161aukl\u0117t\u0173 vaikus. Gamta jai suteikia tokius sugeb\u0117jimus. Ji tur\u0117t\u0173 rodyti pavyzd\u012f vyrui. Vyrai labai primityv\u016bs. Jiems tik reikia \u0161iek tiek priminti dalykus, kuriuos jie gaudavo i\u0161 mamos ir jie b\u0117gs paskui moter\u012f kaip vaikai paskui mam\u0105. \u0160tai ir viskas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tokia m\u016bs\u0173 prigimtis. Ir tarp m\u016bs\u0173 labai paprasta santyki\u0173 sistema: galvoti kaip nuolat suteikti malonum\u0105 kitam, kad ir atrodo visai ma\u017eyt\u012f. Bet visa tai reikalauja i\u0161minties, patirties ir \u017emogaus psichologijos suvokimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u0117 vienas neabejojame, kad be jos neb\u016bt\u0173 gyvyb\u0117s.Da\u017enai meil\u0119 painiojame su seksu. Bet \u017emon\u0117s ie\u0161ko ka\u017eko daugiau negu tik mechaninis veiksmas d\u0117l momentinio malonumo. Mes nenorime tik poruotis kaip gyv\u016bnai. Mes ie\u0161kome \u0161ilumos, artumo, bendro supratimo, r\u016bpes\u010dio vienas kitu. Tai mes vadiname meile. Dauguma poroje susiduria su tuo, kad santyki\u0173 prad\u017aioje b\u016bna romanti\u0161kas periodas, tada […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3567,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-KODEL-MUMS-REIKIA-MEILES-01.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"N\u0117 vienas neabejojame, kad be jos neb\u016bt\u0173 gyvyb\u0117s.Da\u017enai meil\u0119 painiojame su seksu. Bet \u017emon\u0117s ie\u0161ko ka\u017eko daugiau negu tik mechaninis veiksmas d\u0117l momentinio malonumo. Mes nenorime tik poruotis kaip gyv\u016bnai. Mes ie\u0161kome \u0161ilumos, artumo, bendro supratimo, r\u016bpes\u010dio vienas kitu. Tai mes vadiname meile. Dauguma poroje susiduria su tuo, kad santyki\u0173 prad\u017aioje b\u016bna romanti\u0161kas periodas, tada…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3558","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3558"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3558\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5347,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3558\/revisions\/5347"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3558"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3558"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3558"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
Pora turi i\u0161mokti kalb\u0117ti apie visk\u0105 atvirai, diskutuoti. Nors jauni \u017emon\u0117s nem\u0117gsta to, galvoja, kad viskas turi b\u016bti spontani\u0161ka, paprasta ir nieko nelaukiant. Bet \u017emogus yra labai sud\u0117tingas gyv\u016bnas. Tad nat\u016braliai nieko ne\u012fvyks. Tik tolsime vienas nuo kito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"\"](\"http:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg\")
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