{"id":4025,"date":"2019-11-12T19:00:48","date_gmt":"2019-11-12T17:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=4025"},"modified":"2020-06-14T12:22:18","modified_gmt":"2020-06-14T09:22:18","slug":"kai-norisi-susikrauti-lagamina-ir-iseiti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kai-norisi-susikrauti-lagamina-ir-iseiti\/","title":{"rendered":"KAI NORISI SUSIKRAUTI LAGAMIN\u0104 IR I\u0160EITI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

B\u016bdama mama visada gaunu tiek daug pamok\u0173, kurios visi\u0161kai pakei\u010dia mano vidin\u012f pasaul\u012f, mano po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f vaikus, aukl\u0117jim\u0105 ir gyvenim\u0105. Viena i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 pamok\u0173 buvo labai svarbi, kuri tapo vienas i\u0161 pagrind\u0173 aukl\u0117jime.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0117vus da\u017enai u\u017epl\u016bsta akimirkos, kuomet vaikai ver\u010dia mus jaustis sutrikusiais, li\u016bdnais ar net piktais. Visi i\u0161gyvename \u0161ias b\u016bsenas. Paprastai mus jos aplanko trumpomis akimirkomis dienos b\u0117gyje, tad pavyksta susitvarkyti su jomis. Kartais geriau, kartais blogiau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet vien\u0105 dien\u0105 mano keturmetis s\u016bnus atsik\u0117l\u0117 visi\u0161kai kitoks. \u012eprastai mes kartu pusry\u010diaujame ir einame mokytis ar \u017eaisti. Bet t\u0105 ryt\u0105 jis ignoravo visk\u0105. A\u0161 i\u0161m\u0117ginau visus m\u016bs\u0173 bendravimo \u012frankius, bet jis tiesiog buvo prie\u0161i\u0161kas viskam k\u0105 a\u0161 pasaky\u010diau, pasi\u016bly\u010diau ar dary\u010diau. Jis prad\u0117jo erzinti ses\u0119. Kaskart eidamas pro j\u0105 ,,neva\u201d nety\u010dia u\u017egauna ir dar d\u017ei\u016bgauja d\u0117l to. \u017dinojau, kad ka\u017ekas nutiko. Tad prad\u0117jau ie\u0161koti prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 jame, ne savyje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirm\u0105 dien\u0105 a\u0161 buvau rami, motyvuota ,,suvaldyti\u201d situacij\u0105. Antra dien\u0105 man prad\u0117jo tr\u016bkti kantryb\u0117. O situacija dar\u0117si vis sud\u0117tingesn\u0117 ir sud\u0117tingesn\u0117. A\u0161 jau\u010diau, kad darosi vis sunkiau suvaldyti man\u0105j\u012f ,,A\u0161\u201d, jeigu viskas vyksta ne taip, kaip tas ,,A\u0161\u201d nori. Tad nusprend\u017eiau, kad geriausia i\u0161eitis – tiesiog ignoruoti tok\u012f s\u016bnaus elges\u012f ir vaidinti, kad nieko nevyksta. Beliko i\u0161gyventi t\u0105 dien\u0105 su viltimi, kad ryte bus nauja diena\u2026 Bet ji nebuvo geresn\u0117! Po keletos toki\u0173 \u012ftempt\u0173 dien\u0173, viskas ko nor\u0117josi tai apsiauti batus, paimti krep\u0161\u012f ir i\u0161eiti. I\u0161eiti ne tod\u0117l, kad nebegal\u0117jau toliau kontroliuoti situacijos ar i\u0161k\u0119sti tokio spaudimo. Bet i\u0161eiti, nes bijojau emoci\u0161kai pakenkti vaikams. Mano ,,A\u0161\u201d buvo pasireng\u0119s padaryti visk\u0105, kad tik s\u016bnus daryt\u0173 kaip sakau (juk tai jo pa\u010dio labui), ta\u010diau vidin\u0117 mama, kuri r\u016bpinasi ir myli savo vaik\u0105, galvojo kaip apsaugoti j\u012f nuo jo pa\u010dio. A\u0161 nei\u0161\u0117jau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tik mano artim\u0173 draugi\u0173 \u017eod\u017eiai pad\u0117jo man pakilti vir\u0161 to. Jos sak\u0117:,,mama privalo pad\u0117ti vaikui atrasti vis\u0105 blog\u012f savyje ir i\u0161mokyti j\u012f kaip visa tai \u012fveikti\u201d. A\u0161 pasilikau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet t\u0105nakt negal\u0117jau u\u017emigti. Mano smegenys vis galvojo, galvojo, galvojo\u2026 tuo pat metu viduje jutau, kad man reikalinga pagalba i\u0161 Gamtos. Kad mums reikalingas ,,atnaujinimo\u201d mygtukas, kuris pad\u0117t\u0173 sustabdyti t\u0105 beprotyb\u0119 ir suteikt\u0173 galimyb\u0119 prad\u0117ti visk\u0105 i\u0161 naujo. A\u0161 ne\u017einojau k\u0105 daryti. Mano ,,A\u0161\u201d buvo nuginkluotas. A\u0161 tiesiog pasidaviau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ryte viskas vis dar buvo chaoti\u0161ka. Pajungiau dokumentin\u0119 laid\u0105 apie global\u0173 pasaul\u012f su k\u0117tinimu nusiraminti ir i\u0161gyventi dar vien\u0105 dien\u0105. Ta laida buvo apie \u017dem\u0119, kaip viskas buvo sukurta, kaip viskas harmoninga joje ir t.t. Mano s\u016bnui tikrai tai patiko. Staiga, mano mintys ir jausmai \u0117m\u0117 keistis. Pama\u010diau, kokia esu ma\u017ea visos Gamtos at\u017evilgiu. I\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s, supratau koks yra svarbus mano asmeninis pavyzdys. Net jeigu a\u0161 tik 1% visoje sistemoje, bet savo veiksmais ir mintimis \u012ftakoju j\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gamtos didyb\u0117s jausmas privert\u0117 suma\u017einti save, nusiraminti ir siekti teisingo sprendimo. Ir tada i\u0161girdau sakin\u012f:,,Gamtoje egzistuoja d\u0117snis- jeigu tu duodi \u017emogui, jis yra \u012fpareigotas duoti tau atgal.\u201d Tai buvo man raktas. A\u0161 nor\u0117jau, kad s\u016bnus veikt\u0173 i\u0161vien su \u0161eima, o ne prie\u0161 j\u0105, tod\u0117l man reikia nuolatos j\u012f atakuoti su meile, r\u016bpes\u010diu ir pagarba. Tai skamb\u0117jo \u012ftikinamai! Ta\u010diau man nor\u0117josi \u012fsitikinti kaip tai veikia. Kaip tik tuo metu mano s\u016bnus ka\u017eko papra\u0161\u0117, a\u0161 nei\u0161girdau ir papra\u0161iau pakartoti. O jis, \u017einoma, nepatenkintas atr\u0117\u017e\u0117, kad nieko man nekartos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar prie\u0161 kelias minutes b\u016b\u010diau atsakiusi: ,,Nenori ir nereikia\u201d. Bet \u0161\u012fkart a\u0161 atlikin\u0117jau eksperiment\u0105, tod\u0117l tur\u0117jau nepaleisti k\u0117tinimo. Su \u0161ypsena veide a\u0161 jam paai\u0161kinau, kad man labai svarbu i\u0161girsti k\u0105 jis sak\u0117, nes noriu, kad jis b\u016bt\u0173 laimingas. S\u016bnus jau nor\u0117jo v\u0117l burnoti, bet gal\u0117jau matyti kaip jis suvok\u0117, kad nesu nusiteikusi prie\u0161 j\u012f. A\u0161 kartu su juo. Jis nusi\u0161ypsojo. Jo balsas i\u0161dav\u0117 koks susijaudin\u0119s ir laimingas jis buvo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0161 t\u0119siau \u0161\u012f eksperiment\u0105 vis\u0105 dien\u0105 kol \u012fsitikinau, kad tai veikia. \u0160io ma\u017eo triuko pagalba mes abu perkop\u0117me t\u0105 did\u017eiul\u012f kaln\u0105, kuris stov\u0117jo tarp m\u016bs\u0173. Visas \u0161ias dienas a\u0161 nor\u0117jau suart\u0117ti su s\u016bnumi, bet mano kritika, ignoravimas tik atst\u016bm\u0117 j\u012f. Suk\u016br\u0117 tikr\u0105 chaos\u0105 namuose. Ir visa tai padariau a\u0161, mano po\u017ei\u016bris, mano i\u0161didumas. Mano ma\u017easis herojus nor\u0117jo tik mano d\u0117mesio, meil\u0117s, kuri tapo ma\u017eiau matoma i\u0161ori\u0161kai, nes turime ma\u017e\u0105 sesut\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiekvien\u0105 dien\u0105 mes vistiek turime tam tikr\u0105 nuotaik\u0173 dinamik\u0105, kas yra normalu, bet a\u0161 atradau vien\u0105 i\u0161 b\u016bd\u0173 kaip suart\u0117ti su s\u016bnumi, leisti jam pajausti, kad yra mylimas, saugus ir ypatingas, nesvarbu kas benutikt\u0173. Dalinuosi \u0161ia istorija su jumis, nes kit\u0105kart kai nor\u0117siu i\u0161eiti, man reik\u0117s, kad j\u016bs primintum\u0117t \u0161i\u0105 paprast\u0105 Gamtos taisykl\u0119. Viena to padaryti nesugeb\u0117siu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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B\u016bdama mama visada gaunu tiek daug pamok\u0173, kurios visi\u0161kai pakei\u010dia mano vidin\u012f pasaul\u012f, mano po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f vaikus, aukl\u0117jim\u0105 ir gyvenim\u0105. Viena i\u0161 \u0161i\u0173 pamok\u0173 buvo labai svarbi, kuri tapo vienas i\u0161 pagrind\u0173 aukl\u0117jime.   T\u0117vus da\u017enai u\u017epl\u016bsta akimirkos, kuomet vaikai ver\u010dia mus jaustis sutrikusiais, li\u016bdnais ar net piktais. Visi i\u0161gyvename \u0161ias b\u016bsenas. 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