Neseniai i\u0161girdau \u017eod\u017eius, kurie mane tiesiog paker\u0117jo: ,,Po pandemijos, naujos visuomen\u0117s gimimui, jokia kita j\u0117ga pasaulyje n\u0117ra taip reikalinga kaip mamos.\u201d
Tai i\u0161kart nuk\u0117l\u0117 mano mintis \u012f paskutiniuosius n\u0117\u0161tumo m\u0117nesius, kokiame laukime, nerime ir baim\u0117je gyvena b\u016bsima mama. Pamenu t\u0105 b\u016bsen\u0105, kai nori, jog vaikelis gimt\u0173 grei\u010diau, nes jau darosi nepakeliama, n\u0117\u0161tumas vis labiau erzina ir vargina, nei d\u017eiugina. Baim\u0117s lygis auga minut\u0117mis. Prasideda laukimo metas, sp\u0117lion\u0117s ar jau, ar gims sveikas… Vaisiui irgi darosi sud\u0117tingiau, jam tr\u016bksta vietos. Art\u0117jant gimimo terminui, vaisius pradeda suvokti, kad egzistuoja mama, kuri visada buvo \u0161alia, kalb\u0117jo jam, dainavo, dav\u0117 visk\u0105, ko tik reikia, kad jis vystyt\u0173si sveikas ir laimingas.
Tai labai svarbus momentas, nes jam niekada net nekilo mintis, kad egzistuoja ka\u017ekas daugiau nei jis ir \u012fs\u010dios. Taigi, t\u0105 akimirk\u0105 jis u\u017esinori b\u016bti kaip mama – savaranki\u0161kas, pats galvoti, vystytis. Jis \u017eavisi ja, bet kartu ima ir nek\u0119sti jos. Tiksliau, ne mamos pa\u010dios, bet tos priklausomyb\u0117s nuo jos. I\u0161 to noro i\u0161silaisvinti tiek i\u0161 \u012fs\u010di\u0173, tiek i\u0161 tokios formos santyki\u0173 ir prasideda gimimo procesas. B\u016bsimas ma\u017eylis duoda signal\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vaikeliui kelias labai siauras ir tamsus, gimda susitraukin\u0117dama stumia ir spaud\u017eia j\u012f ne\u017emoni\u0161ka j\u0117ga, jis ne\u017eino kur pateks, bet vidinis noras nebenori pasilikti \u012fs\u010diose. Ir negali, nes mamos organizmas, vos tik gav\u0119s signal\u0105 i\u0161 ma\u017eylio, ilgai globoj\u0119s svetimk\u016bn\u012f savyje, pradeda stumti j\u012f lauk. Mama \u0161iame procese deda mil\u017eini\u0161kas pastangas pad\u0117ti b\u016bsimam ma\u017eyliui grei\u010diau gimti. Ji apgaubia j\u012f palaikymo ir padr\u0105sinimo lauku. Ir po toki\u0173 stipri\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173 \u012fvyksta stebuklas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Taip detaliai apra\u0161iau \u0161\u012f proces\u0105 neatsitiktinai. Man tai labai primena kas vyskta su mumis, \u017emonija, \u0161iandien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gamta mums duoda visk\u0105. Mes nuolatos tobul\u0117jame tarsi jos \u012fs\u010diose, net nesuvokdami i\u0161 kur viskas ateina. Kaip ir vaisius, gauname ir tiek. Bet tik iki to ta\u0161ko, kai suvoksime, kad yra mama ir kils noras patiems b\u016bti kaip ji, sugeb\u0117ti r\u016bpintis savimi ir kitais, galvoti ir gyventi savaranki\u0161kai, nepriklausyti jai, bet b\u016bti kaip ji. B\u016bti mamos partneriais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vis daugiau specialist\u0173 ra\u0161o apie tai, kad mes egzistuojame gamtos sistemoje, kuri mus tiek \u0161imtme\u010di\u0173 aptarnauja kaip mama.
Paskutiniu laiku i\u0161 tikro pastebiu, kad \u017emoni\u0173 s\u0105moningumas taip spar\u010diai did\u0117ja ir gimsta noras periimti vald\u017ei\u0105 \u012f savo rankas, b\u016bti savaranki\u0161kais, s\u0105moningais. R\u016bpintis pasauliu.
Negana to, nema\u017eai mokslinink\u0173 kalba, kad \u0161is globalus pasaulis turi pereiti \u012f nauj\u0105 gyvenimo lygmen\u012f, kuriame pats pasaulis vers mus r\u016bpintis vienas kitu taip, kaip tai daro mama, kurdama \u0161ilumos ir meil\u0117s lauk\u0105 aplink savo vaikus. Gimdymas toks dalykas, kad vaisiui subrendus, jis privalo \u012fvykti. Tik klausimas ar vaisius tai padaro savo noru ar ne. Gimdymo skausmai n\u0117ra malon\u016bs, bet jie b\u016btini, kad gimt\u0173 \u017emogus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0160tai kod\u0117l mane su\u017eav\u0117jo tie \u017eod\u017eiai, nes mamai \u0161is visas procesas artimiausias. Ji patyr\u0117 kokia stipri yra motini\u0161ka meil\u0117, kiek visko ji gali padaryti d\u0117l savo vaik\u0173. O dabar, kaip niekad, visiems reikia palaikymo, padr\u0105sinimo nebijoti poky\u010di\u0173, \u012fveikti nerim\u0105 ir baim\u0119, pajausti koks svarbus ir daug \u017eadantis yra \u0161is gimimo procesas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Neseniai i\u0161girdau \u017eod\u017eius, kurie mane tiesiog paker\u0117jo: ,,Po pandemijos, naujos visuomen\u0117s gimimui, jokia kita j\u0117ga pasaulyje n\u0117ra taip reikalinga kaip mamos.\u201dTai i\u0161kart nuk\u0117l\u0117 mano mintis \u012f paskutiniuosius n\u0117\u0161tumo m\u0117nesius, kokiame laukime, nerime ir baim\u0117je gyvena b\u016bsima mama. Pamenu t\u0105 b\u016bsen\u0105, kai nori, jog vaikelis gimt\u0173 grei\u010diau, nes jau darosi nepakeliama, n\u0117\u0161tumas vis labiau erzina ir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4058,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[116,113,112],"class_list":["post-4057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","tag-motyvacija","tag-o-kas-apie-ja","tag-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imami-ugdymas-auklejimas-namuose-motinos-jega.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Neseniai i\u0161girdau \u017eod\u017eius, kurie mane tiesiog paker\u0117jo: ,,Po pandemijos, naujos visuomen\u0117s gimimui, jokia kita j\u0117ga pasaulyje n\u0117ra taip reikalinga kaip mamos.\u201dTai i\u0161kart nuk\u0117l\u0117 mano mintis \u012f paskutiniuosius n\u0117\u0161tumo m\u0117nesius, kokiame laukime, nerime ir baim\u0117je gyvena b\u016bsima mama. 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