{"id":5149,"date":"2020-07-18T00:25:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T21:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5149"},"modified":"2020-07-23T00:55:21","modified_gmt":"2020-07-22T21:55:21","slug":"antras-vaikas-seimoje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/antras-vaikas-seimoje\/","title":{"rendered":"ANTRAS VAIKAS \u0160EIMOJE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

KAIP PARUO\u0160TI PIRMAGIM\u012e PRIIMTI NAUJ\u0104 GYVYB\u0118<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmiausia, turb\u016bt pati svarbiausia \u017einut\u0117 – visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais vaikui perteikti suvokim\u0105, kad n\u0117\u0161tumas, naujos gyvyb\u0117s gimimas yra visi\u0161kai nat\u016bralus procesas gamtoje. K\u016bdikis – tai dovana visai \u0161eimai, tai did\u017eiul\u0117 atsakomyb\u0117, kuri\u0105 mums patik\u0117jo gamta. Vadinasi, mes to verti, mes sugeb\u0117sime tinkamai pasir\u016bpinti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u016btent nuo to prad\u0117jome s\u016bnaus pasiruo\u0161im\u0105 sutikti ses\u0119. Tada jam buvo 2 metai. O tokiame am\u017eiuje jau vaikai daug dalyk\u0173 supranta, nors ir atrodo visai ma\u017eu\u010diai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jau pirm\u0105j\u012f m\u0117nes\u012f \u0117miau pasakoti, rodyti kaip gyv\u016bnai atsiveda palikuonis. Kaip kat\u0117 mama savo pilve ne\u0161ioja ka\u010diukus ir kai ateina laikas – ka\u010diukai gimsta. Nesakiau, kad manyje jau vystosi vaisius. Tiesiog stengiausi pad\u0117ti jam pamatyti \u0161eimos pagaus\u0117jim\u0105 kaip nat\u016bral\u0173 rei\u0161kin\u012f gamtoje. Ir priimti b\u016bsim\u0105 k\u016bdik\u012f kaip dovan\u0105 visai \u0161eimai, o ne t\u0105, kuris gim\u0117, kad atimt\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173 meil\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po keli\u0173 m\u0117nesi\u0173 pasak\u0117me, kad tur\u0117sime k\u016bdik\u012f, prad\u0117jome kalb\u0117ti kaip pasikeis m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimas, kur gyvens k\u016bdikis, kaip j\u012f maudysime, rengsime. Spausdinau daug \u012fvairi\u0173 nuotrauk\u0173, kuriuose buvo u\u017efiksuotas n\u0117\u0161tumas, k\u016bdkio prie\u017ei\u016bra, mama, t\u0117tis, s\u016bnus ir k\u016bdikis, visas procesas nuo n\u0117\u0161tumo iki gr\u012f\u017eimo namo. \u017di\u016br\u0117jome \u012fvairius klipus kaip vystosi embrionas. Gatv\u0117je \u0117miau rodyti kaip kiti vaikai turi brolius ir seses. Kalb\u0117jau apie savo brolius ir ses\u0119, kad buvo dien\u0173, kai pykomes, pavyd\u0117jau jiems, bet tokie ir b\u016bna santykiai tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Likus m\u0117nesiui iki gimdymo prad\u0117jau kalb\u0117ti, kad mama tur\u0117s va\u017eiuoti \u012f gimdymo namus. Nesakiau, kad tai ligonin\u0117, kad nekilt\u0173 neigiam\u0173 asociacij\u0173. Juk gimimas – tai d\u017eiaugsmingas dalykas. Ruo\u0161\u0117me namus, kalb\u0117jome kaip juodu su t\u0117\u010diu gyvens vieni kelias dienas, paruo\u0161 mums maisto ir atve\u0161, o tada atva\u017eiuos su g\u0117l\u0117mis parsive\u0161ti man\u0119s ir k\u016bdikio namo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamenu pirm\u0105j\u012f s\u016bnaus vizit\u0105 kartu su manimi pas gydytoj\u0105. Labai bijojau kaip jis sureaguos \u012f ultragarso tyrim\u0105. Ta\u010diau po ilgo pasiruo\u0161imo proceso jis steb\u0117jo visk\u0105 su susidom\u0117jimu, juok\u0117si, kai k\u016bdikis sujud\u0117davo. \ud83d\ude2d\u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did\u017eiausias pastangas d\u0117jome, kad s\u016bnus pasijaust\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 partneris, ruo\u0161iantis sutikti nauj\u0105 \u0161eimos nar\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labai da\u017enai \u017evelgiau \u012f j\u012f ir galvojau, kaip jis toks ma\u017eutis visk\u0105 atlaikys, o draug\u0117s, jau su patirtimi, sakydavo: ,,Pamatysi kaip jis, vos gimus antram vaikui, akimirksniu suaugs\u201d. Negal\u0117jau patik\u0117ti, ta\u010diau jau pirm\u0105j\u0105 dien\u0105 gr\u012f\u017eus namo pama\u010diau, kad mano ma\u017eytis s\u016bnus tapo vyresniuoju broliu, kuriuo begalo did\u017eiuojuosi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taigi, pasiruo\u0161imas – daug kalb\u0117jimo, rodymo, pasakojimo. Visa, k\u0105 vaikai i\u0161girsta i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173, nus\u0117da j\u0173 viduje ir at\u0117jus TAM momentui jam kur kas ai\u0161kiau kas vyksta, nes devynis m\u0117nesius \u0161eimoje buvo apie tai nuolat kalb\u0117ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(\ud83e\udd2bBet \u010dia darbas nesibaigia, jis tik prasideda \ud83d\ude01. I\u0161 trikampio santyki\u0173 statysime keturkampius \ud83d\ude05\u2764\ufe0f. Bet apie tai kitame straipsnyje )<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Baltai pavyd\u017eiu \u0161eimoms, kuri\u0173 laukia toks \u0161aunus procesas!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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KAIP PARUO\u0160TI PIRMAGIM\u012e PRIIMTI NAUJ\u0104 GYVYB\u0118 Pirmiausia, turb\u016bt pati svarbiausia \u017einut\u0117 – visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais vaikui perteikti suvokim\u0105, kad n\u0117\u0161tumas, naujos gyvyb\u0117s gimimas yra visi\u0161kai nat\u016bralus procesas gamtoje. K\u016bdikis – tai dovana visai \u0161eimai, tai did\u017eiul\u0117 atsakomyb\u0117, kuri\u0105 mums patik\u0117jo gamta. Vadinasi, mes to verti, mes sugeb\u0117sime tinkamai pasir\u016bpinti. B\u016btent nuo to prad\u0117jome s\u016bnaus pasiruo\u0161im\u0105 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5191,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami.jpg",1200,628,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami-768x402.jpg",768,402,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami-1024x536.jpg",1024,536,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami.jpg",1200,628,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/nestumo-pasiruosimas-imami.jpg",1200,628,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"KAIP PARUO\u0160TI PIRMAGIM\u012e PRIIMTI NAUJ\u0104 GYVYB\u0118 Pirmiausia, turb\u016bt pati svarbiausia \u017einut\u0117 – visais \u012fmanomais b\u016bdais vaikui perteikti suvokim\u0105, kad n\u0117\u0161tumas, naujos gyvyb\u0117s gimimas yra visi\u0161kai nat\u016bralus procesas gamtoje. 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