{"id":5288,"date":"2020-08-03T12:28:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-03T09:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5288"},"modified":"2020-07-31T14:06:52","modified_gmt":"2020-07-31T11:06:52","slug":"pazaboti-gyvuna-vystyti-vidini-zmogu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/pazaboti-gyvuna-vystyti-vidini-zmogu\/","title":{"rendered":"PA\u017dABOTI \u201eGYV\u016aN\u0104\u201c | VYSTYTI \u201eVIDIN\u012e \u017dMOG\u0172\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ar, \u017evelgiant \u012f k\u016bdik\u012f, da\u017enai pagalvojate, kad jie visi\u0161kai s\u0105moningi \u017emon\u0117s, tik j\u0173 i\u0161orinis k\u016bnas toks? Pripa\u017einsiu, tai viena sud\u0117tingiausi\u0173 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 mano gyvenime \ud83d\ude04\ud83d\ude48.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Protas visaip bando \u012ftikinti, kad k\u016bdikis yra ma\u017eas, nieko nemokantis, ma\u017eai k\u0105 suprantantis, silpnas k\u016brinys. Jis nieko nemato, guli sau lovel\u0117je, paskui \u0161iek tiek ropin\u0117ja ant grind\u0173. Bet dauguma t\u0117v\u0173 labai nustemba, kai visi iki dviej\u0173, trij\u0173 met\u0173 vaiko aplinkoje dominuojantys \u0161ablonai staiga ,,pasirodo\u201d vaike. Atrodo mes to nemok\u0117me, bet vaikas juos atkartoja. Negana to, jis ima prie\u0161tarauti viskam, net pats sau. Tas nekalbantis vaikas staiga pasirodo turintis savo nuomon\u0119, ir gan tvirt\u0105. Da\u017eniausiai jis net nesuvokdamas kenkia pats sau ir kitiems. Tai nat\u016brali vaiko raida, ir nemanau, kad ji b\u016bt\u0173 bloga. Ta\u010diau nereaguojant \u012f tai, i\u0161kart neparodant ai\u0161ki\u0173 rib\u0173 gali kilti dideli\u0173 problem\u0173 ateityje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai mano s\u016bnui prasid\u0117jo \u0161is periodas, reik\u0117jo \u0161iek tiek laiko, kol susigaud\u017eiau kas vyskta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prad\u0117jau nuo pa\u017einties kas yra \u017emogus ir koks aukl\u0117jimo tikslas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Net ir dabar, kai laikausi to \u012fsikabinus ,,kaip buldogas dantimis\u201d, tai bet kuri situacija ima keistis akimirksniu, nes kei\u010diuosi a\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u012e vaik\u0105 (\u017emog\u0173) \u017evelgiu kaip darin\u012f i\u0161 dviej\u0173 dali\u0173: viena yra k\u016bnas, o kita &#8211; vidinis \u017emogus. Visais laikais aukl\u0117jimo tikslas buvo ugdyti \u017emog\u0173. Ma\u017ei vaikai savo nekontroliuojamais instinktais b\u016bna pana\u0161\u016bs \u012f gyv\u016bnus, tad t\u0117v\u0173 u\u017eduotis, apr\u016bpinant ,,gyv\u016bnus\u201d b\u016btinais dalykais, vystyti \u017emog\u0173, parodant, kad mes vertiname b\u016btent tai. Jeigu palaipsniui mes vaiko neaukl\u0117sime, jis taps dideliu gyv\u016bnu. O kad j\u012f i\u0161aukl\u0117tume, reikia tam tikro spaudimo vystymosi eigoje. Ir svarbu leisti vaikui suprasti, kad spaudimas daromas tik to ,,gyv\u016bno\u201d at\u017evilgiu, o ne ,,\u017emogaus\u201d. Nes a\u0161 noriu ugdyti \u017emogi\u0161k\u0105sias savybes, o ,,gyv\u016bn\u0105\u201d pa\u017eaboti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suprantu, kad be aukl\u0117jimo, be mano \u012fsiki\u0161imo \u0161is gyv\u016bnas pasidarys laukinis, o tai nebus gerai ne jam, nei kitiems. Nuolaid\u017eiauti vaikui, dresiruoti komandomis ,,galima- negalima\u201d, sekti jo ,,gyv\u016bniniais\u201d reikalavimais &#8211; tai tik paskatina vaikus tapti laukiniais arba kaip tik itin paklusniais, iki kol pasijus nepriklausomas nuo t\u0117v\u0173, o tada jau ne\u017einia koks vidinis ,,\u017ev\u0117ris\u201d prabus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prakti\u0161kai visa tai u\u017esimir\u0161ta, arba pa\u010diai b\u00fbna sunku su savo ,,gyv\u016bnu\u201d \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude48\ud83e\udd2b\ud83e\udd2b\ud83e\udd2b. Ta\u010diau nuolatinis skaitymas, pokalbiai ta tema padeda tobul\u0117ti ir su savimi, ir su mano dviem mylimukais \ud83e\udd1d\ud83d\udda4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" width=\"640\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ar, \u017evelgiant \u012f k\u016bdik\u012f, da\u017enai pagalvojate, kad jie visi\u0161kai s\u0105moningi \u017emon\u0117s, tik j\u0173 i\u0161orinis k\u016bnas toks? Pripa\u017einsiu, tai viena sud\u0117tingiausi\u0173 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 mano gyvenime \ud83d\ude04\ud83d\ude48. Protas visaip bando \u012ftikinti, kad k\u016bdikis yra ma\u017eas, nieko nemokantis, ma\u017eai k\u0105 suprantantis, silpnas k\u016brinys. Jis nieko nemato, guli sau lovel\u0117je, paskui \u0161iek tiek ropin\u0117ja ant grind\u0173. 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Pripa\u017einsiu, tai viena sud\u0117tingiausi\u0173 u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 mano gyvenime \ud83d\ude04\ud83d\ude48. Protas visaip bando \u012ftikinti, kad k\u016bdikis yra ma\u017eas, nieko nemokantis, ma\u017eai k\u0105 suprantantis, silpnas k\u016brinys. Jis nieko nemato, guli sau lovel\u0117je, paskui \u0161iek tiek ropin\u0117ja ant grind\u0173. 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