{"id":5290,"date":"2020-07-19T12:34:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-19T09:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5290"},"modified":"2020-07-31T12:52:45","modified_gmt":"2020-07-31T09:52:45","slug":"5290-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/5290-2\/","title":{"rendered":"GERA ATMOSFERA NAMUOSE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Pamenu kaip t\u0117tis sakydavo, kad kartais bijo pareiti namo, nes ne\u017eino kokios bus nuotaikos mama. T\u0105 pat\u012f gird\u0117jau ir i\u0161 brolio. V\u0117liau i\u0161 dar keli\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 vyr\u0173. Mintyse visada galvodavau: <strong>,,Na jau man taip nebus\u201d<\/strong>. Ir sp\u0117kit, mano vyras man sako t\u0105 pat\u012f. \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir suprantu kod\u0117l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gamtoje taip jau yra, kad moteris \u012ftakoja labai daug dalyk\u0173 ir vienas i\u0161 j\u0173 &#8211; atmosfera namuose. Ilg\u0105 laik\u0105 maniau, kad tai savaime gimstantis dalykas, kokia esi \u0161iandien &#8211; toki\u0105 ir turi mane priimti. Negi savo namuose negaliu atsipalaiduoti? Kartais pa\u0161\u016bkauti, kartais nesikalb\u0117ti, kartais sukritikuoti ir ,,r\u0117\u017eti\u201d visk\u0105 tiesiai \u012f akis? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kuo daugiau mokausi apie tarpusavio santykius, tuo labiau suprantu, kad tinkam\u0105 atmosfer\u0105 visgi reikia kurti. Kartais suvaidinti, kartais nusleisti, kartais patyl\u0117ti, o kartais kaip tik pasidalinti tuo, k\u0105 jauti. Ir \u0161is menas &#8211; moters rankose. Ji vadovaujasi emocijomis, kurios pasirei\u0161kia i\u0161ori\u0161kai ir pasklinda aplink. Vyras vadovaujasi protu, tod\u0117l da\u017enai j\u0173 emocijas pamatome tik kai jau ka\u017ekas i\u0161veda i\u0161 kantryb\u0117s \ud83d\ude2c\ud83d\ude48.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai moteris yra pakilios nuotaikos, kupina energijos ar rami ir atsipalaidavusi &#8211; tai vyras, b\u016bdamas \u0161alia jos nejau\u010dia streso, kad pasakys ar padarys ka\u017ek\u0105 ne taip.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dinoma, gera atmosfera &#8211; tai nerei\u0161kia, kad vis\u0105laik tik \u0161ypsom\u0117s, tryk\u0161tame energija. To b\u016bti negali! \u017dmogus &#8211; gyvas organizmas, kuriame nuotaikos kei\u010diasi kelet\u0105 kart\u0173 per dien\u0105, tad kartais net kai moteris jau\u010diasi li\u016bdna, ta\u010diau vidumi nelinkusi ,,\u0161okdinti\u201d visos \u0161eimos, ver\u010diau laukia pagalbos, ji irgi sukuria ypating\u0105 \u0161eimos artumo jausm\u0105, kuriame yra vietos vyrui pad\u0117ti jai, realizuoti save. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pabr\u0117\u017e\u010diau, kad n\u0117ra blog\u0173 emocij\u0173, visos jos reikalingos \u017emogui. Tiesiog viskas priklauso kaip mes tvarkom\u0117s su jomis ir kur nukreipiame: ar i\u0161liejame jas ant kit\u0173, net nesusim\u0105stydami kaip tai juos paveiks, bet svarbu, kad mums palengv\u0117t\u0173, ar i\u0161siliejame jas ant kit\u0173, suvokdami, kad tokia \u017emogaus prigimtis ir man reikia pagalbos, tiesiog \u0161\u012fkart nesugeb\u0117jau \u012fveikti j\u0173 tinkamai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai labai da\u017enai u\u017esimir\u0161ta, nes \u017emogus link\u0119s elgtis taip, kaip jam patogu. Ir tikrai nesinori ,,lipti per save\u201d, bet jeigu tai vienintelis b\u016bdas padaryti taip, kad vyras, b\u016bdamas greta jaust\u0173si ramus ir nor\u0117t\u0173 gr\u012f\u017eti \u012f namus, vaikai nebijot\u0173 nenusp\u0117jam\u0173 mamos reakcij\u0173, kolegos darbe dirbt\u0173 darb\u0105, o ne galvot\u0173 ko \u010dia laukti i\u0161 moters, tai galb\u016bt verta pabandyti? \ud83d\ude0c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimoje gerai nuginkluoja klausimas &#8211; \u017eaidimas: ,,Kur dingo gera nuotaika? Gal ji po sofa? Gal pasislep\u0117 \u0161aldytuve?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tikrai didelis darbas nuolat steb\u0117ti save, stengtis susilaikyti, kad tik nesugadinti atmosferos, kuri yra bendra visos \u0161eimos. Bet kartu labai gera, kai abu partneriai supranta, kad be tarpusavio pagalbos, nuolatini\u0173 treniruo\u010di\u0173 ir palaikymo to padaryti ne\u012fmanoma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2811\" width=\"501\" height=\"220\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 501px) 100vw, 501px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pamenu kaip t\u0117tis sakydavo, kad kartais bijo pareiti namo, nes ne\u017eino kokios bus nuotaikos mama. T\u0105 pat\u012f gird\u0117jau ir i\u0161 brolio. V\u0117liau i\u0161 dar keli\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 vyr\u0173. Mintyse visada galvodavau: ,,Na jau man taip nebus\u201d. Ir sp\u0117kit, mano vyras man sako t\u0105 pat\u012f. \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48 Ir suprantu kod\u0117l. 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T\u0105 pat\u012f gird\u0117jau ir i\u0161 brolio. V\u0117liau i\u0161 dar keli\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 vyr\u0173. Mintyse visada galvodavau: ,,Na jau man taip nebus\u201d. Ir sp\u0117kit, mano vyras man sako t\u0105 pat\u012f. \ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48\ud83d\ude48 Ir suprantu kod\u0117l. Gamtoje taip jau yra, kad moteris \u012ftakoja labai&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5290"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5290\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5294,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5290\/revisions\/5294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5292"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}