{"id":5382,"date":"2020-08-08T08:23:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T05:23:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5382"},"modified":"2020-08-08T08:35:14","modified_gmt":"2020-08-08T05:35:14","slug":"supermamyte-visam-gyvenimui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/supermamyte-visam-gyvenimui\/","title":{"rendered":"SUPERMAMYT\u0116 VISAM GYVENIMUI!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Neseniai vienoje feisbuko grup\u0117je apie ugdym\u0105 pama\u010diau vyro komentar\u0105: \u201eToki\u0173 supermamy\u010di\u0173 pilna, palaukite kol vaikai bus vyresni, pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117siu kaip motyvuosite vaikus\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Pajutau kaip tuo metu net pakilo k\u016bno temperat\u016bra, nes \u012f t\u0105 kategorij\u0105 patenku ir a\u0161 \ud83d\ude02. Bet! Bet, atv\u0117sus, jo \u017eod\u017eiuose radau ir tiesos.
Pamenu, kai gim\u0117 s\u016bnus, dar keletas mam\u0173 \u201estartavo\u201c su manimi. Dalinom\u0117s informacija, planavome, svajojome, lavinome\u2026 metams b\u0117gant pama\u010diau, kad moterims g\u0119sta noras, aukl\u0117jimo temas \u0117m\u0117 keisti pa\u0161nekesiai apie sporto klub\u0105, maniki\u016br\u0105, i\u0161vykas su koleg\u0117mis ir pan.. Pamaniau: \u201etaip, juk mes skirtingos, neturi visos daryti kaip tu.\u201c
Tada prasid\u0117jo \u201eantras ratas\u201c \ud83e\udd30\ud83c\udffb\ud83e\udd31\ud83c\udffb ir pasteb\u0117jau, kad algoritmas kartojasi, kad yra ka\u017ekas ko \u017emogus nekontroliuoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cia kaip su dieta, pirmosiomis dienomis nat\u016braliai esame motyvuoti b\u016bsimu rezultatu, o v\u0117liau tai bl\u0117sta, bl\u0117sta\u2026 o jei dar ir svoris nekrenta ar savijauta neger\u0117ja, tai visai nelieka noro t\u0119sti to, kas reikalauja tiek pastang\u0173. Nebent esi tarp \u017emoni\u0173, kurie kalba apie sveikos gyvensenos svarb\u0105 ir privalumus, kurie tave padr\u0105sina, palaiko, o kartais ir sug\u0117dina. \u017dod\u017eiu, naudoja visas priemones, kad vir\u0161 vis\u0173 tavyje atsirandan\u010di\u0173 nor\u0173 \u2013 b\u016btent tas b\u016bt\u0173 dominuojantis, svarbiausias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taip pat yra ir su aukl\u0117jimu. Jau septynti metai a\u0161 esu apsupta aplinkos, kuri nuolatos kalba kod\u0117l yra svarbus aukl\u0117jimas ir kod\u0117l \u0161is vaidmuo atitenka b\u016btent moteriai.
Niekam nepaslaptis, kad moters rankose yra ir vaikai, ir vyras. Tokia jau m\u016bs\u0173 programa. Nesikuklinsiu sakydama, kad moters rankose yra ir pasaulio ateitis. Ji savo \u012fs\u010diose ne\u0161ioja, puosel\u0117ja, ugdo b\u016bsim\u0105 \u017emog\u0173, kuris ateityje augins dar vien\u0105 \u017emog\u0173\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0161 manau, kad ne veltui gamta pa\u017eadina moteryje motinyst\u0117s instinktus. Ji veda mam\u0105 pirmuosius metus, mokydama j\u0105 vis\u0173 savo gudrybi\u0173. Tada pra\u0117jus keliems metams, ji atsitraukia ir palieka vietos pa\u010diai mamai s\u0105moningai vystytis ir tobul\u0117ti savaranki\u0161kai.
Viskas b\u016bt\u0173 daug lengviau, jeigu ir kiti taip daryt\u0173, taip? \u010cia galiu pasidalinti tik vienu atradimu, kuris mano gyvenime veikia kaip laikrodukas \u2013 tinkama aplinka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu ne draugai, kurie priima, i\u0161klauso mane su visais \u201ekilimais\u201c ir \u201ekritimais\u201c, jeigu ne s\u0105moningas filtras k\u0105 \u017ei\u016briu, skaitau, klausau, su kuo ir apie k\u0105 kalbu, jeigu ne literat\u016bra apie \u017emogaus prigimt\u012f, jo vaidmen\u012f visuomen\u0117je, tai mano noras taip pat b\u016bt\u0173 u\u017eg\u0119s\u0119s. jau seniai\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu mane domina atlikti savo, kaip moters, vaidmen\u012f, tai a\u0161 ie\u0161kau kit\u0173 toki\u0173 kaip a\u0161, apie tai skaitau, vengiu \u017emoni\u0173, kuriems aukl\u0117jimas n\u0117ra vertyb\u0117 gyvenime, nesistengiu nieko \u012ftikinti, kad mano pa\u017ei\u016bros teisingos, tai nieko neduoda. Tiesiog ie\u0161kau t\u0173, kurie galvoja ta pa\u010dia kryptimi. Tada a\u0161 galiu b\u016bti tikra, kad tai, k\u0105 darau \u0161iandien ir kas mane \u201eve\u017ea\u201c, kaip supermamyt\u0119, gali vir\u0161yti net gamtos r\u0117mus ir, vietoj keli\u0173 pirm\u0173j\u0173 vaiko gyvenimo met\u0173, t\u0119stis vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105! Viskas ko reikia \u2013 tinkama s\u0105moninga aplinka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taigi, tas vyras i\u0161 dalies teisus, tik pirma motyvuoti reikia moter\u012f, o ji jau atras i\u0161rading\u0173 b\u016bd\u0173 sumotyvuoti vaikus ir vyr\u0105 \ud83d\ude09.
\u0160tai tod\u0117l ir ra\u0161au. Matau kiek man daug duoda mano aplinka ir suprantu, kad jeigu s\u0105moningai patys nekursime palaikan\u010dios aplinkos aplink save, tai noras aukl\u0117ti, tobul\u0117ti, ie\u0161koti labai greitai \u201epask\u0119s\u201c toje mil\u017eini\u0161koje tu\u0161tyb\u0117s j\u016broje, kuri neteikia tiek d\u017eiaugsmo kiek \u017einojimas, jog darau tai, d\u0117l ko gimiau. \ud83d\udda4<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neseniai vienoje feisbuko grup\u0117je apie ugdym\u0105 pama\u010diau vyro komentar\u0105: \u201eToki\u0173 supermamy\u010di\u0173 pilna, palaukite kol vaikai bus vyresni, pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117siu kaip motyvuosite vaikus\u201c. Pajutau kaip tuo metu net pakilo k\u016bno temperat\u016bra, nes \u012f t\u0105 kategorij\u0105 patenku ir a\u0161 \ud83d\ude02. Bet! Bet, atv\u0117sus, jo \u017eod\u017eiuose radau ir tiesos.Pamenu, kai gim\u0117 s\u016bnus, dar keletas mam\u0173 \u201estartavo\u201c su manimi. 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