{"id":5459,"date":"2020-08-17T23:32:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-17T20:32:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5459"},"modified":"2020-08-17T23:32:43","modified_gmt":"2020-08-17T20:32:43","slug":"leisk-man-paciam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/leisk-man-paciam\/","title":{"rendered":"LEISK MAN PA\u010cIAM"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Maria Montessori savo metodikoje labai akcentavo \u0161\u012f princip\u0105, kad leisti vaikui pa\u010diam daryti dalykus, kuri\u0173 jam reik\u0117s gyvenime. Ir tikrai su tuo sutinku. Tik \u010dia egzituoja ma\u017ea detal\u0117 &#8211; kaip suvaldyti t\u0105 nor\u0105 sukontroliuoti kitus taip, kaip man patogiau???<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vakar i\u0161\u0117jome pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti su vaikais. Kadangi atstumas buvo numatytas nema\u017eas, tai pasi\u0117m\u0117me ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f dukrai. \u017dinoma, pusiaukel\u0117je ji pavargo ir panoro va\u017eiuoti. Tada s\u016bnus parei\u0161k\u0117, kad jis stums ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Leisk, mama, man. A\u0161 galiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Viskas kaip ir gerai, ta\u010diau staiga manyje prasid\u0117jo paskai\u010diavimai: ,,Hm, juk jis nepastums to ve\u017eim\u0117lio su sese, jis dar per silpnas; turiu atkalb\u0117ti. Dar vienas faktas ,,PRIE\u0160\u201d: jeigu ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f stums s\u016bnus, eisime kelis kartus l\u0117\u010diau, o dar tik puse kelio nu\u0117jome \ud83d\ude48. Grei\u010diau bus jeigu visgi pati stumsiu; \u203c\ufe0f ei, bet palauk, o kur mes skubame? Juk i\u0161\u0117jome pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti! Kod\u0117l a\u0161 tiesiog nesim\u0117gauju tuo, kad vaikas rodo nor\u0105 elgtis kaip brandus \u017emogus ir neleid\u017eiu jam pa\u010diam atlikti veiksm\u0173? Juk \u0161is veiksmas jam svarbus, o a\u0161 galvoju tik apie savo planus \ud83e\udd37\ud83c\udffb\u200d\u2640\ufe0f; Taip, jis gal per silpnas, ta\u010diau tai turi pamatyti pats, o ne i\u0161girsti i\u0161 mamos, kuri net neleid\u017eia jam net pabandyti.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211; Taip, pra\u0161au, stumk \ud83d\ude18.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Toki\u0173 pavyzd\u017ei\u0173 kupinas mano gyvenimas, kuomet daug dalyk\u0173 gal\u0117\u010diau padaryti geriau, grei\u010diau ir \u0161variau \ud83d\ude02, bet tokiu b\u016bdu atimu galimyb\u0119 i\u0161 to, kuriam dar reikia praktikuotis. Pvz.: ind\u0173 plovimas, r\u016bb\u0173 skalbimas.. juk visk\u0105 reikia po to perplauti \ud83d\ude48\ud83e\udd2b. Bet vaikas to ne\u017eino ir darydamas taip, kaip moka jis augina savyje pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tik tos mano mintys, kad geriau padarysiu pati ir v\u0117liau nereik\u0117s papildomai tvarkytis, nuveiksiu kas man patinka ir pan. &#8211; jos ir atima t\u0105 \u0161ans\u0105 i\u0161 vaik\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kita vertus, n\u0117ra ko steb\u0117tis, nes puikiai \u017einau, kad tokia \u017emogaus prigimtis &#8211; visk\u0105 organizuoti pagal save taip, kaip man atrodo geriausia. Tod\u0117l net i\u0161\u0117jimas su vaikais pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti gali virsti tik mano, kaip mamos, poreiki\u0173 tenkinimu &#8211; organizuojant visk\u0105 pagal mano tvark\u0105. Arba m\u016bs\u0173, kaip \u0161eimos, poreiki\u0173 tenkinimu, kai kiekvieno noras vienaip ar kitaip yra svarbus. Jau nekalbu apie vaiko tobul\u0117jimo galimybes. Tad viskas mano rankose!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saky\u010diau, pirmasis \u017eingsnis \u012fgyvendinant princip\u0105 ,,LEISK MAN PA\u010cIAM\u201d, yra neleisti sau atsipalaiduoti, nes kitu atveju pasielgsiu kaip visada &#8211; kaip geriau man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kitas \u017eingsnelis &#8211; nuolatos tikrinti save ar a\u0161 nemanipuliuoju savo pozicija \u0161eimoje, ar neleisdama vaikui daryti pa\u010diam jam padedu vystytis ar vis tik trukdau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 prisipa\u017einsiu, prad\u017eia man tikrai buvo sud\u0117tinga, ir dabar ne labai pasist\u016bm\u0117jau \ud83d\ude01\ud83e\udd2b, bet a\u0161 did\u017eiuojuosi savimi, kai sugebu susilaikyti ir leisti vaikui pa\u010diam atskleisti dalykus, pa\u017einti savo galimybes, pamatyti, kad jis jau moka atrakinti duris (nors tai trunka kartais iki 15min \ud83d\ude02), geba paruo\u0161ti pusry\u010dius ir pan. Tai yra aukl\u0117jimo d\u017eiaugsmai, kurie leid\u017eia man jaustis geresne mama, negu buvau vakar \ud83d\udda4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matyt tai ir yra m\u016bs\u0173 u\u017emokestis u\u017e dedamas pastangas&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/stiprybes.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2798\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/stiprybes.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/stiprybes-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/stiprybes-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Maria Montessori savo metodikoje labai akcentavo \u0161\u012f princip\u0105, kad leisti vaikui pa\u010diam daryti dalykus, kuri\u0173 jam reik\u0117s gyvenime. Ir tikrai su tuo sutinku. Tik \u010dia egzituoja ma\u017ea detal\u0117 &#8211; kaip suvaldyti t\u0105 nor\u0105 sukontroliuoti kitus taip, kaip man patogiau??? Vakar i\u0161\u0117jome pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti su vaikais. Kadangi atstumas buvo numatytas nema\u017eas, tai pasi\u0117m\u0117me ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f dukrai. \u017dinoma, pusiaukel\u0117je [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5458,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5459","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490.jpg",1200,675,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490-768x432.jpg",768,432,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490.jpg",1200,675,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/044c72f1-0317-41cb-8f38-d20426abc490.jpg",1200,675,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Maria Montessori savo metodikoje labai akcentavo \u0161\u012f princip\u0105, kad leisti vaikui pa\u010diam daryti dalykus, kuri\u0173 jam reik\u0117s gyvenime. 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Kadangi atstumas buvo numatytas nema\u017eas, tai pasi\u0117m\u0117me ve\u017eim\u0117l\u012f dukrai. \u017dinoma, pusiaukel\u0117je&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5459"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5460,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459\/revisions\/5460"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5458"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}