{"id":5502,"date":"2020-08-25T22:26:33","date_gmt":"2020-08-25T19:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5502"},"modified":"2020-08-25T22:26:34","modified_gmt":"2020-08-25T19:26:34","slug":"gamta-vis-dar-stebina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/gamta-vis-dar-stebina\/","title":{"rendered":"GAMTA VIS DAR STEBINA…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mano gyvenime daug pavyzd\u017ei\u0173, kuomet tiesiog \u017eaviuosi gamtos tobulumu. Buvo tokie tobulai u\u017eprogramuoti procesai kaip n\u0117\u0161tumas, gimdymas, gimimas, o dabar turiu galimyb\u0119 pa\u017einti kas yra \u017emogus, jo prigimtis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vienas toks pavyzdys i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 patirties: konkurencija tarp vaik\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne paslaptis, kad jau dar\u017eelyje tarp vaik\u0173 vyskta konkurencija (kas stipresnis, kas geresnis ir pan.), kadangi mes dar\u017eelio nelankome tai nat\u016bralu, kad sulaukiame komentar\u0173, kad vaikas nemok\u0117s gyventi ,,realiame pasaulyje\u201d, kur viskas tik ir paremta konkurencija. Pripa\u017einsiu, man tai skamba logi\u0161kai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmus metus \u0161i tema neramino. Nors augome ne tarp keturi\u0173 sien\u0173, ta\u010diau taip, ne\u017einojome kas yra i\u0161likimo principas vilk\u0173 gaujoje. M\u016bs\u0173 aplinkoje tai n\u0117ra pagrindin\u0117 vertyb\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet kai vaikas pasiek\u0117 tam tikr\u0105 am\u017eiaus rib\u0105 a\u0161 pama\u010diau, kad visgi tokie instinktai pas s\u016bn\u0173 atsiranda nat\u016braliai ir to nereikia net mokyti \ud83d\ude48.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tai man parod\u0117, kad nuo \u017emogaus prigimties esm\u0117s pab\u0117gti ne\u012fmanoma. Tai pa\u017eadino smalsum\u0105 pa\u017einti kas vyksta ir k\u0105 daryti toliau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tik visai neseniai susivokiau: juk \u017emogaus genai jau nuo pirmos u\u017egimimo akimirkos turi gamtos \u012fra\u0161yt\u0105 program\u0105, tod\u0117l nesvarbu kas a\u0161, kur esu ir b\u016bsiu, tam tikrais gyvenimo etapais manyje \u012fsijungia papildomos fukcijos ir to niekas net neklausia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaiko pasaulis stipriai kei\u010diais. Pirmuosius por\u0105 met\u0173 jis pasaul\u012f suvokia per mam\u0105, kaip jo asmenin\u0119 \u017eaidim\u0173 aik\u0161tel\u0119, jis nejau\u010dia, kad kiti \u017emon\u0117s turi savo jausmus, norus, savo gyvenim\u0105. Tada ateina etapas (apie 2-3 metus), kai \u012fvyksta tikrasis gimimas ir vaikas atsiskiria nuo mamos, tampa savaranki\u0161kas (jausmi\u0161kai). Va tada gamta pradeda j\u012f po truput\u012f vystyti kaip \u017emog\u0173, palaipsniui atskleisdama vis\u0105 jo prigimt\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mes tada pastebime, kad vaikas pradeda daugiau visko bijoti, meluoti, mai\u0161tauti, konkuruoti. Nori b\u016bti geriausias, ypatingiausias ir t.t. Jis atranda manipuliacijos \u012frankius – kaip gauti daugiau, darant ma\u017eiau. Da\u017enai tai vertinama kaip neigiamas savybes, ta\u010diau, i\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s, viskas, kas sukurta gamtoje turi egzistuoti, negali b\u016bti ,,u\u017eg\u0119sinama\u201d, o prie\u0161ingai, turi vystytis ir tobul\u0117ti. Tad ir mumyse atsirandantys \u012fvair\u016bs dalykai yra tik tam, kad mes i\u0161moktume su jais tinkamai dirbti, kad tobul\u0117tume kaip \u017emon\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kai tai supratau, man dingo ta baim\u0117, kad vaikas nemok\u0117s gyventi, neprisitaikys ir pan., nes matau, kad nesvarbu esi gaujoje ar ne, vistiek tavyje vienu ar kitu augimo tarpsniu atsiras tos ,,neigiamos\u201d savyb\u0117s. Ir jos bus tiek dominuojan\u010dios, kiek reikia to vaiko tobul\u0117jimui. Tik klausimas man: ,,ar a\u0161 mokysiu savo vaikus nuslopinti tas savybes, nugal\u0117ti kitus naudojant j\u0117g\u0105, gauti ko jie nori kit\u0173 s\u0105skaita, ar mokysim\u0117s kartu viso to pasiekti savo s\u0105moningumu?\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cia kyla dar vienas klausimas, kame yra tikras gyvenimo laim\u0117jimas? \ud83d\udcad<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mano gyvenime daug pavyzd\u017ei\u0173, kuomet tiesiog \u017eaviuosi gamtos tobulumu. Buvo tokie tobulai u\u017eprogramuoti procesai kaip n\u0117\u0161tumas, gimdymas, gimimas, o dabar turiu galimyb\u0119 pa\u017einti kas yra \u017emogus, jo prigimtis. Vienas toks pavyzdys i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 patirties: konkurencija tarp vaik\u0173. Ne paslaptis, kad jau dar\u017eelyje tarp vaik\u0173 vyskta konkurencija (kas stipresnis, kas geresnis ir pan.), kadangi mes dar\u017eelio […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb.jpg",1200,675,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb-300x169.jpg",300,169,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb-768x432.jpg",768,432,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb.jpg",1200,675,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/a58e0b98-6721-46e0-8a38-514d79bfaeeb.jpg",1200,675,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Mano gyvenime daug pavyzd\u017ei\u0173, kuomet tiesiog \u017eaviuosi gamtos tobulumu. 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