{"id":5644,"date":"2020-09-03T23:53:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-03T20:53:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5644"},"modified":"2020-09-03T23:54:20","modified_gmt":"2020-09-03T20:54:20","slug":"kad-neuzgesinti-asmenybes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kad-neuzgesinti-asmenybes\/","title":{"rendered":"KAD NEU\u017dG\u0118SINTI ASMENYB\u0116S"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>,,Pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117k kokia ta mergyt\u0117 \u0161auni. Tu irgi gal\u0117tum tokia b\u016bti.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuolatinis vaiko lyginimas su kitais ma\u017eai padedame jo asmenybei tobul\u0117ti, labiau prie\u0161ingai &#8211; palaipsniui u\u017eg\u0119siname ir nu\u017eudome tikr\u0105j\u012f vaik\u0105, sumenkiname j\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka\u017ekada gird\u0117jau ger\u0105 pavyzd\u012f: ,,\u012fsivaizduok, tu ateini \u012f darb\u0105 ir girdi kaip visi kolegos giria tavo bendradarb\u0117s \u0161ukuosen\u0105 ir net nepastebi tavo naujos suknel\u0117s. Kokia bus tavo diena? Kaip tu toliau bendrausi su kolegomis? Ar tikrai jautiesi u\u017etikrinta savimi?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pana\u0161iai jau\u010diasi ir vaikai. Sulygindami juos su kitais mes palie\u010diame j\u0173 ,,A\u0161\u201d. Tai padaro \u017emog\u0173 dar didesniu egoistu, nes mes j\u012f skatiname tik konkuruoti, visi\u0161kai negalvojant apie kitus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Akivaizdu, kad vaikas susikurs ka\u017ekok\u012f ideal\u0173 gyvenimo vaizdin\u012f, kurio jis ir sieks, tad jam b\u016btinai reikia save su ka\u017ekuo lyginti, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 steb\u0117ti progres\u0105. Bet tai neturi b\u016bti sav\u0119s lyginimas su kitais. Tai mus veda prie savivert\u0117s netur\u0117jimo. Da\u017enai lygiuodamiesi \u012f kitus ir bandydami pasiekti daugiau, b\u016bti geresni u\u017e juos, mes nustojame gyventi savo tikr\u0105j\u012f gyvenim\u0105, nustojame b\u016bti savimi. Imame pavyd\u0117ti visko, ir, kai negauname, mes patiriame labai nemalonius i\u0161gyvenimus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tad, man atrodo svarbu, vaikams nuo ma\u017e\u0173 dien\u0173 mokyti vaikus vertinti save ne pagal kitus, norint juos i\u0161 pavydo sumenkinti, bet pagal pat\u012f save &#8211; kiek a\u0161 id\u0117jau pastang\u0173, kaip man sekasi siekti mano tiksl\u0173 ir pan..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar svarbus momentas, pad\u0117ti vaikams suprasti, kad yra sri\u010di\u0173, kuriuose tiesiog net negali lygintis, nes neturi toki\u0173 savybi\u0173. Kaip a\u0161 galiu pavyd\u0117ti ka\u017ekokiam sportininkei jeigu a\u0161 nesu fizi\u0161kai paj\u0117gi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai mes lyginame vaikus su kitais dar ir d\u0117l visuomen\u0117s spaudimo. ,,O k\u0105 pagalvos kiti?\u201d. \u017dmogui b\u016bti nevertinamu visuomen\u0117s = mir\u010diai. Tad vis spraud\u017eiame vaikus \u012f standarto r\u0117mus, neatsi\u017evelgdami \u012f vaiko nat\u016brali\u0105 raid\u0105, jo b\u016bsen\u0105, ta\u010diau siekdami dirbtinai suformuot\u0173 etalon\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Manau, mums tokie \u017eod\u017eiai i\u0161spr\u016bsta ne i\u0161 blogos valios, tiesiog mes taip buvome aukl\u0117jami. Tik \u0161iai dienai laikmetis pats rodo, kad turime i\u0161mesti i\u0161 galvos mintis, kad viskas veiks savime, kaip veik\u0117 su mumis. Tikrai vis labiau pastebiu, kad ma\u017eiau ir ma\u017eiau veiksm\u0173 galiu atlikti savaime i\u0161 sav\u0119s. Matau, kad jeigu saky\u010diau k\u0105 noriu, dary\u010diau kaip noriu &#8211; tai visa tai tik griaut\u0173 visk\u0105 aplink. Kad vykt\u0173 k\u016bryba, turiu mokytis pa\u017einti \u017emog\u0173 ir siekti to, kam jis sukurtas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tad tikiu, jog siekiant laimingo gyvenimo, reikia siekti ir s\u0105moningumo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>,,Pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117k kokia ta mergyt\u0117 \u0161auni. Tu irgi gal\u0117tum tokia b\u016bti.\u201d Nuolatinis vaiko lyginimas su kitais ma\u017eai padedame jo asmenybei tobul\u0117ti, labiau prie\u0161ingai &#8211; palaipsniui u\u017eg\u0119siname ir nu\u017eudome tikr\u0105j\u012f vaik\u0105, sumenkiname j\u012f. Ka\u017ekada gird\u0117jau ger\u0105 pavyzd\u012f: ,,\u012fsivaizduok, tu ateini \u012f darb\u0105 ir girdi kaip visi kolegos giria tavo bendradarb\u0117s \u0161ukuosen\u0105 ir net nepastebi tavo naujos suknel\u0117s. 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