{"id":5737,"date":"2020-09-11T12:18:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T09:18:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5737"},"modified":"2020-09-11T12:18:12","modified_gmt":"2020-09-11T09:18:12","slug":"pasiruosimas-paauglystei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/pasiruosimas-paauglystei\/","title":{"rendered":"PASIRUO\u0160IMAS PAAUGLYSTEI"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Neseniai teko sudalyvauti seminare apie paauglyst\u0119 ir virtual\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. Buvo paliesta tema: masi\u0161kai plintanti program\u0117l\u0117 \u201cTikTok\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinot, po vebinaro nor\u0117jau verkti… ko\u0161maras, koks gyvenimas laukia m\u016bs\u0173 vaik\u0173 jeigu nesustabdysime \u0161ios \u017emonijos degradacijos. Vis ai\u0161kiau darosi, kad visgi vaiko gyvenimo pagrindai yra kuriami t\u0117v\u0173. N\u0117 viena pasaulio vyriausyb\u0117, mokykla ar organizacija negali pasir\u016bpinti kiekvienu planetos k\u016bdikiu ir j\u012f u\u017eauginti \u017emogumi. To reikalaujama, pirmiausia, i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173. Reikalaujamas naujas po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jim\u0105, s\u0105moningumas ir r\u016bpestis, kad pasir\u016bpinti, jog visa kas \u017elugdo \u017emog\u0173 – turi nustoti egzistuoti!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cTikTok\u201d? Kai pagalvoji, tai ko \u010dia jaudintis, kol mano vaikai ma\u017ei, jie kaip ir ,,saug\u016bs\u201d. O kai sulauks paauglyst\u0117s, va tada ir pakalb\u0117sim apie \u201cTikTok\u201d ir kitus reikalus. Bet paklausiusi psicholog\u0173 ir patyrusi\u0173 specialist\u0173 supratau, kad pasiruo\u0161imas paauglystei turi vykti jau nuo gimimo, o tobuliausiu atveju – dar net nepastojus, kai b\u016bsimi t\u0117vai mokomi suvokti gamtos veikimo principus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu ir jums neteko susidurti, tai \u0161i program\u0117l\u0117 buvo sukurta jaunuoliams, ta\u010diau vaikai nuo 8-10 met\u0173 ja naudojasi (kaip ir nelegaliai). \u0160ios program\u0117l\u0117s pagrindinis principas – \u012f\u0161\u016bkiai! A\u0161 padarau ka\u017ek\u0105 \u201ccrazy\u201d, nufilmuoju, pasidalinu ir ,,metu\u201d i\u0161\u0161\u016bk\u012f kitiems, kad jie \u012frodyt\u0173 ar gali geriau u\u017e mane. Pati nesu susid\u016brusi su \u0161ia program\u0117le, bet seminare rod\u0117 pristatom\u0105j\u012f klip\u0105, kuriame jaunimas tikrai elgiasi ekstremaliai… klausant j\u0173 interviu baugino tai, kad jie labai jautriai reaguoja \u012f kit\u0173 komentarus. Ypa\u010d merginos. Viena i\u0161 j\u0173 pasakojo, kad net susilau\u017e\u0117 sau nos\u012f, mat ka\u017ekas para\u0161\u0117 komentar\u0105, kad ji kreiva!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Labiausiai \u0161okiravo vaizdas, kai 8 met\u0173 mergait\u0117 i\u0161sirengin\u0117jo prie\u0161 kamer\u0105… \u010cia klip\u0105 nutrauk\u0117. T\u0119s\u0117me rimt\u0105 diskusij\u0105 apie visa tai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Remiantis mintimis i\u0161 pokalbio)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jaunimas da\u017enai atlieka \u012fvairius i\u0161bandymus, kad \u012frodyt\u0173 patys sau, kas jie tokie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Faktas, kad vaikai konkuruoja kas geresnis n\u0117ra ka\u017ekas naujo. Taip elgiam\u0117s mes visi am\u017ei\u0173 am\u017eiais. Ta\u010diau kaip vaikams paai\u0161kinti, kad yra sveiko proto ribos?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaip paai\u0161kinti mergaitei, kad nusirengin\u0117jimas prie\u0161 kameras atne\u0161 jai \u017e\u0105los? Kad virtuali erdv\u0117, i\u0161 vienos pus\u0117s, suteikia saugumo jausm\u0105, bet i\u0161 kitos – tas informacinis perteklius ver\u010dia elgtis pavojingai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vienintelis atsakymas – tinkamas aukl\u0117jimas. Jeigu t\u0117vai \u017eino \u017emogaus prigimt\u012f, kam skirtas k\u016bnas, kas yra tikras gro\u017eis, kokia yra stipri \u0161eimos vieningumo j\u0117ga ir savo pavyzd\u017eiu to moko dukr\u0105 nuo pat k\u016bdikyst\u0117s, tai ta mergait\u0117, b\u016bdama paaugl\u0117 ar apsupta netinkamos aplinkos, pati pasirinks k\u0105 jai daryti, kad netraumuoti sav\u0119s ir kit\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikrai \u012fsitikinau daug kart\u0173, kad tik t\u0117vai turi sugeb\u0117jim\u0105 r\u016bpintis savo vaikais. Tik jie mato b\u016bsimas gr\u0117smes ateityje. Ir tik jiems i\u0161 tikro r\u016bpi. T\u0117vai nenori u\u017edirbti i\u0161 savo vaik\u0173 ar pasinaudoti, kad laim\u0117t\u0173 kok\u012f projekt\u0105. Gamta t\u0117vus apdovanojo meile vaikams…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Matyt, dar daugiau t\u0117v\u0173 turi susidurti su realybe, did\u0117jan\u010diais depresijos skai\u010diais, nesuvaldomu vaik\u0173 elgesiu, kol galiausiai i\u0161 to skausmo patys panor\u0117sime u\u017eaugti ir prisiimti atsakomyb\u0119 u\u017e kiekvien\u0105 vaik\u0173 judes\u012f, kiekvien\u0105 gars\u0105 jie girdi, kiekvien\u0105 vaizd\u0105 jie mato, kiekvien\u0105 \u017emog\u0173 jie sutinka. Ir panor\u0117sime visa tai pakeisti taip, kad ateities gyvenimas b\u016bt\u0173 saugus ir nukreiptas \u012f tikr\u0173 vertybi\u0173 puosel\u0117jim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0161 jau to labai noriu… \ud83d\udda4\ud83d\udcad<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Neseniai teko sudalyvauti seminare apie paauglyst\u0119 ir virtual\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. Buvo paliesta tema: masi\u0161kai plintanti program\u0117l\u0117 \u201cTikTok\u201d. \u017dinot, po vebinaro nor\u0117jau verkti… ko\u0161maras, koks gyvenimas laukia m\u016bs\u0173 vaik\u0173 jeigu nesustabdysime \u0161ios \u017emonijos degradacijos. Vis ai\u0161kiau darosi, kad visgi vaiko gyvenimo pagrindai yra kuriami t\u0117v\u0173. N\u0117 viena pasaulio vyriausyb\u0117, mokykla ar organizacija negali pasir\u016bpinti kiekvienu planetos k\u016bdikiu […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5735,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5737","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8.jpg",1000,500,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8.jpg",1000,500,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8.jpg",1000,500,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/imami-seima-8.jpg",1000,500,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Neseniai teko sudalyvauti seminare apie paauglyst\u0119 ir virtual\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. 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