{"id":5941,"date":"2020-09-23T00:08:20","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T21:08:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=5941"},"modified":"2020-09-23T08:23:35","modified_gmt":"2020-09-23T05:23:35","slug":"trecias-elementas-tarp-vyro-ir-moters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/trecias-elementas-tarp-vyro-ir-moters\/","title":{"rendered":"TRE\u010cIAS ELEMENTAS TARP VYRO IR MOTERS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vyras u\u017esimin\u0117 skait\u0119s straipsn\u012f apie tai, k\u0105 viena meilu\u017e\u0117 nor\u0117jo perduoti visoms \u017emonoms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pagrindin\u0117 \u017einut\u0117 buvo ta, kad vyrai susiranda meilu\u017ees, nes \u017emonos nepatenkina j\u0173 seksualinio poreikio. Tad straipsnio autor\u0117 kreip\u0117si \u012f visas \u017emonas, kad jos pagalvot\u0173 apie tai ir paskui nesisk\u0173st\u0173, kad vyras ,,pab\u0117go\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mes da\u017enai su vyru kalbame apie moters ir vyro prigimties subtilybes, nes tas pa\u017einimas padeda ne tik su\u017einoti daugiau apie save ar J\u012f, bet ir stiprinti tarpusavio santykius, kurie ir nulemia paliks, nepaliks ir t.t..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dvelgiant tik \u012f vyro pozicij\u0105, tai taip, meilu\u017e\u0117 kaip ir teisi. Vyrai turi tok\u012f prigimtin\u012f potrauk\u012f seksui. Jeigu jo negali patenkinti su \u017emona, tai jis ir ie\u0161kosi kuo ja pakeisti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet \u010dia tiek sluoksni\u0173… Nesu tikra, kad i\u0161eitis b\u016bt\u0173 pasiduoti vakarieti\u0161kai madai ir siekti tapti meilu\u017ee savo vyrui. Moters visai kitokia paskirtis gyvenime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0161 linkusi ie\u0161koti prie\u017easties giliau, remiantis mokslu apie \u017emogaus prigimt\u012f. Manau, jog siekis tapti meilu\u017ee savo vyrui b\u016bt\u0173 tik laikinas sprendimas. Nei\u0161siai\u0161kinus prie\u017easties, nieko neduos i\u0161orinis ,,maskavimas\u201d. Problema vis kils ir kils \u012f pavir\u0161i\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kame \u0161aknys?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yra daugyb\u0117 situacij\u0173, ir kiekviena j\u0173 unikali, ta\u010diau pasteb\u0117jau bendr\u0105 daugumai moter\u0173 fenomen\u0105 – gimus vaikui, gimsta ir at\u0161alimas, seksualin\u0117s traukos suma\u017e\u0117jimas i\u0161 moters pus\u0117s, hormon\u0173 veikla sutrinka ir po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f gyvenim\u0105 kardinaliai pasikei\u010dia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mano aplinkoje keletas \u0161eim\u0173 i\u0161gyveno tikrai sunkius momentus ir visos moterys kartojo kaip susitarusios: ,,a\u0161 net ne\u017einau kaip a\u0161 nepasteb\u0117jau, kad jis turi kit\u0105\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunku pasteb\u0117ti, kai mama tarsi 24\/7 ,,pajungiama\u201d prie k\u016bdikio: jos gyvenimo ritmas pagal k\u016bdik\u012f, jos mintys apie k\u016bdik\u012f, jos d\u017eiaugsmai ir pasidid\u017eiavimas d\u0117l k\u016bdikio. Ir tai ne tai, kad ji pati taip nor\u0117t\u0173, bet tiesiog taip nat\u016braliai \u012fvyksta. Ir palaipsniui vyras atsiduria labai tolimame plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir tai ne Ji ar Jis kalti. Tokie yra gamtos d\u0117sniai, apie kuriuos net ne\u017einome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mes da\u017enai su vaikais \u017ei\u016brime dokumentik\u0105 apie gyv\u016bnus ir \u017eaviuosi ta tobula gamtos veikimo sistema. Patinai bando u\u017ekariauti patel\u0119 arba pati patel\u0117 atsirenka, kuris bus jai tinkamesnis partneris jaunikliams. Apsiporuoja. Patel\u0117 atsiveda jauniklius ir daugumoje r\u016b\u0161i\u0173 patinas tampa nereikalingas. Netgi yra gyv\u016bn\u0173, kad ir motinai po keleri\u0173 met\u0173 dingsta motinyst\u0117s instinktas ir ji nebejau\u010dia, kad tai jos jaunikliai. Joki\u0173 jausm\u0173, dram\u0173. Kai pagalvoju, tai mums pasisek\u0117, nes \u0161ioje sistemoje tik \u017emogus apdovanotas galimybe jausti ry\u0161\u012f vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Taip, kaip gamta valdo apvaisinimo, n\u0117\u0161tumo, gimdymo procesus, taip ji valdo ir visa kita m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime. Jeigu moteris nejaust\u0173 didesn\u0117s traukos k\u016bdikiui u\u017e vyr\u0105, tai ji tinkamai juo nepasir\u016bpint\u0173. Jau pirm\u0105j\u0105 bemieg\u0119 savait\u0119 turb\u016bt palikt\u0173 k\u016bdik\u012f. O dabar ji negali, nes turi vidin\u012f ry\u0161\u012f su vaiku. Tas ry\u0161ys, kas benutikt\u0173, laiko j\u0105 \u0161alia vaiko, budina jai nor\u0105 r\u016bpintis vaiku (kalbama apie moteris, su motinyst\u0117s instinktais). Tai labai didel\u0117 dovana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tad \u017evelgiant \u012f \u0161\u012f tobul\u0105 motinos ir vaiko pavyzd\u012f, santykiuose matau vienintel\u0119 i\u0161eit\u012f – stiprinti vidin\u012f ry\u0161\u012f tarp vyro ir moters. Da\u017enos skyrybos, meilu\u017e\u0117s ar meilu\u017eiai – tai tik rezultatas to, kad n\u0117ra tikro ry\u0161io, kad nesugebame gyventi auk\u0161\u010diau gyv\u016bninio lygmens, kuriame viskas jau apsr\u0119sta hormon\u0173, prigimties ir t.t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To reikia mokytis. Tai menas. \u017dmogaus k\u016brimo menas. Mums tai nauja, mes to siekiame, o m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai gali tuo jau gyventi. Norisi, kad jie dar iki sukuriant \u0161eimas koncentruot\u0173si \u012f santyki\u0173 k\u016brim\u0105, suprast\u0173 j\u0173 viet\u0105 m\u0173s\u0173 gyvenime. Ir kad ir kas benutikt\u0173 vyras stent\u0173si negyventi tik vedinas gyv\u016bnini\u0173 instinkt\u0173, ir jaust\u0173si daug daugiau duodantis ir gaunantis palaikydamas \u017emon\u0105, vis\u0105 \u0161eim\u0105. Moteris taip pat, liaut\u0173si band\u017eiusi tapti super meilu\u017ee ir ramiai atsiduot\u0173 visa savimi vaiko, \u0161eimos prie\u017ei\u016brai, aukl\u0117jimui, kas ir yra jos tikroji savirealizacija. O toki\u0173 santyki\u0173 garantas – abiej\u0173 partneri\u0173 pastangos gyventi tik d\u0117l j\u0173 ry\u0161io, tikros meil\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vyras u\u017esimin\u0117 skait\u0119s straipsn\u012f apie tai, k\u0105 viena meilu\u017e\u0117 nor\u0117jo perduoti visoms \u017emonoms. Pagrindin\u0117 \u017einut\u0117 buvo ta, kad vyrai susiranda meilu\u017ees, nes \u017emonos nepatenkina j\u0173 seksualinio poreikio. Tad straipsnio autor\u0117 kreip\u0117si \u012f visas \u017emonas, kad jos pagalvot\u0173 apie tai ir paskui nesisk\u0173st\u0173, kad vyras ,,pab\u0117go\u201d. 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