{"id":6133,"date":"2020-10-06T22:17:30","date_gmt":"2020-10-06T19:17:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6133"},"modified":"2020-10-06T23:24:04","modified_gmt":"2020-10-06T20:24:04","slug":"kai-netelpa-viduje-pasireiskia-isoreje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kai-netelpa-viduje-pasireiskia-isoreje\/","title":{"rendered":"KAI VIDUJE PERSIPILDAI &#8211; I\u0160LEIDI \u012e I\u0160OR\u0118"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ryto pokalbio tema buvo apie tai, kad, kai \u0161irdis prisipildo \u012fvairi\u0173 jausm\u0173, jautiesi pilnas susijaudinimo, ir nesvarbu ar nuo ger\u0173, ar nuo blog\u0173 dalyk\u0173, visa tai mumyse nebetelpa ir i\u0161rei\u0161kiame juos \u012f i\u0161or\u0119. Visai kaip stiklin\u0117 su vandeniu, kai pilamas vanduo nebetelpa, jis b\u0117ga per vir\u0161\u0173. Taip nutinka ir su m\u016bs\u0173 emocijomis, jausmais, net mintimis!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaminome popierines l\u0117lytes ant pagaliuk\u0173, v\u0117liau pavadinome savo vardais ir kalb\u0117jome apie jas (vaikai net nesuprato, kad i\u0161 ties\u0173 tai jie pasakoja apie save \ud83e\udd2d\ud83d\ude01).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/a5ae0222-9140-4c75-9615-dab2e59566d7.jpg\" data-id=\"6125\" class=\"wp-image-6125\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/a5ae0222-9140-4c75-9615-dab2e59566d7.jpg 452w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/a5ae0222-9140-4c75-9615-dab2e59566d7-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58b51ad2-2da1-49da-8943-383caa543cfe.jpg\" data-id=\"6121\" class=\"wp-image-6121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58b51ad2-2da1-49da-8943-383caa543cfe.jpg 452w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58b51ad2-2da1-49da-8943-383caa543cfe-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/89f8cf8b-f766-4f3e-9300-410c90c52144.jpg\" data-id=\"6123\" class=\"wp-image-6123\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/89f8cf8b-f766-4f3e-9300-410c90c52144.jpg 452w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/89f8cf8b-f766-4f3e-9300-410c90c52144-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58335132-def3-43f4-8548-380d0248893c.jpg\" data-id=\"6126\" class=\"wp-image-6126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58335132-def3-43f4-8548-380d0248893c.jpg 452w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/58335132-def3-43f4-8548-380d0248893c-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"452\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/3ef91740-09f5-43b2-9703-46362e491f2e.jpg\" data-id=\"6122\" class=\"wp-image-6122\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/3ef91740-09f5-43b2-9703-46362e491f2e.jpg 452w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/3ef91740-09f5-43b2-9703-46362e491f2e-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 452px) 100vw, 452px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"602\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8991ffc4-67a7-4404-a1ee-22af0b2c7b96.jpg\" data-id=\"6124\" class=\"wp-image-6124\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8991ffc4-67a7-4404-a1ee-22af0b2c7b96.jpg 602w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/8991ffc4-67a7-4404-a1ee-22af0b2c7b96-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 602px) 100vw, 602px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Klausiau vaik\u0173, o jie tur\u0117jo atsakyti kaip advokatai u\u017e l\u0117lytes:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 Ko patinka tai l\u0117lei? (Jai patinka&#8230;)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 Ko ji bijo? (Ji bijo&#8230;)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 Kaip ji jau\u010diasi, kai yra laiminga?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 O kada ji da\u017eniausiai supyksta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 Kas jai padeda nusiraminti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 Kada ji verkia?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2043 O ar teko jai verkti, kai ji buvo labai laiminga?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tokiu b\u016bdu galima i\u0161p\u0117sti daug atsakym\u0173 \ud83d\ude01. Beje, tok\u012f pratim\u0105 atlikin\u0117jome \u0161eim\u0173 kursuose su vyru, tai buvo \u012frankis pasikalb\u0117ti tre\u010diuoju asmeniu apie tai, ko m\u016bs\u0173 ,,A\u0161\u201d nedr\u012fsta sakyti, klausti ir pan. Toks psichologinis pratimas tikai pralau\u017eia ledus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-3 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"602\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/558ad515-6172-4783-8218-e39ecc6d857f.jpg\" data-id=\"6128\" class=\"wp-image-6128\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/558ad515-6172-4783-8218-e39ecc6d857f.jpg 602w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/558ad515-6172-4783-8218-e39ecc6d857f-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 602px) 100vw, 602px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"460\" height=\"602\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/d523285a-d4b8-4fb2-8231-f9539eb16bd6.jpg\" data-id=\"6127\" class=\"wp-image-6127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/d523285a-d4b8-4fb2-8231-f9539eb16bd6.jpg 460w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/d523285a-d4b8-4fb2-8231-f9539eb16bd6-229x300.jpg 229w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 460px) 100vw, 460px\" \/><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-item__caption\">Vaikai nustebo, kad a\u0161aros kartais b\u0117ga ir i\u0161 d\u017aiaugsmo \ud83d\ude0a.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"602\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/e36c778a-109c-4bec-a80c-59b37b8a7217.jpg\" data-id=\"6129\" class=\"wp-image-6129\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/e36c778a-109c-4bec-a80c-59b37b8a7217.jpg 602w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/e36c778a-109c-4bec-a80c-59b37b8a7217-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 602px) 100vw, 602px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, po pokalbio apie l\u0117lytes, emocijas, j\u0173 i\u0161rai\u0161kas labai nor\u0117jau patenkinti s\u016bnaus nor\u0105 si\u016bti \ud83d\ude0a. Tad sugalvojome pasisi\u016bti ma\u017eus objektus, kurie simbolizuot\u0173 vien\u0105 ar kit\u0105 jausm\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dienos b\u0117gyje vaikai da\u017enai naudojosi pa\u010di\u0173 pagamintomis priemon\u0117mis. Su l\u0117l\u0117mis paruo\u0161\u0117 spektakl\u012f. Emocijos buvo kaip ma\u017ei \u017eaisliukai, net saky\u010diau, konfliktines situacijas g\u0119sinan\u010dios priemon\u0117s. Kartais sukeldamos juok\u0105 (pvz. s\u016bnui supykus pa\u0117miau ,,spyglius\u201d ir \u0117miau rodyti (kutendama), kad tavo pyk\u010dio spygliai skrieja \u012f mus visus, tai su\u0161velnino visk\u0105). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-2 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"602\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/2d472202-68c6-4dfd-b818-882596e9946e.jpg\" data-id=\"6131\" class=\"wp-image-6131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/2d472202-68c6-4dfd-b818-882596e9946e.jpg 602w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/2d472202-68c6-4dfd-b818-882596e9946e-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 602px) 100vw, 602px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"602\" height=\"452\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4387f461-6a12-4535-a6c2-7f18100c390f.jpg\" data-id=\"6130\" class=\"wp-image-6130\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4387f461-6a12-4535-a6c2-7f18100c390f.jpg 602w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/4387f461-6a12-4535-a6c2-7f18100c390f-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 602px) 100vw, 602px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><figcaption class=\"blocks-gallery-caption\">\u017di\u016brovai \ud83d\ude42 (papildomai naudojo emocij\u0173 l\u0117lytes)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes dar stadijoje, kai labiau noriu atkreipti vaiko d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f tai, kas su juo vyksta ir kod\u0117l. Taip pat, svarbus momentas, kad vaikas jaust\u0173, jog n\u0117ra blog\u0173 ar ger\u0173 emocij\u0173, kad nereikia nieko slopint, pirma reikia pa\u017einti visk\u0105, kas tavyje yra, o tada mokytis kaip su visuo tuo dirbti, kad nepakentki sau ir kitiems. Tad k\u0105 daryti toliau &#8211; tai bus sekantis etapas, jau suvokiant, kad su manim ka\u017ekas \u012fvyko, kokios yra emocij\u0173 prie\u017eastis ir pan. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ryto pokalbio tema buvo apie tai, kad, kai \u0161irdis prisipildo \u012fvairi\u0173 jausm\u0173, jautiesi pilnas susijaudinimo, ir nesvarbu ar nuo ger\u0173, ar nuo blog\u0173 dalyk\u0173, visa tai mumyse nebetelpa ir i\u0161rei\u0161kiame juos \u012f i\u0161or\u0119. Visai kaip stiklin\u0117 su vandeniu, kai pilamas vanduo nebetelpa, jis b\u0117ga per vir\u0161\u0173. Taip nutinka ir su m\u016bs\u0173 emocijomis, jausmais, net mintimis! 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Visai kaip stiklin\u0117 su vandeniu, kai pilamas vanduo nebetelpa, jis b\u0117ga per vir\u0161\u0173. 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