{"id":6138,"date":"2020-10-06T23:19:35","date_gmt":"2020-10-06T20:19:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6138"},"modified":"2020-10-10T14:54:20","modified_gmt":"2020-10-10T11:54:20","slug":"6138-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/6138-2\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u0160 TA\u0160KO A \u012e TA\u0160K\u0104 B"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u2043 Kaip galvojate kas s\u0117di pati paskutin\u0117, paskutiniame vagone? \ud83e\udd14\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taip. A\u0161 \ud83e\udd2d\ud83d\ude48.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prie\u0161 kelias dienas pasakojau vaikams vien\u0105 trump\u0105 alegorij\u0105, kad \u017emogaus gyvenimas ka\u017ekuo pana\u0161us \u012f traukin\u012f, kuris visada juda i\u0161 ta\u0161ko A \u012f ta\u0161k\u0105 B. Ir \u017emogui da\u017enai sunku palikti ta\u0161k\u0105 A, nes jame jam patogu, jis visk\u0105 \u010dia pa\u017e\u012fsta, o apie ta\u0161k\u0105 B nieko ne\u017eino. Bet traukinys nestoja, jis juda \u012f ta\u0161k\u0105 B. Vieniems \u017emon\u0117ms tai patinka, o kitiems tai keli\u0105 kan\u010dias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160tai kod\u0117l gale nupie\u0161tas pats labiausiai besikankinantis \u017emogus, o priekyje pats laimingiausias.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir i\u0161 dalies s\u016bnus teisus, kad gale yra b\u016btent moterys, o priekyje vyrai. Nors jis nupie\u0161\u0117 mane ir dukr\u0105 paskutiniame vagone, kaip mes \u017ei\u016brime \u012f ta\u0161k\u0105 A, nes nebuvo daugiau vagon\u0173, o istorija sako, kad turi b\u016bti ken\u010dian\u010di\u0173, ta\u010diau gerai pagalvojus toks i\u0161d\u0117stymas parodo daug m\u016bs\u0173 prigintini\u0173 dalyk\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moteris, patekusi \u012f nauj\u0105 viet\u0105, kad jaust\u0173si gerai, yra linkusi \u012fsitvirtinti, \u012fsisavinti t\u0105 j\u0105 supan\u010di\u0105 aplink\u0105, puosel\u0117ti, auginti, pl\u0117sti. Jai labai svarbus saugumo, \u017einojimo ir u\u017etikrintumo jausmas. Jos rankose \u0161eima. Visi jos skai\u010diavimai \u0161ia kryptimi. Tok\u012f u\u017etikrintum\u0105 turime ta\u0161ke A \ud83d\ude42.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Beje, moterys turi dar vien\u0105 \u012fdomi\u0105 savyb\u0119 &#8211; nepasitenkinimas be prie\u017easties. Dauguma vyr\u0173 nervuojasi, kad moteris negali pasakyti ko ji nori, kas jai nepatinka, ko ji supyko. Ta\u010diau ji turi teis\u0119 b\u016bti nelaiminga, vis ka\u017ekuo nepatenkinta, net pati ne\u017einodama kod\u0117l. Tokia moters savyb\u0117 ver\u010dia vyr\u0105 tobul\u0117ti ir ie\u0161koti, tai ko ji nori, ko dar tr\u016bksta. Net ir pati moteris taip auga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vyrai labiau link\u0119 \u017eaisti, ie\u0161koti, l\u0117kti pirmyn, tod\u0117l kelion\u0117 \u012f ne\u017einomyb\u0119 juos turb\u016bt vilioja. Kaip ir pie\u0161inyje berniukas pats laimingiausias s\u0117d\u0117damas pirmame vagone \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai tikrai u\u017esimir\u0161ta, kad mes skirtingi ir imi reikalauti i\u0161 ,,klajoklio med\u017eiotojo\u201d tapti ,,nam\u0173 \u017eidinio serg\u0117toja\u201d. Vyrai neturi tokio nat\u016bralaus poreikio puosel\u0117ti namus, dekoruoti juos, kurti atmosfer\u0105. Tai moters darbas, ji jautri tokiems dalykams, ji turi vidin\u012f poj\u016bt\u012f tam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moteris mato labai detaliai kas vyksta nedideliu spinduliu. O vyrai labai gerai mato plat\u0173 vaizd\u0105, jie sugeba susieti nam\u0173 reikalus su globaliomis tendencijomis, nujausti kokie poky\u010diai laukia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Moteris savyje turi vis ka\u017ekok\u012f poreik\u012f tobul\u0117ti, nors i\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s jai sunku palikti tai, k\u0105 jau ,,sukaup\u0117\u201d, o vyras lankstus, neprisiri\u0161antis. Jis neturi vidinio poreikio tobul\u0117ti, bet jis jau\u010diasi tikras vyras, gal\u0117damas leistis \u012f ne\u017einomas plotmes ,,sumed\u017eioti\u201d savo moteriai tai, ko reikia jai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tuom ir \u017eavi \u0161i s\u0105junga &#8211; abu skirtingi, bet abu begalo reikalingi vienas kitam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaila, kad daug toki\u0173 nuostabi\u0173 nat\u016brali\u0173 dalyk\u0173 ,,apaugo\u201d dirbtinomis vertyb\u0117mis ir stereotipais, bet jau pastebiu vis atsirandan\u010dias poras, kurios siekia tarpusavio ry\u0161io mokantis to i\u0161 gamtos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turb\u016bt kai apie ka\u017ek\u0105 galvoji b\u016btent taip, tai tada visur gali tai \u012f\u017evelgti, net ir vaik\u0173 k\u016bryboje \ud83d\udda4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2043 Kaip galvojate kas s\u0117di pati paskutin\u0117, paskutiniame vagone? \ud83e\udd14\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02 Taip. 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