{"id":6142,"date":"2020-10-07T14:00:36","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T11:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6142"},"modified":"2020-10-14T20:17:36","modified_gmt":"2020-10-14T17:17:36","slug":"dalykai-kuriuos-mano-vaikai-turi-zinoti-morale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/dalykai-kuriuos-mano-vaikai-turi-zinoti-morale\/","title":{"rendered":"DALYKAI, KURIUOS MANO VAIKAI TURI \u017dINOTI | MORAL\u0116"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Jau kur\u012f laik\u0105 galvoju apie moral\u0119. Daug dalyk\u0173, kuriuos mane mok\u0117 vaikyst\u0117je buvo klaidingi arba \u0161iandien tai neveikia. Pavyzd\u017eiui, reikia visada b\u016bti geru kitam, dalintis, nusileisti. Pagalvokim, ir kas i\u0161 to i\u0161eis? Tas kitas tiesiog manimi naudosis. A\u0161 netur\u0117siu nieko! Arba reikia su\u0161elpti pinig\u0173 gatv\u0117je pra\u0161an\u010diam. A\u0161 noriu b\u016bti doras \u017emogus, pad\u0117ti galb\u016bt b\u0117doje esan\u010diam \u017emogui, bet jeigu tas \u017emogus jau antr\u0105 savait\u0119 nebando ie\u0161kotis darbo, kuris duot\u0173 naudos visuomenei, o vis\u0105 dien\u0105 maldauja pinig\u0173, tai a\u0161 negaliu jam nieko duoti, taip leisiu jam parazitauti visuomen\u0117s s\u0105skaita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Su vyru daug kalbame moral\u0117s tema, nes tai labai svarbus pagrindas vaik\u0173 gyvenime, o \u010dia tiek daug visoki\u0173 plonybi\u0173: kaip nuspr\u0119sti kada turiu duoti kitam, o kada ne, kada turiu nusileisti, o kada laikytis savo, kada b\u016bti nuo\u0161ird\u017eiam, o kada parodyti abejingum\u0105. Tai kertinis momentas vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mes stengiam\u0117s ai\u0161kiai pademonstruoti, kad nuolatos klausiame sav\u0119s ar mano elgesys nepakenks visuomenei. Mudu su vyru laikom\u0117s to, kad kas benutikt\u0173, mano veiksmai turi nekenkti visuomenei, o dar geriau – pad\u0117ti, pasitarnauti jos naudai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaikai labai gerai tai supranta, kai mato t\u0117v\u0173 pavyzd\u012f. Pavyzd\u017eiui, valgiau ledus, neturiu kur i\u0161mesti popieriuko, k\u0105 man daryti: pasiimti su savimi ar mesti ant \u017eemes? O kas ma\u017eiau kenks visuomenei? \u017dinoma, kad turiu saugoti gamt\u0105, tad ie\u0161kau b\u016bd\u0173 pasiimti popieriuk\u0105 su savimi. Apie tai kalbu vaikui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar man mok\u0117ti u\u017e statybines \u0161iuk\u0161les savartyne kitame mieste, ar nemokamai i\u0161versti jas mi\u0161ke?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160iandien noriu atsipalaiduoti, man norisi garsios muzikos, ar klausytis jos namie, ar nueiti, pavyzd\u017eiui, \u012f klub\u0105 ir leisti kaimynams pails\u0117ti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mes nuolatos darome \u0161imtus pasirinkim\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manau, kad viskas prasidesa nuo labai paprast\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kuriuos t\u0117vai ir parodo vaikams. V\u0117liau vaikai periima tok\u012f matavimo \u0161ablon\u0105 ir naudoja savo gyvenime, kurdami geresn\u0119 visuomen\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mano s\u016bnus dabar svajoja b\u016bti i\u0161rad\u0117ju. Kas \u017eino, gal tuo u\u017esiims. Ir jeigu mes dabar investuosime \u012f tai, kad vidin\u0117 vertyb\u0117 bus nekenkti visuomenei, o jai pad\u0117ti, tai net neabejoju, kad gal\u0117damas pasirinkti tarp i\u0161radimo, kurio gamyba jam ma\u017eiau kainuot\u0173, bet u\u017edirbt\u0173 daug pinig\u0173 ir ter\u0161t\u0173 gamt\u0105 arba tarp i\u0161radimo, kuris jam pa\u010diam kainuot\u0173 brangiau, bet ma\u017eiau atne\u0161t\u0173 pelno, bei ma\u017eiau ter\u0161t\u0173 gamt\u0105, jis rinksis b\u016btent antr\u0105j\u012f variant\u0105 arba visai atsisakys savo id\u0117jos. Nes jame taip veikia moral\u0117s svarstykl\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mums moral\u0117 – tai galvojimas kaip mano veiksmai \u012ftakos visuomen\u0119, ir geb\u0117jimas, tuo remiantis, pasirinkti k\u0105 daryti toliau, kad nepakenkti. Tai mano vidin\u0117s svarstykl\u0117s, kurias gerai \u012fvald\u017eius a\u0161 i\u0161mokstu nesiremti tik savo nuomone, tik savo noru, tik savo emocijomis, bet \u012fvertinti pasekmes visuomen\u0117s at\u017evilgiu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinoma, yra situcij\u0173, kur egzistuoja hierarchija ar \u012fstatymai ir \u010dia negali demonstruoti savo individualumo ir moralini\u0173 vertybi\u0173 (pvz. armijoje, k\u0105 liepia – t\u0105 ir darai). Tai irgi reikia \u017einoti. Pavyzd\u017eiui, \u012fstatymas d\u0117l kauki\u0173 ne\u0161iojimo. A\u0161 nevertinu, nekritikuoju gerai tos kauk\u0117s, ar ne, bet a\u0161 j\u0105 deduosi tam, kad parody\u010diau, jog laikausi visuomen\u0117s nutarimo. Mano vertinimam \u0161ioje vietoje nelabai yra prasm\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet jeigu tose situacijose, kuriose vaikai turi galimyb\u0119 rinktis, jie sugeb\u0117s pasverti pasekmes ir mok\u0117s net atsisakyti savo nor\u0173 d\u0117l naudos visuomenei, manau jie bus labai vis\u0173 m\u0117giami, mylimi tiek darbe, tiek gyvenime. O jeigu tu esi mylimas, tai tu esi laimingas, saugus, savimi pasitikintis. Tai manau, kad \u010dia toks ma\u017eytis triukas, kur\u012f m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai turi \u017einoti ir atitinkamai pagal am\u017ei\u0173 su metais \u012fvaldyti \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jau kur\u012f laik\u0105 galvoju apie moral\u0119. Daug dalyk\u0173, kuriuos mane mok\u0117 vaikyst\u0117je buvo klaidingi arba \u0161iandien tai neveikia. Pavyzd\u017eiui, reikia visada b\u016bti geru kitam, dalintis, nusileisti. Pagalvokim, ir kas i\u0161 to i\u0161eis? Tas kitas tiesiog manimi naudosis. A\u0161 netur\u0117siu nieko! Arba reikia su\u0161elpti pinig\u0173 gatv\u0117je pra\u0161an\u010diam. A\u0161 noriu b\u016bti doras \u017emogus, pad\u0117ti galb\u016bt b\u0117doje esan\u010diam […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6141,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6142","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217.jpg",602,301,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217.jpg",602,301,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217.jpg",602,301,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217.jpg",602,301,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/549f46ce-0c47-4d32-a6cd-9930526a6217.jpg",602,301,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Jau kur\u012f laik\u0105 galvoju apie moral\u0119. 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