{"id":6322,"date":"2020-10-10T23:41:54","date_gmt":"2020-10-10T20:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6322"},"modified":"2020-10-11T23:55:07","modified_gmt":"2020-10-11T20:55:07","slug":"grupine-jega","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/grupine-jega\/","title":{"rendered":"GRUPIN\u0116 J\u0116GA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Po straipsnio apie brangiausi\u0105 privat\u0173 dar\u017eel\u012f paskelbimo gavau labai daug asmenini\u0173 \u017einu\u010di\u0173 su palaikymo, pad\u0117kos \u017eod\u017eiais, bei klausimais ,,kaip jums pavyksta?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dinote, vienai nepavykt\u0173 niekas. Poj\u016btis nuolatinio palaikymo yra tas kuras, kuris ir u\u017edega stengtis, daryti, tobul\u0117ti ir d\u017eiaugtis!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Man da\u017enai atrodo, kad \u0161iuolaikiniame pasaulyje mama b\u016bti labai sunku, viskas atrodo ne\u012fmanoma. Vis gird\u017eiu aplinkini\u0173 neigiamus komentarus kod\u0117l atsisakau karjeros d\u0117l vaik\u0173, kada dirbsiu, kada ils\u0117siuos, kada gyvensiu d\u0117l sav\u0119s, kada vaikai eis \u012f dar\u017eel\u012f ir t.t. Tokie komentarai nori nenori pas\u0117ja abejones, nepasitik\u0117jim\u0105, galvoji, o kod\u0117l blogai galvoti kitaip, ar blogai skirti gyvenim\u0105 vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimui, ar ka\u017ekam kenkia, kad noriu u\u017eauginti s\u0105moningus \u017emones?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Per laik\u0105 paveikta tokios aplinkos imi kaltinti save, reikalauti ka\u017eko, kas n\u0117ra tikrieji vidiniai poreikiai, o tik aplinkos dirbtinai suformuotos asmenin\u0117s nuomones, visi\u0161kai nesusijusios su mano asmenine situacija. Galiausiai \u017ei\u016bri \u012f save ir galvoji: \u201eK\u0105 rinktis? K\u0105 daryti?!\u201c. Ir jeigu lik\u010diau viena su tokiomis mintimis, tai kiek ilgai a\u0161 b\u016b\u010diau motyvuota? Vienai tiesiog per sunku atlaikyti t\u0105 milijardus kainuojan\u010di\u0105 industrin\u0119 sistem\u0105, kasdien gatv\u0117je komentuojan\u010dius \u017emones, net patys pedagogai (ne visi) yra prie\u0161 tavo pasirinkim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei atvirai, tai bijojau apie tai kalb\u0117ti, bet vyras padr\u0105sino, kad turiu apie tai para\u0161yti. Turiu kalb\u0117ti apie tai, k\u0105 jau\u010dia dauguma t\u0117v\u0173, ypa\u010d moter\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ilgai galvojau apie t\u0105 ,,dauguma moter\u0173\u201d, bet pasirodo jis teisus, a\u0161 ne viena tokia&#8230; j\u016bs\u0173 tiek daug! \ud83d\udc4f\ud83c\udffb o kiek dar daug nekalba apie tai&#8230; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Manau, jeigu mes daugiau kalb\u0117sime apie m\u016bs\u0173 vaidmens svarb\u0105, \u012fkv\u0117psime ir palaikysime vieni kitus, tai tie, kurie dabar garsiai kritikuoja, nes nesugeba ar nenori prisiimti atsakomyb\u0117s u\u017e b\u016bsim\u0105 pasaul\u012f, ims vertinti tuos, kurie dabar tyliai, kantriai, sunkiai dirba vardan j\u0173 gerov\u0117s, atsakingai aukl\u0117dami save, bei savo vaikus. Jie ims \u017eav\u0117tis s\u0105moningais t\u0117vais ir vietoj kritikos, dalinsis palaikan\u010diais komplimentais, kurie motyvuos t\u0117vus nepasiduodi sunkiomis akimirkomis ir toliau lyd\u0117ti vaikus per vis\u0105 proces\u0105 kartu. B\u016bti s\u0105moningais t\u0117vais bus tiesiog madinga! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet kol tai \u012fvyks, a\u0161 stengiuosi palaikyti savo draugus, pa\u017eistamus, kurie ry\u017etasi atiduoti vis\u0105 save, kad \u0161i karta b\u016bt\u0173 kitokia, kurie paskai\u010diuoja kas bus naudingiau vaiko, \u0161eimos ir net pa\u010dios visuomen\u0117s at\u017evilgiu. Tik tokia grupin\u0117 j\u0117ga padeda nepasiduoti, jaustis u\u017etikrintu, saugiu ir mylin\u010diu ir \u012f pasaulio rink\u0105 paleisti naujas vertybes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes vertos b\u016bti laimingomis moterimis, kurios gal\u0117t\u0173 realizuoti save kaip mamos, be jokio streso i\u0161 aplinkos, o prie\u0161ingai, su pasidid\u017eiavimu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2808\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Po straipsnio apie brangiausi\u0105 privat\u0173 dar\u017eel\u012f paskelbimo gavau labai daug asmenini\u0173 \u017einu\u010di\u0173 su palaikymo, pad\u0117kos \u017eod\u017eiais, bei klausimais ,,kaip jums pavyksta?\u201d. \u017dinote, vienai nepavykt\u0173 niekas. Poj\u016btis nuolatinio palaikymo yra tas kuras, kuris ir u\u017edega stengtis, daryti, tobul\u0117ti ir d\u017eiaugtis! Man da\u017enai atrodo, kad \u0161iuolaikiniame pasaulyje mama b\u016bti labai sunku, viskas atrodo ne\u012fmanoma. 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