{"id":6559,"date":"2020-10-31T23:02:23","date_gmt":"2020-10-31T21:02:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6559"},"modified":"2020-11-01T21:29:10","modified_gmt":"2020-11-01T19:29:10","slug":"kritika-seimoje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kritika-seimoje\/","title":{"rendered":"KRITIKA \u0160EIMOJE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Turb\u016bt daugiausia pastang\u0173 reik\u0117s, kol mes ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai suprasime i\u0161 kur atsiranda kritika ir kaip ja pasinaudoti tinkamai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Man atrodo, kad pagrindiniai gyvenimo dalykai visada pirmiausia i\u0161mokstami \u0161eimoje. V\u0117liau susiformav\u0119 baziniai \u0161ablonai jau pasipildo, ple\u010diasi su visuomen\u0117s pagalba. Tad labai svarbu \u0161eimoje pad\u0117ti vienas kitam suprasti, kad tai yra \u017emogaus prigimtin\u0117 savyb\u0117 ir ji n\u0117ra smerkiama, jos nereik\u0117t\u0173 g\u0117dytis ar teisti kito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0161 visk\u0105 matau ir vertinu pagal savo suvokim\u0105 ir kritika kitam \u017emogui kyla i\u0161 to, jeigu jis daro, m\u0105sto kitaip negu a\u0161. Tai vyksta pas\u0105moningai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaikams labai reikalingas t\u0117v\u0173 pavyzdys, pademonstruojantis, kad kritikuoti galiu tik save. Tas sugeb\u0117jimas pa\u017evelgti kur a\u0161 turiu pasitempti gerokai palengvint\u0173 gyvenim\u0105, nereik\u0117t\u0173 kapstytis kit\u0173 gyvenimuose, o gal\u0117\u010diau vis\u0105 save skirti savo lamingo gyvenimo k\u016brimui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir tai n\u0117ra lengva misija… \ud83d\udcad<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visai neseniai kalb\u0117jausi su draug\u0117mis \u0161ia tema ir visos vienbalsiai pripa\u017einome, kad \u0161eimoje did\u017eiausios kritik\u0117s esame mes \ud83d\ude48. Mat moteris apima daug sri\u010di\u0173, ji \u017eino daug, jos reikalavimai ir poreikiai didesni, tod\u0117l jai ir kyla daugiausia t\u0173 susikirtimo ta\u0161k\u0173 su \u0161eimos nariais. O kaip \u017einia, moteris yra ta a\u0161is, aplink kuri\u0105 ,,sukasi\u201d visi kiti. Tai man pasirod\u0117 labai svarbu i\u0161sikelti \u0161eimoje vien\u0105 i\u0161 tiksl\u0173 – \u0161eimoje gyventi be kritikos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmas \u017eingsnelis – mokytis atpa\u017einti ar kritikuoju, kad kritikuoti, kad parody\u010diau vald\u017ei\u0105, pademonstruo\u010diau savo prana\u0161um\u0105, ar i\u0161 tikro noriu pasakyti pastab\u0105, kuri pad\u0117s kitam \u017emogui tobul\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu kritika kyla pirmuoju atveju, tai ji tik paa\u0161trina situacij\u0105, atitolina vienus nuo kit\u0173. Eikvoju energij\u0105 veltui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viena draug\u0117 dalinosi: ,,Kai man kyla prie\u0161taravimai, a\u0161 mokausi patyl\u0117ti kokias 10min. O po to ramiu balsu paai\u0161kinu savo po\u017ei\u016brio ta\u0161k\u0105, bet jau be noro ,,\u012fkasti\u201d. Ir tai veikia labai teigiamai, vyras d\u017eiaugiasi, kad pagaliau galima pasikalb\u0117ti ir i\u0161sia\u0161kinti daug svarbi\u0173 dalyk\u0173\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Antruoju atveju – jeigu a\u0161 noriu nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai pad\u0117ti – tai kritikuoju tik i\u0161 meil\u0117s. Tada kiekvienas \u017eodis ir turi nuskamb\u0117ti su ketinimu pad\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Svarbus momentas, kad \u017emon\u0117s jau\u010dia ir be \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 koks yra m\u016bs\u0173 vidinis po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f juos. Tai many\u010diau, kad net vidinei neigiamai kritikai netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti vietos. Bent jau \u0161eimoje. \ud83d\ude48\ud83e\udd1e\ud83c\udffb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinoma, tai padaryti n\u0117ra lengva. Atrodo, kai jau pavyko, i\u0161kart nutinka ka\u017ekas, d\u0117l ko v\u0117l ka\u017ek\u0105 pagalvojai ar pasakei. Bet tai tik \u012fprotis, kur\u012f reikia formuoti visiems \u0161eimos nariams kartu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Turb\u016bt daugiausia pastang\u0173 reik\u0117s, kol mes ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai suprasime i\u0161 kur atsiranda kritika ir kaip ja pasinaudoti tinkamai. Man atrodo, kad pagrindiniai gyvenimo dalykai visada pirmiausia i\u0161mokstami \u0161eimoje. V\u0117liau susiformav\u0119 baziniai \u0161ablonai jau pasipildo, ple\u010diasi su visuomen\u0117s pagalba. Tad labai svarbu \u0161eimoje pad\u0117ti vienas kitam suprasti, kad tai yra \u017emogaus prigimtin\u0117 savyb\u0117 ir ji […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6568,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6559","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Turb\u016bt daugiausia pastang\u0173 reik\u0117s, kol mes ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai suprasime i\u0161 kur atsiranda kritika ir kaip ja pasinaudoti tinkamai. 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