{"id":6627,"date":"2020-11-09T01:34:02","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T23:34:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6627"},"modified":"2020-11-12T21:54:10","modified_gmt":"2020-11-12T19:54:10","slug":"dalykai-kuriuos-turi-zinoti-mano-vaikai-saviverte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/dalykai-kuriuos-turi-zinoti-mano-vaikai-saviverte\/","title":{"rendered":"DALYKAI, KURIUOS TURI \u017dINOTI MANO VAIKAI | SAVIVERT\u0116"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Viena i\u0161 mano u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 yra, kad mano vaikai suprast\u0173, jog jie n\u0117ra kalti d\u0117l to, kokie jie yra. Mok\u0117t\u0173 susitaikyti su savo \u012fgimtomis savyb\u0117mis, turimu IQ. Norisi, kad jie pa\u017eint\u0173 save tokius, kokie gim\u0117 i\u0161 gamtos. Atrast\u0173 kod\u0117l yra b\u016btent tokie ir kaip gali realizuoti save. Ir \u017einot\u0173, kad visos savyb\u0117s jiems ir duotos b\u016btent tokios, koki\u0173 reikia, kad gal\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti laimingi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeigu \u017emogus lygina save su i\u0161galvotais, dirbtinai sukurtais persona\u017eais, tai jis nebegali vertinti tikrojo sav\u0119s. Ir akivaizdu, kad tas skirtumas tarp tikrojo \u017emogaus ir \u012fsivaizduojamo vaizdinio sukelia nemalonius jausmus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Norisi pad\u0117ti vaikams sukurti teising\u0105 savo vaizdin\u012f, atrasti tuos vidinius tikslus ir pad\u0117ti \u012fvertinti koki\u0173 savybi\u0173 reikia, kad jie pasiekt\u0173 t\u0173 tiksl\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai visi\u0161kai nauja ir man pa\u010diai. Mokausi kartu su jais. Savo pavyzd\u017eiu, kaip elgiuosi su vaikais, parodau jiems kaip juos vertinu. Pasteb\u0117jau, kad u\u017e noro pagirti, pasakyti kompliment\u0105 slypi pavojus, kad vaike susiformuos po\u017ei\u016bris, jog nuolatos jam viskas turi sektis. O jei ka\u017ekas ne\u012fvyksta &#8211; tai ,,numu\u0161a\u201d motyvacij\u0105 ir jis nebe\u017eino kaip v\u0117l atsistoti ant koj\u0173. Kaip ir visur, taip ir \u010dia turi b\u016bti balansas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai savivert\u0117 per ma\u017ea, tai \u017emogus neturi motyvacijos tobul\u0117ti, visos pastangos jam atrodo nieko vertos, ,,juk vis tiek nepavyks\u201d. Kai \u017emogus save vertina per gerai, tada nesugeba pamatyti situacijos tokios, kokia ji yra, jis save pervertina ir da\u017enai klysta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar toks esminis dalykas &#8211; nuolat atkreipti d\u0117mes\u012f kokiais b\u016bdais paai\u0161kinu vaikams, kad jie pasielg\u0117 netinkamai. Pasakymai kaip ,,nedaryk taip\u201d, ,,pasitrauk, leisk, padarysiu geriau u\u017e tave\u201d demonstruoja, kad save laikau heroje, o vaikus &#8211; ma\u017eais vaikais. N\u0117ra nieko labiau menkina\u010dio vaiko negu toks po\u017ei\u016bris. Tai su\u017elugdo jo pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi ir jis vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105 gali likti toks. Kai t\u0117vai suma\u017eina vaiko savivert\u0119, jis nebebando gyvenime nieko daryti, nes jau i\u0161 anksto \u017eino, kad jam nepavyks. Ir tai bus labai sunku pakeisti. Jis nesugeb\u0117s dr\u0105siai eiti ir siekti gyvenime s\u0117km\u0117s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mes norime to i\u0161vengti. Tad paskutiniu metu visos mano pastangos metamos \u012f partneryst\u0117s statybas. T\u0117vai ir vaikai turi tapti partneriais, tik tada vaikai mokosi i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173. Tai nelengva, bet, tikiu, verta!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Stipriausiai \u0161iai dienai i\u0161bandyta ir veikianti priemon\u0117 &#8211; dalyvavimas kartu: mokom\u0117s, valgome, kalbame, \u017eaid\u017eiame. Pa\u017ei\u016brime kartu filmus apie gamt\u0105, tai palieka vaikams gerus \u012fsp\u016bd\u017eius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kai dalyvauju kartu su vaikais, jie mato m\u016bs\u0173 pavyzd\u012f, kad suaug\u0119 irgi domisi tuo, kad jiems tai svarbu. Jie mato, kad a\u0161 dalyvauju kartu ir jie yra suaugusio lygmenyje. Mes kaip partneriai dalinam\u0117s mintimis, \u012fsp\u016bd\u017eiais, id\u0117jomis. Taip ne tik tampame artimesni, bet tai pakelia j\u0173 savivert\u0119. Kas ir yra viena i\u0161 mano u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sekmes.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2801\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sekmes.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sekmes-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/sekmes-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Viena i\u0161 mano u\u017eduo\u010di\u0173 yra, kad mano vaikai suprast\u0173, jog jie n\u0117ra kalti d\u0117l to, kokie jie yra. Mok\u0117t\u0173 susitaikyti su savo \u012fgimtomis savyb\u0117mis, turimu IQ. Norisi, kad jie pa\u017eint\u0173 save tokius, kokie gim\u0117 i\u0161 gamtos. Atrast\u0173 kod\u0117l yra b\u016btent tokie ir kaip gali realizuoti save. 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