{"id":6677,"date":"2020-11-11T00:11:21","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T22:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6677"},"modified":"2020-11-12T22:12:37","modified_gmt":"2020-11-12T20:12:37","slug":"dalykai-kuriuos-turi-zinoti-mano-vaikai-partnerio-pasirinkimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/dalykai-kuriuos-turi-zinoti-mano-vaikai-partnerio-pasirinkimas\/","title":{"rendered":"DALYKAI, KURIUOS TURI \u017dINOTI MANO VAIKAI | PARTNERIO PASIRINKIMAS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Da\u017eniausiai \u017emon\u0117s pasirenka partnerius vedimi instinkt\u0173, nepaglvodami, kad su tuo \u017emogumi reik\u0117s gyventi kartu, ilgai, be skyryb\u0173. Tod\u0117l man atrodo, kad svarbu jau dabar po truput\u012f formuoti \u0161eimoje teising\u0105 suvokim\u0105 kas yra moteris ir vyras, kaip pasirinkti partner\u012f, kaip s\u0105veikauti, kurti tvarius santykius.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Did\u017eiausia gyvenimo dovana buvo tai, kad mano vyras konkre\u010diai \u017einojo koks jo gyvenimo tikslas ir ie\u0161kojo moters, kuri ,,eit\u0173 ta pa\u010dia kryptimi\u201d. Dar pirmame pasimatyme jis tur\u0117jo klausimyn\u0105, apie kur\u012f su\u017einojau tik po vestuvi\u0173 \ud83d\ude48. Bet tai leido i\u0161girsti vienas kito vertybes, po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f santykius, aukl\u0117jim\u0105. Ir tas buvimas ,,viename da\u017enyje\u201d u\u017etikrino, kad vingiuotame santuokos kelyje mus kartu ir laikys \u0161ie bendri siekiai.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>B\u016btent to ir noriu, kad mano vaikai pa\u017eint\u0173 save ir atitinkamai pasirinkt\u0173 sau partner\u012f &#8211; gyvenimo bendra\u017eyg\u012f, su kuriuo abu realizuot\u0173 save. Kad neskub\u0117t\u0173 tuoktis, kol daugiau nesu\u017einojo apie vienas kito interesus. Nei\u0161siklausin\u0117jo vienas kito apie savo pom\u0117gius, draugus, svajones, gyvenimo planus, apie pagrindin\u012f tiksl\u0105 \u2013 koks jis pas kiekvien\u0105 i\u0161 j\u0173. Apie \u012fsimintiniausius atvejus, apie nuostabiausius vaikyst\u0117s \u012fvykius, apie tuos \u017emones, kuriais jie labiausiai \u017eavim\u0117s ir kod\u0117l. Apie prie\u0161us ir konkurentus, apie slaptas ambicijas. Apie tai, kas labiausiai d\u017eiugina arba li\u016bdina.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Moteris ie\u0161ko vyro, galin\u010dio padaryti j\u0105 laiminga, kas \u012fmanoma jei tik sutampa partneri\u0173 tikslai.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Vyras ie\u0161ko moters, kuri nor\u0117t\u0173 gauti tai, k\u0105 jis sugeba jai duoti.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Ir \u010dia nesvarbu, kad abu partneriai yra skirtingi, nes jeigu j\u0173 i\u0161sikeltas gyvenimo tikslas yra tas pats ir jie abu pasireng\u0119 rimtai dirbti d\u0117l to tikslo, tada j\u0173 santykiai bus stipr\u016bs ir jie bus i\u0161 ties\u0173 laimingi.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Mano vyro \u017eod\u017eiai: ,,jeigu per pirmuosius pokalbius neb\u016b\u010diau mat\u0119s, kad tavo gyvenimo vertyb\u0117s sutampa su mano, tai neb\u016b\u010diau su tavimi gai\u0161\u0119s laiko\u201d. \ud83e\udd2d\ud83d\ude01\ud83e\udd18\ud83c\udffc. Tad svarbu, renkantis partner\u012f, \u017einoti ko a\u0161 noriu i\u0161 gyvenimo, \u0161eimos ir tada ie\u0161koti \u017emogaus, kurio siekiai juda ta pa\u010dia linkme.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>\u017dinoma, kad negaliu garantuoti, kad vaikai pasirinks b\u016btent taip ar kitaip. Tik galiu suteikti jiems dar vien\u0105 gyvenimo valdymo \u012frank\u012f, o naudotis juo ar ne &#8211; tai visi\u0161kai laisvas j\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 pasirinkimas \ud83d\udda4.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/imamidesinys-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Da\u017eniausiai \u017emon\u0117s pasirenka partnerius vedimi instinkt\u0173, nepaglvodami, kad su tuo \u017emogumi reik\u0117s gyventi kartu, ilgai, be skyryb\u0173. Tod\u0117l man atrodo, kad svarbu jau dabar po truput\u012f formuoti \u0161eimoje teising\u0105 suvokim\u0105 kas yra moteris ir vyras, kaip pasirinkti partner\u012f, kaip s\u0105veikauti, kurti tvarius santykius. Did\u017eiausia gyvenimo dovana buvo tai, kad mano vyras konkre\u010diai \u017einojo koks jo [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6681,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6677","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd.jpg",600,300,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd.jpg",600,300,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd.jpg",600,300,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd.jpg",600,300,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/a0198bc9-c437-4385-bdeb-2cc5d4bdfecd.jpg",600,300,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Da\u017eniausiai \u017emon\u0117s pasirenka partnerius vedimi instinkt\u0173, nepaglvodami, kad su tuo \u017emogumi reik\u0117s gyventi kartu, ilgai, be skyryb\u0173. 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