{"id":6912,"date":"2020-11-27T22:32:35","date_gmt":"2020-11-27T20:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=6912"},"modified":"2020-11-27T22:33:06","modified_gmt":"2020-11-27T20:33:06","slug":"tevu-autoritetas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/tevu-autoritetas\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u0116V\u0172 AUTORITETAS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kaip tobulai u\u017ekoduotas \u017emogaus gyvenimas: nuo pirm\u0173j\u0173 gyvenimo dien\u0173 jis patenka \u012f j\u012f mylin\u010di\u0105 aplink\u0105, i\u0161 kurios mokosi visko: nuo k\u016bni\u0161k\u0173 poreiki\u0173 \u012fgyvendinimo iki \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173 vertybi\u0173. Ma\u017eas vaikas \u017evelgia spindin\u010diomis akimis \u012f savo t\u0117vus ir jais \u017eavisi, nori b\u016bti kaip jie. Jam atrodo, kad su tais \u017emon\u0117mis jis iki pasaulio kra\u0161to keliaut\u0173! Deja, tai baigiasi. Gauname bandom\u0105j\u0105 versij\u0105 paragavimui, kad \u017einotume ko siekti \ud83d\ude01.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tai kaip b\u016bti autoritetu savo vaikams?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kadangi visada ie\u0161kau prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173, tai ir \u0161iam klausimui skyriau nema\u017eai laiko ir eksperiment\u0173 \ud83e\udd13.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prad\u0117ti reik\u0117t\u0173 nuo to, kad ansktesn\u0117s kartos ir \u0161i karta yra visi\u0161kai skirtingos. \u017dmonija vystosi laipsni\u0161kai. Anks\u010diau t\u0117vai buvo labiau subrend\u0119, \u017einojo daugiau negu vaikai. Visiems buvo ai\u0161ku, kad visk\u0105 kontroliuoja t\u0117vai, vald\u017eia buvo j\u0173 rankose. Nebuvo toki\u0173 drasti\u0161k\u0173 ir staigi\u0173 poky\u010di\u0173 gyvenime, tod\u0117l t\u0117vai jau i\u0161 anksto \u017einojo vaik\u0173 ateit\u012f: mokykla, studijos, darbas, \u0161eima, vaikai ir t.t. Jie patys tai pra\u0117jo ir gal\u0117jo teisingai nukreipti vaikus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bet paskutines kelias kartas mes esame sumai\u0161tyje, kuri priklauso nuo m\u016bs\u0173 vidini\u0173 nor\u0173, min\u010di\u0173, pasiekim\u0173 vystymosi. \u0160i karta i\u0161 ties\u0173 yra kitokia su savo savyb\u0117mis, reikalavimais. Taip pat ir gyvenimo s\u0105lygos nuolat kinta. Nebegali b\u016bti u\u017etikrintas, kad kol studijuosiu tam tikr\u0105 specialyb\u0117, ji bus reikalinga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010cia turb\u016bt da\u017eniausiai ir kyla problema, kad susikerta du skirtingi pasauliai: ankstesnios kartos ir dabartin\u0117s, ir abi jos nesupranta viena kitos, bando ,,apvilkti\u201d viena kit\u0105 savo \u012fsivaizdavimais, patirtimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu atsitraukiu ir pa\u017evelgiu kokiame pasaulyje gyvena m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai – tai matau, kad tai kaip diena ir naktis skiriasi nuo to, kaip gyvenau a\u0161 pati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anks\u010diau \u017emon\u0117s gyveno savo \u0161alyse, apribotose vietose. O dabar viskas tapo atvira visame pasaulyje, kuris tampa globalus (tas pats maistas, pana\u0161\u0117ja kult\u016bros, bendros kalbos). Vaikai tame vystosi. Jiems tai j\u0173 gyvenimas. Taip pat visos technologijos skirtos \u0161iai kartai, vaikai tam sutverti ir jiems visa tai nat\u016bralu. Taigi, \u0161i karta turi stipr\u0173 ry\u0161\u012f su \u0161iuo pasauliu ir ankstesn\u0117s kartos n\u0117ra j\u0173 \u012fkv\u0117piantys pavyzd\u017eiai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir man\u0119s tai netenkina. Man nesinori visi\u0161kai susvetim\u0117ti su savo vaikais, a\u0161 svajojau, kaip su dukra aptarin\u0117sime jos pirm\u0105j\u012f pasimatym\u0105 ar s\u016bnus pasakosis apie jo paaugli\u0161kus i\u0161gyvenimus. Ir jau\u010diu, kad vaikams taip pat reikia t\u0117v\u0173, kurie lyd\u0117t\u0173 juos, patart\u0173, i\u0161klaisyt\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jiems reikalingas t\u0117v\u0173 palaikymas ir jis turi b\u016bti teisingoje vietoje. Manau, kad turiu ugdyti save, kad pa\u017ein\u010diau \u0161iame pasaulyje egzistuojan\u010dius d\u0117snius (gamtos) ir tada aukl\u0117jimo pagalba gal\u0117siu duoti vaikams galimyb\u0119 atverti nauj\u0105 gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160iandieninis gyvenimas yra tikra sumai\u0161tis, supanti m\u016bs\u0173 vaikus. Ir jeigu vaikas \u017einos, kad jo t\u0117vai supranta j\u012f supant\u012f pasaul\u012f ir nuolat kreipia j\u012f teisinga kryptimi, ir kad jis gali pasitik\u0117ti savo t\u0117vais, tada jis matys savo t\u0117vus didelius ir protingus, kupinus i\u0161minties, kurios jam reikia \u0161iame pasaulyje. Ir t\u0117vai bus autoritetas, kai jie i\u0161 ties\u0173 tur\u0117s teising\u0105 po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O koks jis? \u0160it\u0105 jau turime patys atrasti. \ud83c\udfd4\ud83e\udd1e\ud83c\udffb<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kaip tobulai u\u017ekoduotas \u017emogaus gyvenimas: nuo pirm\u0173j\u0173 gyvenimo dien\u0173 jis patenka \u012f j\u012f mylin\u010di\u0105 aplink\u0105, i\u0161 kurios mokosi visko: nuo k\u016bni\u0161k\u0173 poreiki\u0173 \u012fgyvendinimo iki \u017emogi\u0161k\u0173 vertybi\u0173. Ma\u017eas vaikas \u017evelgia spindin\u010diomis akimis \u012f savo t\u0117vus ir jais \u017eavisi, nori b\u016bti kaip jie. Jam atrodo, kad su tais \u017emon\u0117mis jis iki pasaulio kra\u0161to keliaut\u0173! Deja, tai baigiasi. 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