{"id":7241,"date":"2020-12-16T21:00:33","date_gmt":"2020-12-16T19:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7241"},"modified":"2020-12-16T21:13:00","modified_gmt":"2020-12-16T19:13:00","slug":"jeigu-paliekame-santykius-teketi-sava-tekme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/jeigu-paliekame-santykius-teketi-sava-tekme\/","title":{"rendered":"JEIGU PALIEKAME SANTYKIUS TEK\u0116TI ,,SAVA T\u0116KME\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Iki santuokos galvojau, kad santykiai poroje klostosi savo t\u0117kme, nat\u016braliai. Ta\u010diau tapusi \u017emona, o tada ir mama pama\u010diau, kad \u0161ito visgi reikia mokytis. Be papildom\u0173 pastang\u0173 santykiai tarp dviej\u0173 \u017amoni\u0173 i\u0161bl\u0117sta, \u017emon\u0117s atitolsta, kasdieniniai i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai vis pabudina prie\u0161ingas reakcijas, abejones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien ma\u017eai \u017emoni\u0173 s\u0105moningai mezga tvarius tarpusavio santykius. Ir situacija yra tikrai li\u016bdna: \u0161eimos sunkiai i\u0161silaiko kartu net kelis metus. Pirmoji aistra greitai i\u0161bl\u0117sta ir lieka tik prisiri\u0161imas, pagarba, \u012fprotis, saugumo garantas. Seksas nebeteikia malonumo abiems parneriams arba jo visai nelieka. Kiekvienas ima gyventi savo gyvenim\u0105. Per laik\u0105 \u017emon\u0117s u\u017esidaro savyje, nebegali atsiverti net savo antrai pusei, nes ne\u017einia gal tave apgaus ir pasinaudos..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir viso to prie\u017eastis &#8211; \u017emoni\u0173 aukl\u0117jimo stoka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 vis pagalvoju, jeigu nuo ma\u017eens vaikui suteitkume \u017einias apie jo prigimt\u012f, apie \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jimo svarb\u0105, kiek mums duoda teisingi santykiai tarp \u017emoni\u0173, tai jo gyvenimo suvokimas ir kokyb\u0117 b\u016bt\u0173 daug kart\u0173 geresni. Jis \u017einot\u0173 kod\u0117l \u017emon\u0117s yra tokie, kokie yra ir k\u0105 su tuo galima padaryti, koki\u0105 antr\u0105j\u0105 pus\u0119 pasirinkti, kod\u0117l gimdyti vaikus, kod\u0117l juos aukl\u0117ti. Svarbiausia, manau, suvoks, kad meil\u0117 pati nat\u016brakiai neegzistuoja. J\u0105 reikia kantriai kasdien stiprinti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vienas pavyzdys i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimo &#8211; moteris. Ji nori, kad vyras jai kasdien sakyt\u0173 kaip jis j\u0105 myli, kokia ji gra\u017ei, ypatinga. Neu\u017etenka to, kad kart\u0105 vyras tai pasak\u0117. Moteriai reikia tai gird\u0117ti da\u017enai, nes tai vis su\u017eadina jausmus. Tai stiprina j\u0173 tarpusavio ry\u0161\u012f. Vyras irgi nori, kad jo moteris vertint\u0173 jo ind\u0117l\u012f, jo pastangas santyki\u0173 labui. Tai labai lengvai u\u017esimir\u0161ta. Atrodo, juk nat\u016bralu, kad myliu, kad galvoju. Bet jeigu pa\u017evelgtume \u012f save kaip \u012frengin\u012f, pro kur\u012f kasdien praeina milijonai skirting\u0173 min\u010di\u0173, nor\u0173, tai tame fone prie\u0161 metus ar net prie\u0161 dien\u0105 i\u0161girstas \u017eodis ,,myliu\u201d nublanksta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tod\u0117l nor\u0117dami i\u0161saugoti santykius, turime kasdien kalb\u0117ti apie tai, pad\u0117ti vienas kitam, \u010dia turi vykti nuolatinis \u017eaidimas, vidinis flirtas, neleid\u017eiantis pavirsti kaip kokiems baldams namuose, pro kuriuos praeiname net nepa\u017ei\u016br\u0117j\u0119. Ir tai ne kiek i\u0161oriniai veiksmai, kiek vidin\u0117s pastangos suart\u0117ti, pasidom\u0117ti kaip sekasi, kuo galiu pad\u0117ti arba kuo man gali pad\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tvari\u0173 santyki\u0173 statymas &#8211; tai n\u0117ra lengva gyvenimo kelion\u0117, ta\u010diau jeigu abu partneriai supranta j\u0173 svarb\u0105, tada \u0161i kelion\u0117 tampa tikros meil\u0117s statybomis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pandemijos metu gavome prog\u0105 i\u0161 naujo pa\u017einti vienas kit\u0105, sus\u0117sti ir paklausti vienas kito ,,kod\u0117l mes esame kartu? Kokio norime gyvenimo po met\u0173? Po penki\u0173? Kaip tada atrodys m\u016bs\u0173 santykiai?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-ieskoti.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2809\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-ieskoti.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-ieskoti-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-ieskoti-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Iki santuokos galvojau, kad santykiai poroje klostosi savo t\u0117kme, nat\u016braliai. Ta\u010diau tapusi \u017emona, o tada ir mama pama\u010diau, kad \u0161ito visgi reikia mokytis. Be papildom\u0173 pastang\u0173 santykiai tarp dviej\u0173 \u017amoni\u0173 i\u0161bl\u0117sta, \u017emon\u0117s atitolsta, kasdieniniai i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai vis pabudina prie\u0161ingas reakcijas, abejones. \u0160iandien ma\u017eai \u017emoni\u0173 s\u0105moningai mezga tvarius tarpusavio santykius. Ir situacija yra tikrai li\u016bdna: \u0161eimos sunkiai [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7233,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61.jpg",600,300,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61.jpg",600,300,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61.jpg",600,300,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61.jpg",600,300,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/1649d94b-b53b-4bab-adcb-f95db877cf61.jpg",600,300,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Iki santuokos galvojau, kad santykiai poroje klostosi savo t\u0117kme, nat\u016braliai. Ta\u010diau tapusi \u017emona, o tada ir mama pama\u010diau, kad \u0161ito visgi reikia mokytis. Be papildom\u0173 pastang\u0173 santykiai tarp dviej\u0173 \u017amoni\u0173 i\u0161bl\u0117sta, \u017emon\u0117s atitolsta, kasdieniniai i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai vis pabudina prie\u0161ingas reakcijas, abejones. \u0160iandien ma\u017eai \u017emoni\u0173 s\u0105moningai mezga tvarius tarpusavio santykius. Ir situacija yra tikrai li\u016bdna: \u0161eimos sunkiai&hellip;","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7241"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7242,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7241\/revisions\/7242"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7233"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}