{"id":7278,"date":"2020-12-20T23:36:54","date_gmt":"2020-12-20T21:36:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7278"},"modified":"2020-12-20T23:40:24","modified_gmt":"2020-12-20T21:40:24","slug":"geriau-konfliktai-negu-abejingumas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/geriau-konfliktai-negu-abejingumas\/","title":{"rendered":"GERIAU KONFLIKTAI NEGU ABEJINGUMAS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Konflikto nebuvimas tarp mylim\u0173j\u0173 yra indikacija, kad jiems nesvarbus bendras tikslas, ir kad \u017emon\u0117s abejingi vienas kitam, j\u0173 nedomina bendras ry\u0161ys. Bet konfliktas neb\u016btinai pasirei\u0161kia barniais, \u0161\u016bksniai ir pan. Da\u017enai \u017emogus konfliktuoja net pats su savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u0161 ties\u0173 geras pratimas yra steb\u0117ti save, savo reakcijas ir po ka\u017ekurio laiko pasimato, jog net mintys \u017emoguje konfliktuoja viena su kita: valgyti t\u0105 ar an\u0105, eiti ar neiti, pasakyti k\u0105 galvoju ar patyl\u0117ti. Norint i\u0161spr\u0117sti vidin\u012f konflikt\u0105 teisingai, man reikalingas tikslas, kurio at\u017evilgiu a\u0161 matuosiu. Jeigu mano tikslas &#8211; subalansuoti savo mityb\u0105, tai atitinkamai riboju ar i\u0161braukiu, pavyzd\u017eiui, daug cukraus ir riebal\u0173 turin\u010dius produktus, nors viduje velni\u0161kai j\u0173 nor\u0117\u010diau, bet tikslas &#8211; subalansuota mityba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lygiai taip pat ir santykiuose tarp \u017emoni\u0173. Gamtoje n\u0117ra nieko, kas egzistuot\u0173 be prie\u0161ybi\u0173: konflikto ir sutarimo. I\u0161 to tampa ai\u0161ku, kad konfliktai \u017emoni\u0173 gyvenime visada kils ir mums reik\u0117s ie\u0161koti j\u0173 sprendimo b\u016bdo. Apsibr\u0117\u017etas tikslas padeda matuoti rezultat\u0105, analizuoti save. Abi pus\u0117s turi \u017einoti kokiu tikslu jie yra kartu ir tik tada, jau i\u0161 tikslo ta\u0161ko, pa\u017evelgti \u012f situacij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai b\u016bna, kad konflikto metu su\u017eaid\u017eia prigimtis (i\u0161didumas, emocijos, egoizmas) ir konfliktas atne\u0161a neplanuotus ir nemalonius rezultatus. Jei vienas nori nusileisti, tada kitas nebenori arba abu ignoruoja ar palieka nei\u0161spr\u0119st\u0105 klausim\u0105, o gal nori i\u0161spr\u0119sti j\u012f dabar, apimti emocij\u0173. Da\u017enai b\u016bna, kad tiek stengiam\u0117s \u012frodyti savo ties\u0105, kad nepastebime kaip atitolstame nuo \u017emogaus, su kuriuo ry\u017eom\u0117s kurti laiming\u0105 gyvenim\u0105, o suart\u0117ti juk taip sunku. Visi \u0161ie b\u016bdai padeda tarsi kaip vaik\u0173 dar\u017eelyje ,,u\u017eg\u0119sinti gaistr\u0105\u201d, bet realiai nesprend\u017eia pa\u010dio konflikto taip, kad abi pus\u0117s b\u016bt\u0173 patenkintos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kasdien vis labiau linkstu prie to, kad konfliktai yra neatsiejama m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimo dalis. Jeigu konflikt\u0173 d\u0117ka susik\u016br\u0117 visata, m\u016bs\u0173 planeta su visomis tobulomis detal\u0117mis, tai tikiu, kad konfliktai gali pasitarnauti ir kaip \u012frankis kuriant tarpusavio ry\u0161\u012f su bent jau pa\u010diais brangiausiais man \u017emon\u0117mis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Konflikto nebuvimas tarp mylim\u0173j\u0173 yra indikacija, kad jiems nesvarbus bendras tikslas, ir kad \u017emon\u0117s abejingi vienas kitam, j\u0173 nedomina bendras ry\u0161ys. Bet konfliktas neb\u016btinai pasirei\u0161kia barniais, \u0161\u016bksniai ir pan. Da\u017enai \u017emogus konfliktuoja net pats su savimi. I\u0161 ties\u0173 geras pratimas yra steb\u0117ti save, savo reakcijas ir po ka\u017ekurio laiko pasimato, jog net mintys \u017emoguje konfliktuoja [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7273,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7278","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221.jpg",768,402,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221-300x157.jpg",300,157,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221.jpg",768,402,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221.jpg",768,402,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221.jpg",768,402,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/img_8221.jpg",768,402,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Konflikto nebuvimas tarp mylim\u0173j\u0173 yra indikacija, kad jiems nesvarbus bendras tikslas, ir kad \u017emon\u0117s abejingi vienas kitam, j\u0173 nedomina bendras ry\u0161ys. 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