{"id":7287,"date":"2020-12-21T00:30:50","date_gmt":"2020-12-20T22:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7287"},"modified":"2020-12-21T00:30:51","modified_gmt":"2020-12-20T22:30:51","slug":"seimos-ratas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/seimos-ratas\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0160EIMOS RATAS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u016agtel\u0117jus vaikams sud\u0117tinga \u012fvesti abstrak\u010dias s\u0105vokas, kuri\u0173 negali parodyti ar nusakyti \u017eod\u017eiais. Kartais tenka improvizuoti. Vienas taip gim\u0119s u\u017esi\u0117mimas &#8211; ,,\u0160eimos ratas\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iuo \u017eaidimu bandyta priart\u0117ti prie s\u0105vokos ,,\u0161eima\u201d. Vaikas \u017aino kas yra mama, t\u0117tis, brolis ar sesuo, bet jis ne\u017eino kada mes veikiame kaip \u0161eima, o kada ne. Kada jausmi\u0161kai esame kartu, o kada visai nejau\u010diame vienas kito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160eima \u2013 tai ne k\u016bnai, ne bendra pavard\u0117, tai bendras ta\u0161kas tarp \u0161eimos nari\u0173, kuris priklauso nuo kiekvieno i\u0161 j\u0173. Tai tarsi bendras laukas, kuriame visi jau\u010diasi saugiai, mylimi, lyg\u016bs. Labai svarbu kalb\u0117ti apie tai nuo pat ma\u017e\u0173 dien\u0173, kad paauglyst\u0117s laikotarpiu nekilt\u0173 priekai\u0161t\u0173 vaikui, kad jis negerbia \u0161eimos. Jis galb\u016bt ne\u017eino, kas yra \u0161eima, koks jausmas jai priklausyti ir kokia atsakimyb\u0117 ja r\u016bpintis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi prad\u0117kime!<br \/>\ud83d\udccdAnt popieriaus lapo nupie\u0161iame apskritim\u0105 (galima apvesti l\u0117k\u0161t\u0117), aplink j\u012f nupie\u0161iame ar suklijuojame \u0161eimos nari\u0173 portretus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdApskritimas &#8211; tai \u0161eimos ratas, kuriame mes jau\u010diam\u0117s gerai, saugiai. Tai bendras laukas tarp m\u016bs\u0173. \u010cia mes visi svarb\u016bs ir lyg\u016bs;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdKai mama ruo\u0161ia vakarien\u0119, ji galvoja apie t\u0117t\u012f, kad jis gr\u012f\u0161 po darbo pavarg\u0119s namo, bus alkanas. Skani vakarien\u0117 prad\u017eiugins j\u012f (ir pie\u0161iame rodykl\u0119 nuo mamos link t\u0117\u010dio);<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdTada seka pavyzdys k\u0105 daro t\u0117tis, kai galvoja apie mam\u0105;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdTada pridedami vaikai;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdKartojame pavyzd\u017eius, kol jau\u010diame, jog vaikui darosi ai\u0161kiau. Tokiu b\u016bdu sukuriamas ,,rodykli\u0173\u201d tinklas tarp \u0161eimos nari\u0173, kuris u\u017epildo vis\u0105 ,,\u0161eimos rat\u0105\u201d;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdPridedame, kad svarbiausia, kai galvojame vieni apie kitus tada visi esame \u0161eimos rate. Tik \u010dia esame saugus, stipr\u016bs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdTada pereiname \u012f kit\u0105 etap\u0105, br\u0117\u017eiame rodykles nukreiptas \u012f save ir kalbame: (pvz.\ud83d\ude42 Mama galvoja kod\u0117l visi jos nesiklauso ir nedaro ko ji pra\u0161o. Kod\u0117l tai galvojimas apie save? Nes ji negalvoja kaip kiti jau\u010dia \u0161i\u0105 situacij\u0105, ji nori, kad viskas b\u016bt\u0173 kaip ji nori. I\u0161 to kyla pyktis.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdIr taip su kiekvienu \u0161eimos nariu. Pridedame, kad kai galvojame tik apie save &#8211; i\u0161krentame i\u0161 rato ir jau\u010diam\u0117s vieni\u0161i, silpni;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccd labai svarbu, kad \u0161eimos nariai nuolatos r\u016bpinasi, kad visi i\u0161likt\u0173 \u0161eimos rate. Per \u017aaidimus, savo pavyzd\u017eius;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udccdGalite kalb\u0117ti ir t\u0117vai, ir vaikai. Tokio pokalbio metu atsiskleid\u017eia daug \u012fdomi\u0173 dalyk\u0173 patiems apie save, ir vaikai gali i\u0161 m\u016bs\u0173 mokytis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"file:\/\/\/var\/mobile\/Containers\/Data\/Application\/B7CDF9D3-526F-4C3A-AAA4-98209B4D6FA1\/Library\/Caches\/Media\/thumbnail-p2369-1136x1136.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image--1540705188\"\/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u016agtel\u0117jus vaikams sud\u0117tinga \u012fvesti abstrak\u010dias s\u0105vokas, kuri\u0173 negali parodyti ar nusakyti \u017eod\u017eiais. Kartais tenka improvizuoti. Vienas taip gim\u0119s u\u017esi\u0117mimas &#8211; ,,\u0160eimos ratas\u201d. \u0160iuo \u017eaidimu bandyta priart\u0117ti prie s\u0105vokos ,,\u0161eima\u201d. Vaikas \u017aino kas yra mama, t\u0117tis, brolis ar sesuo, bet jis ne\u017eino kada mes veikiame kaip \u0161eima, o kada ne. 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