{"id":7477,"date":"2021-01-01T00:06:14","date_gmt":"2020-12-31T22:06:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7477"},"modified":"2021-01-01T01:19:18","modified_gmt":"2020-12-31T23:19:18","slug":"buti-namu-karaliene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/buti-namu-karaliene\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u016aTI NAM\u0172 KARALIENE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Jau nuo seno \u017einoma, kad atmosfera namuose labai stipriai priklauso nuo nam\u0173 \u0161eiminink\u0117s &#8211; moters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iame \u0161ventiniame periode stengiausi suorganizuoti visk\u0105 taip, kad \u0161eima jaust\u0173 pakyl\u0117t\u0105 kal\u0117din\u0119 nuotaik\u0105, kad \u0161vent\u0117s neb\u016bt\u0173 tik dovan\u0173 pri\u0117mimas i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173, seneli\u0173, tet\u0173, d\u0117d\u017ei\u0173, draug\u0173, kad namuose detal\u0117s pa\u010dios kurt\u0173 jaukum\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Atrodo apgalvojau daug dalyk\u0173, stengiausi, bet jau pirm\u0105j\u012f vakar\u0105 ka\u017eko tr\u016bko&#8230; \ud83d\ude15 Vakare dar ilgai negal\u0117jau nurimti. Galvojau ko tr\u016bko ir k\u0105 b\u016bt\u0173 galima prid\u0117ti kitai dienai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po detalios \u012fvyki\u0173 ap\u017evalgos supratau i\u0161 kur kilo tas ,,tr\u016bko\u201d, tas savoti\u0161kas nusivylimas, ta vidin\u0117 tu\u0161tuma. Pasirodo, kad kelias dienas visk\u0105 organizavau taip, kaip a\u0161 \u012fsivaizdavau, vis pamir\u0161dama kaip to i\u0161 tikro nor\u0117t\u0173 kiti. Galvojau kas man pakelia \u016bp\u0105, bet ne visada \u012fvertinau, kas patinka kitam. Mano l\u016bkes\u010diai buvo vieni, o vis\u0173 kit\u0173 kiti. \u012ed\u0117jau daug pastang\u0173, ta\u010diau niekas galb\u016bt net nepasteb\u0117jo, nes tie dalykai, kurie svarb\u016bs man, neb\u016btinai tokie ypatingi kitiems. Ir tai sukel\u0117 nusivylim\u0105, nes tur\u0117jau vien\u0105 b\u016bsenos vizij\u0105, o realyb\u0117je ji buvo kiek kitokia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Turb\u016bt svarbu pabr\u0117\u017eti, kad kalba eina apie vidin\u012f jausm\u0105, kad ka\u017ekas netaip, ne apie vai\u0161i\u0173 stal\u0105, aprang\u0105 ir pan.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po tokio atradimo, kit\u0105 dien\u0105 prad\u0117jau kitaip: stengiausi pirma i\u0161siai\u0161kinti kokius kal\u0117dinius pusry\u010dius \u012fsivaizduoja vaikai, o tada derinti au tuo k\u0105 galime realiai pasigaminti. Klausiausi koki\u0105 \u0161eimos dien\u0105 \u012fsivaizduoja vyras, kad gal\u0117\u010diau prisid\u0117ti prie jo vizijos sav\u0105ja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prad\u017eia nebuvo lengva, bet bent jau stengiausi, kad \u0161eimos poreikiai b\u016bt\u0173 i\u0161girsti ir kiek \u012fmanoma \u012fgyvendinti. Tai n\u0117ra naujas dalykas m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime, ypa\u010d kai ugdymo programoje taikau \u201cchild\u2019s-led-learning\u201d (vaiko noro lydimas mokymasis), ta\u010diau kasdieniame gyvenime visai u\u017esimir\u0161o \ud83d\ude01\ud83d\ude48.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prad\u0117jus gyventi \u201cfamilies\u2019-led-living\u201d (\u0161emos noro lydimu gyvenimu) principu pasaulis nu\u0161vito kitomis akimis. Rimtai! Pasidar\u0117 lengviau, nes atkrito did\u017eiul\u0117 planavimo dalis, kuri vienaip ar kitaip buvo tik mano \u017eaidimas ,,Kal\u0117dos\u201d \ud83d\ude01. O vaik\u0173 ir vyro reakcijos dar labiau motyvavo b\u016bti tikra m\u016bs\u0173 nam\u0173 \u0161eimininke, atsakinga u\u017e tai, kad kiekvienas m\u016bs\u0173 namuose jaust\u0173si mylimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Net jeigu tai rei\u0161kia, kad kartais vardan to reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 paaukoti i\u0161 savo pus\u0117s, ka\u017ekur nusileisti ir pirma vadovautis kit\u0173 poreikiais. \u0160vie\u017eiausias pavyzdys &#8211; Nauj\u0173j\u0173 met\u0173 i\u0161vakar\u0117se apsirengti i\u0161galvotais kostiumais, nors giliai \u0161irdyje gal ir kitaip \u012fsivaizdavau Nauj\u0173j\u0173 met\u0173 vakarien\u0119, ta\u010diau s\u016bnus tokiu b\u016bd\u0173 nor\u0117jo pakelti \u016bp\u0105! Argi gal\u0117jau sakyti: ,,Ne, \u0161iandien puo\u0161im\u0117s kaip \u012f \u0161vent\u0119\u201d? Vaikas taip \u012fsivaizdavo \u0161vent\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Labai d\u017eiaugiuosi pa\u010dia situacija, kuri kaip ir apribojo mus u\u017edarame \u0161eimos rate, ta\u010diau leido atrasti tokius praktinius atradimus, kuri\u0173 d\u0117ka bent trumpam pasijutau tikra moteris, tikra nam\u0173 karalien\u0117. I\u0161 vienos pus\u0117s karalien\u0117, sugeba vadovautis savo karalyst\u0117s gyventoj\u0173 poreikiais. \ud83d\udc78\ud83c\udffb (taip buvo visais laikais). I\u0161 kitos pus\u0117s, visi\u0161kai \u012fvertinta, i\u0161klausyta ir mylima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160ios \u0161vent\u0117s tikrai padovanojo ka\u017ek\u0105 tokio neap\u010diuopiamo, tokio, kas pakeis visos \u0161eimos gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O \u010dia \u012frodymas, kad makia\u017e\u0105 ir prog\u0105 apsivilkti suknel\u0119 ,,i\u0161kei\u010diau\u201d \u012f ry\u0161\u012f su savo s\u016bnumi. Jis tai \u012fvertino \ud83d\udda4.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"805\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/d381fa23-e90e-4091-9092-8a416843632a.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7481\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/d381fa23-e90e-4091-9092-8a416843632a.jpg 960w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/d381fa23-e90e-4091-9092-8a416843632a-300x252.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/d381fa23-e90e-4091-9092-8a416843632a-768x644.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><figcaption>Persina\u017eas: super mama<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jau nuo seno \u017einoma, kad atmosfera namuose labai stipriai priklauso nuo nam\u0173 \u0161eiminink\u0117s &#8211; moters. \u0160iame \u0161ventiniame periode stengiausi suorganizuoti visk\u0105 taip, kad \u0161eima jaust\u0173 pakyl\u0117t\u0105 kal\u0117din\u0119 nuotaik\u0105, kad \u0161vent\u0117s neb\u016bt\u0173 tik dovan\u0173 pri\u0117mimas i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173, seneli\u0173, tet\u0173, d\u0117d\u017ei\u0173, draug\u0173, kad namuose detal\u0117s pa\u010dios kurt\u0173 jaukum\u0105. Atrodo apgalvojau daug dalyk\u0173, stengiausi, bet jau pirm\u0105j\u012f vakar\u0105 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7473,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7477","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/101c2b62-4888-4aec-b8c1-50a4216b7b82.jpg",600,300,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Jau nuo seno \u017einoma, kad atmosfera namuose labai stipriai priklauso nuo nam\u0173 \u0161eiminink\u0117s &#8211; moters. \u0160iame \u0161ventiniame periode stengiausi suorganizuoti visk\u0105 taip, kad \u0161eima jaust\u0173 pakyl\u0117t\u0105 kal\u0117din\u0119 nuotaik\u0105, kad \u0161vent\u0117s neb\u016bt\u0173 tik dovan\u0173 pri\u0117mimas i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173, seneli\u0173, tet\u0173, d\u0117d\u017ei\u0173, draug\u0173, kad namuose detal\u0117s pa\u010dios kurt\u0173 jaukum\u0105. 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