{"id":7864,"date":"2021-01-12T22:52:23","date_gmt":"2021-01-12T20:52:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7864"},"modified":"2021-01-12T22:52:28","modified_gmt":"2021-01-12T20:52:28","slug":"tevas-rimtumas-mama-siluma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/tevas-rimtumas-mama-siluma\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u0116VAS &#8211; RIMTUMAS | MAMA &#8211; \u0160ILUMA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kiek pamenu da\u017eniausiai pie\u0161iamas t\u0117vo vaidmuo \u0161eimoje &#8211; u\u017edirbti pinig\u0173, o vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas &#8211; tai sritis, paliekama moteriai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iki \u0161iandien \ud83d\ude42.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien daug vyr\u0173 dirba nuotoliniu b\u016bdu, i\u0161 nam\u0173. Ir \u0161is pokytis visos \u0161eimos gyvenime labai jau\u010diamas. Dabar t\u0117tis gr\u012f\u017eta namo ne tik permiegoti, o jis yra visada namie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir pati situacija ver\u010dia abu t\u0117vus prisiimti atsakomyb\u0119 u\u017a vaik\u0173 ugdym\u0105. Dalyvauti abiems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet k\u0105 gali duoti t\u0117vas, kuris ilgus metus r\u016bpinosi tik \u0161eimos gerbuviu, nebuvo ruo\u0161iamas b\u016bti mokytoju savo vaikams? Jam tai nauja patirtis ir \u0161eima tur\u0117t\u0173 j\u012f suprasti ir palaikyti. Visi kartu turime to mokytis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 savo vaikuose matau, kad t\u0117vas \u0161eimoje turi suteikti mokymosi ir ry\u0161io su kitais \u017emon\u0117mis svarb\u0105. Jis turi rodyti pavyzd\u012f kaip bendrauti su \u017emon\u0117mis, kaip juos vertinti, tinkamai elgtis tam tikrose situacijose. Kai vaikai mato t\u0117vo pavyzd\u012f, jie j\u012f realizuoja savo gyvenime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 pamenu, kad mama kalb\u0117davo labai daug, bet u\u017etekdavo keli\u0173 t\u0117vo \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 ir viskas buvo ai\u0161ku, kad prisidirbau ir n\u0117ra ko vesti deryb\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tik tapusi mama atradau, kad t\u0117vo vaidmuo ir yra tas rimtumas, tvirtas po\u017ei\u016bris \u012f gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kaip mama? Galb\u016bt anks\u010diau taip nesijuto, bet dabar jau\u010diasi kokia ji svarbi. Mama suteikia \u0161ilumos, saugumo jausm\u0105, jis visk\u0105 taip \u0161velniai u\u017ekloja savo meile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tod\u0117l akivaizdu, kad vaik\u0173 ugdyme turi dalyvauti abu t\u0117vai. T\u0117vas suteikia rimtumo, o mama \u0161ilumos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abu t\u0117vai turi dirbti i\u0161vien. Abu turi suprasti, kad jiems abiems vaikas yra svarbus. O vaikas turi priimti abu t\u0117vus kaip vien\u0105 strukt\u016br\u0105, vien\u0105 nuomon\u0119, vien\u0105 ugdym\u0105, vien\u0105 krypt\u012f. O ne vien\u0105 kaip policinink\u0105, o kit\u0105 &#8211; glob\u0117j\u0105. Tod\u0117l jeigu t\u0117vas nedalyvauja procese, yra labai sunku tinkamai aukl\u0117ti vaik\u0105. Jis mato tik vien\u0105 medalio pus\u0119, nors yra abiej\u0173 t\u0117v\u0173 rezultatas. Tiek emoci\u0161kai, tiek fizi\u0161kai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To nepasieksime per vien\u0105 dien\u0105, bet turb\u016bt verta i\u0161naudoti karantin\u0105 kitokio gyvenimo pagrindams kloti (ar stiprinti). Gyvenimo, kuriame abu t\u0117vai vieningi, abu derinasi tarpusavyje, abu domisi ir abu stengiasi \ud83e\udd1d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/su-pagarba-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kiek pamenu da\u017eniausiai pie\u0161iamas t\u0117vo vaidmuo \u0161eimoje &#8211; u\u017edirbti pinig\u0173, o vaik\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas &#8211; tai sritis, paliekama moteriai. Iki \u0161iandien \ud83d\ude42. \u0160iandien daug vyr\u0173 dirba nuotoliniu b\u016bdu, i\u0161 nam\u0173. Ir \u0161is pokytis visos \u0161eimos gyvenime labai jau\u010diamas. Dabar t\u0117tis gr\u012f\u017eta namo ne tik permiegoti, o jis yra visada namie. 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