{"id":7872,"date":"2021-01-12T23:34:24","date_gmt":"2021-01-12T21:34:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=7872"},"modified":"2021-01-12T23:36:15","modified_gmt":"2021-01-12T21:36:15","slug":"kuri-kelia-rinktis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kuri-kelia-rinktis\/","title":{"rendered":"KUR\u012e KELI\u0104 RINKTIS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>\u2043 Jeigu tau trenk\u0117, trenk atgal!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tokia fraz\u0117 da\u017enai sakoma vaikui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 labiau linkstu prie sunkesnio varianto &#8211; siekio u\u017eauginti s\u0105moning\u0105 vaik\u0105, kuris \u017einos kaip protu ,,ap\u017eaisti\u201d tuos, kurie visas problemas ir savo emocijas rei\u0161kia per j\u0117g\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iuo principu ,,jei tau trenks &#8211; trenk atgal!\u201d patys turb\u016bt nesuvokdami mokome vaikus neigiamo elgesio \u0161ablono. Norime, kad vaikai neb\u016bt\u0173 u\u017egauliojami, mu\u0161ami ir pan., bet i\u0161 kartos \u012f kart\u0105 t\u0117vai patys moko mu\u0161ti kitus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prad\u017eioje tai pasirei\u0161kia kaip ir nekaltai &#8211; ,,apsigink, duok atgal\u201d, o v\u0117liau vaikas tai naudoja visur savo gyvenime: \u012f\u017eeid\u0117 tave &#8211; \u012f\u017eeisk atgal, liep\u0117 ka\u017ek\u0105 daryti &#8211; liepk ir tu, apgavo &#8211; apgauk, pavog\u0117 &#8211; vok ir tu. T\u0117vai patys skatina neigiamus ry\u0161ius tarp \u017emoni\u0173. Vaikai, jau ir ne visi susaug\u0119, moka atsirinkti kas yra gerai, o kas ne. Elgiasi pagal tai, kas labiau priimtina visuomen\u0117je. O \u0161iai dienai labai vertinami stipr\u016bs m\u016b\u0161eikos, ,,kieti\u201d vaikinai ir merginos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neseniai skai\u010diau, kad pasaulyje \u017eenkliai paaugo smurto \u0161eimoje skai\u010dius. Ir ne smurto vyro prie\u0161 moter\u012f, t\u0117v\u0173 prie\u0161 vaikus, o vaik\u0173 prie\u0161 t\u0117vus. Ir man\u0119s tai nestebina, nes vaikui taip sakoma &#8211; daryk kitam taip, kaip daro tau. O kadangi ir t\u0117v\u0173, ir vaik\u0173 egoizmas auga, dauguma nori daugiau laiko skirti tik sau, visi papilom\u0173 pastang\u0173 reikalaujantys trikd\u017eiai erzina, tai n\u0117ra net ko tik\u0117tis, kad svetimi \u017emon\u0117s elgsis gerai vieni su kitais, tod\u0117l ir t\u0173 teigiam\u0173 pavyzd\u017ei\u0173 vaikai mato ma\u017eai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da\u017enai feisbuke \u017emon\u0117s dalinasi u\u017era\u0161u: ,,Sustabdykit pasaul\u012f, noriu i\u0161lipti\u201d. Ir a\u0161 taip anks\u010diau galvojau, o dabar esu realist\u0117 ir kadangi n\u0117ra kito pasaulio, tai reikia ka\u017ek\u0105 keisti su \u0161ituo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir a\u0161 \u012fsitikinusi, kad visi poky\u010diai \u012fmanomi tik per aukl\u0117jim\u0105. Nepad\u0117s nei vald\u017eia, nei pinigai. Tik \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0105moningas \u017emogus elgiasi atsakingai, r\u016bpinasi vis\u0173 gerove, suvokdamas, kad pasaulis globalus, tai ne tik mano namas, mano ma\u0161ina, bet ir milijonai \u017emoni\u0173, kurie aptarnauja mano gyvenim\u0105 ir a\u0161 nuo j\u0173 priklausau. Gerai bus jiems &#8211; a\u0161 irgi visko tur\u0117siu. Jis supranta, kad gamta i\u0161s\u0119kusi nuo \u017emogaus bandymo karaliauti joje, neatsakingai niokoti visk\u0105 ir jis stengiasi b\u016bti jos dalimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tad visos paj\u0117gos metamos \u012f \u017emogaus aukl\u0117jim\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2811\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/iMami-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2043 Jeigu tau trenk\u0117, trenk atgal! Tokia fraz\u0117 da\u017enai sakoma vaikui. A\u0161 labiau linkstu prie sunkesnio varianto &#8211; siekio u\u017eauginti s\u0105moning\u0105 vaik\u0105, kuris \u017einos kaip protu ,,ap\u017eaisti\u201d tuos, kurie visas problemas ir savo emocijas rei\u0161kia per j\u0117g\u0105. \u0160iuo principu ,,jei tau trenks &#8211; trenk atgal!\u201d patys turb\u016bt nesuvokdami mokome vaikus neigiamo elgesio \u0161ablono. 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