{"id":8495,"date":"2021-02-19T02:49:02","date_gmt":"2021-02-19T00:49:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=8495"},"modified":"2021-02-19T03:02:57","modified_gmt":"2021-02-19T01:02:57","slug":"kodel-vyrai-nustoja-myleti-moteris","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/kodel-vyrai-nustoja-myleti-moteris\/","title":{"rendered":"KOD\u0116L VYRAI NUSTOJA MYL\u0116TI MOTERIS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Gal reik\u0117t\u0173 prad\u0117ti nuo to, kad neturime tinkamo aukl\u0117jimo kas apskritai yra vyrai ir moterys, kokia j\u0173 prigimtis, koks kiekvieno vaidmuo. \u0160is ne\u017einojomas nat\u016braliai prikuria \u012fvairi\u0173, prie\u0161ing\u0173 moters ar vyro nat\u016braliai prigim\u010diai, form\u0173, d\u0117l kuri\u0173 negalime suprasti vieni kit\u0173. Skyryb\u0173 skai\u010dius kasdien auga, santykius i\u0161tinka kriz\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jeigu mergait\u0117s jau nuo ma\u017eens b\u016bt\u0173 aukl\u0117jamos kaip nam\u0173 \u017eidinio serg\u0117tojos, i\u0161mintingos moterys, b\u016bsimos kartos ugdytojos, o berniukai b\u016bt\u0173 mokomi kaip tapti r\u016bpestingais, atsakingais, mylin\u010diais vyrais, tada situacija kardinaliai pasikeist\u0173, nes tai b\u016bt\u0173 aukl\u0117jimas, palaikantis gamtos d\u0117snius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nors \u0161iandien pasaulis ir toli gra\u017eu ne toks, bet da\u017eniausiai dideli poky\u010diai prasideda nuo visai ma\u017e\u0173 dalyk\u0173, pvz.: atkreipti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f savo elges\u012f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(\u0160is sraipsnis orientuotas \u012f moteris, tod\u0117l b\u016btent j\u0173 elgesio \u0161ablonai apra\u0161omi)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad vyrai nenor\u0117t\u0173 pab\u0117gti nuo moter\u0173, prad\u017eiai reikt\u0173 atkreipti d\u0117mes\u012f \u012f kelet\u0105 slid\u017ei\u0173 vieteli\u0173, kurios da\u017enai b\u016bdingos \u0161iuolaikiniai moteriai:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li> Vyrams i\u0161 prigimties reikalinga laisv\u0117. Neb\u016btinai tai lakstymas po restoranus, kelion\u0117s ar visi\u0161ka nepriklausomyb\u0117, bet jiems nepatinka suvar\u017eymas, kontrol\u0117. Pavyzd\u017eiui, kai vyras susitinka su draugais, o moteris ima priekai\u0161tingu balsu \u012fkyriai klausin\u0117ti kada gr\u012f\u0161, ar ne per ilgai, kod\u0117l neskiria laiko jai; ima patarin\u0117ti kaip jam geriau elgtis ir pan. I\u0161mintinga moteris suvokia vyro instinktus ir suteikia jam pakankamai laisv\u0117s.<\/li><li> Moteris, kuri kritikuoja savo vyr\u0105 ir lygina su kitais &#8211; ne \u017emona. Ji tiesiog pati palaipsniui nukerta juos siejan\u010dius saitus. Vyras arba nustoja pasitik\u0117ti savimi, arba atsiriboja. Kaip ir moteriai, taip ir vyrui labai svarb\u016bs pagirimas, pripa\u017einimas ir pagarba. Tad moteris, auk\u0161tindama savo vyr\u0105 kit\u0173 akyse ne tik, kad pati \u012fsmyl\u012f j\u012f labiau, bet ir pa\u010diam vyrui stiprina savivert\u0119.<\/li><li> Vyrai nustoja r\u016bpintis moterimis, kurios \u012f j\u0173 pastangas yra abejingos arba atsako neigiamai: kritikuoja, komentuoja, neparodo d\u0117kingumo. Da\u017enai ir prasitaria: ,,Gal\u0117jai nupirkti kitok\u012f. Kit\u0105kart leisk man pa\u010diai\u201d. Kaip sakoma: ,,dovanotam arkliui \u012f dantis ne\u017ei\u016brima\u201d. Tad ir vyro pastangas prad\u017eiuginti moter\u012f reikt\u0173 \u012fvertinti pagarbiai.<\/li><li> Moterys per am\u017eius taip stipriai siekia lygi\u0173 teisi\u0173 su vyrais, kad nepastebimai ima net konkuruoti su jais. Kartais net lygyb\u0119 supranta tiesiogiai: ,,jeigu vyras gali sumed\u017eioti ,,mamut\u0105\u201d, tai ir a\u0161 galiu!\u201d. Taip moteris nepalieka vietos vyro prigimtiniam unikalumui atsiskleisti, u\u017esiima ,,vyri\u0161kais\u201d reikalais, o moteri\u0161kas vaidmuo lieka be prie\u017ei\u016bros. Pasikartosiu &#8211; tai ne a\u0161, ji ar jos, viso to po truput\u012f yra kiekvienoje, nes taip mus i\u0161aukl\u0117jo \u017einiasklaida, visuomen\u0117, \u012fvairios id\u0117jos, mados, jud\u0117jimai ir pan.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Skaudu matyti spar\u010diai byran\u010dias santuokas&#8230; vienintel\u0117 i\u0161eitis &#8211; ie\u0161koti kok\u012f vyr\u0105 ir koki\u0105 moter\u012f suk\u016br\u0117 gamta, koks kiekvieno vaidmuo, kaip tiems skirtingiems pradams darniai gyventi ir apskritai kod\u0117l gyvena \u017emogus, kokia jo paskirtis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kol ie\u0161kau, mokausi b\u016bti i\u0161mintinga moterimi, kuri rodo pavyzd\u012f kaip gerbti kit\u0105, pasakyti ger\u0105 \u017eod\u012f, pad\u0117koti u\u017e bet kokias pastangas, kur reikia parodyti rimtum\u0105 ir pasitik\u0117jim\u0105. \u017dinau kaip tai motyvuoja ir vyr\u0105 tapti tikru vyru, pasitikin\u010diu savimi, besir\u016bpinan\u010diu ne tik savo moterimi, bet ir j\u012f supan\u010dia aplinka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai padr\u0105sina nebijoti pa\u017einti tikrojo sav\u0119s ir kito, bei susipa\u017einti su visai kitokiu gyvenimu, negu maniau anks\u010diau.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gal reik\u0117t\u0173 prad\u0117ti nuo to, kad neturime tinkamo aukl\u0117jimo kas apskritai yra vyrai ir moterys, kokia j\u0173 prigimtis, koks kiekvieno vaidmuo. \u0160is ne\u017einojomas nat\u016braliai prikuria \u012fvairi\u0173, prie\u0161ing\u0173 moters ar vyro nat\u016braliai prigim\u010diai, form\u0173, d\u0117l kuri\u0173 negalime suprasti vieni kit\u0173. Skyryb\u0173 skai\u010dius kasdien auga, santykius i\u0161tinka kriz\u0117. 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