{"id":8568,"date":"2021-02-23T23:38:35","date_gmt":"2021-02-23T21:38:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=8568"},"modified":"2021-02-23T23:39:14","modified_gmt":"2021-02-23T21:39:14","slug":"ka-galiu-duoti-seimos-santykiams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/ka-galiu-duoti-seimos-santykiams\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0104 GALIU DUOTI \u0160EIMOS SANTYKIAMS?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ilgai gyvenau kaip su \u012fjungtu autopilotu, viskas gan\u0117tinai mechani\u0161kai. Bet pastaruoju laiku atsiranda vis daugiau ir daugiau laiko sustoti ir susim\u0105styti k\u0105 a\u0161 darau su savo gyvenimu? Koks mano vaidmuo \u0161eimoje kaip mamos, \u017emonosir apskritai kaip moters?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anks\u010diau daug dalyk\u0173 dariau, nes taip dar\u0117 kiti, o dabar, per tuos beveik metus pandemijoje, jau\u010diu, kad pagaliau atsirado vietos pa\u010diai pagalvoti ir nuspr\u0119sti ko i\u0161 ties\u0173 noriu ir ko nori mano \u0161eima. Ko reikia man ir ko reikia mano \u0161eimai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien \u017emogus be \u0161eimos daugiau nieko neturi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir (potencialiai) \u0161eima gali b\u016bti ta aplinka, kuri visada palaikys, leis tobul\u0117ti, aukl\u0117s, i\u0161klausys, bus \u0161alia, saugos ir myl\u0117s&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tikras lobis, tiesa?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jis pasl\u0117ptas tarpusavio santykiuose. Viskas ko reikia &#8211; greta mil\u017eini\u0161k\u0173 investicij\u0173 \u012f karjer\u0105, verslus, pramogas, investuoti \u0161iek tiek daugiau \u012f tarspusavio santykius, kad ir \u0161eimoje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tai k\u0105 a\u0161, kaip mama, moteris, \u017emona galiu duoti tiems \u0161eimos santykiams?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u25aa\ufe0fPirmiausia, moteris yra ta, kuri turi galing\u0105 dovan\u0105 &#8211; sugeb\u0117jim\u0105 visus apjungti. Ji tarsi nam\u0173 \u017eidinio &#8211; santyki\u0173 puosel\u0117toja ir sergetoja. Jei vaikai barasi &#8211; ji stengiasi pad\u0117ti susitaikyti. Vyras ir vaikai d\u0117l ka\u017eko nesutaria &#8211; moteris visada \u012fl\u012fs \u012f tarp\u0105 ir pad\u0117s susikalb\u0117ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tad svarbu savyje ugdyti tok\u012f po\u017ei\u016br\u012f &#8211; b\u016bti ta vidurini\u0105ja, visk\u0105 ri\u0161an\u010dia grandimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u25fe\ufe0fAntra, kad atlik\u010diau savo ,,jungtuko\u201d funkcij\u0105, turiu mokytis. Nuolatos. Ie\u0161koti kokie yra teisingi \u017emogi\u0161kieji santykiai, suprasti kaip u\u017emegzti ry\u0161\u012f, j\u012f i\u0161laikyti ir stiprinti, mokytis klausyti ir i\u0161girsti. Moters saviugda, \u017einios, tobul\u0117jimas &#8211; \u0161eimai duoda labai daug.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u25fc\ufe0fTre\u010dia &#8211; pavyzdys. Yra posakis: ,,Tavo veiksmai taip garsiai \u0161aukia, kad negaliu i\u0161girsti k\u0105 tu sakai\u201d. \u017dinau, kad daugumai \u017einomas dalykas, jog vaikai mokosi i\u0161 t\u0117v\u0173 veiksm\u0173, o ne \u017eod\u017ei\u0173, bet verta vis sav\u0119s paklausti: ,,o kas man trugdo b\u016bti tinkamu pavyzd\u017eiu?\u201d. Kartais atsakymas paprastas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u25fe\ufe0fDar vienas svarbus moteriai aspektas &#8211; buvimas atid\u017eia savo reakcijoms, nuotaik\u0173 kaitai, kuri\u0105 ji i\u0161transliuoja i\u0161ori\u0161kai. Paklausus bet kurio vyro i\u0161girstum\u0117m, kad dar ne\u012f\u017eengus pro duris vyras jau jau\u010dia savo moters b\u016bsen\u0105. Moteris labai stipriai \u012ftakoja nam\u0173 atmosfer\u0105, tad nor\u0117dama padovanoti savo \u0161eimai vertingiausi\u0105 pasaulyje dovan\u0105 &#8211; ry\u0161\u012f &#8211; turiu i\u0161mokti kontroliuoti save, net ir namuose, kuriuose da\u017eniausiai norisi tiesiog b\u016bti savimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tokie siekiai \u0161iandien gyvena mano \u0161irdyje. N\u0117ra lengva, ta\u010diau tikrai verta. Juk \u017einome koki\u0105 \u012ftak\u0105 vaik\u0173 ateities gyvenimui tur\u0117s \u0161eimoje esantis ar nesantis ry\u0161ys.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka\u017ekur skai\u010diau, kad \u012f\u017eengiame \u012f nauj\u0105 egzistavimo period\u0105 ir ka\u017ekaip imu pasteb\u0117ti, kad tikrai. Vyksta ka\u017ekas naujo, unikalaus, didelio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ir tikiuosi, kad tame naujame laikotarpyje gil\u016bs santykiai \u0161eimoje taps vertyb\u0117, siekiamyb\u0117, svajon\u0117, d\u0117l kurios \u012fveiksime daug nemaloni\u0173 i\u0161bandym\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2814\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/pagarbiai-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ilgai gyvenau kaip su \u012fjungtu autopilotu, viskas gan\u0117tinai mechani\u0161kai. 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Anks\u010diau daug dalyk\u0173 dariau, nes taip dar\u0117 kiti, o dabar, per tuos beveik metus pandemijoje, jau\u010diu, kad pagaliau [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8554,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8568","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/02\/1c98de2a-f9ca-42f2-9303-47088a2661df-1.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Ilgai gyvenau kaip su \u012fjungtu autopilotu, viskas gan\u0117tinai mechani\u0161kai. 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