{"id":8758,"date":"2021-03-09T01:05:13","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T23:05:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=8758"},"modified":"2021-03-09T01:22:40","modified_gmt":"2021-03-08T23:22:40","slug":"mergaites-svajones","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/mergaites-svajones\/","title":{"rendered":"MERGAIT\u0116S SVAJON\u0116S…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u017dmogus link\u0119s svajoti, o v\u0117liau tose svajon\u0117se ir gyventi. O ypatingai moterys susikuria savo iliuzin\u012f pasaul\u012f ir labai sunku jas i\u0161 ten sugr\u0105\u017einti \u012f realyb\u0119. Tod\u0117l aukl\u0117dami savo vaikus siekiame nuo pat prad\u017ei\u0173 pad\u0117ti jiems pa\u017einti gyvenim\u0105 tok\u012f, koks jis yra. \u017dinoma, kad pasitaikys visko j\u0173 gyvenime, bet mes \u017einosim, kad padar\u0117m vis\u0105, kas buvo m\u016bs\u0173 rankose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Did\u017eiausias i\u0161\u0161\u016bkis – meil\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Merginos \u010dia da\u017eniausia pasl\u012fsta ir vardan meil\u0117s dr\u012fsta daryti visokias kvailystes. Labai noriu, kad mano vaikai ai\u0161kiai suvokt\u0173 kaip veikia \u0161is pasaulis ir koki\u0173 ketinim\u0173 \u017emon\u0117s yra vedimi, kad \u017einot\u0173 kas yra priimtina , o kas jau vir\u0161 normos rib\u0173, gal\u0173 gale atrast\u0173 kas yra tikra meil\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Skaudu, kai matau merginas, kurios tarsi vienas prie vieno eina mano keliu. Jos gyvena iliuziniame pasaulyje, kuriame pa\u010dios save ir \u012fkalina. Ta sukurta ro\u017ein\u0117 svajon\u0117 visi\u0161kai u\u017emaskuoja tikr\u0105j\u012f gyvenim\u0105. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pamenu savo pirm\u0105j\u0105 draugyst\u0119 su vaikinu, kuoment man atrod\u0117, jog tai pati tobuliausia draugyst\u0117, visai tokia, apie koki\u0105 ra\u0161o knygose, dauguma holivudo film\u0173 irgi kalba apie tai. Draugyst\u0117, kurioje maniau, kad turi b\u016bti ka\u017ekiek neu\u017etikrintumo, kan\u010dios, li\u016bdesio ir kit\u0173 i\u0161gyvenim\u0173. Ir t\u0117vai, ir aplinkiniai \u012fkalbin\u0117jo, kad \u0161is vaikinas tikrai ne man, kad jis akivaizd\u017eiai ne\u017eino kas yra pagarba merginai, bet a\u0161 nenor\u0117jau to nei matyti, nei gird\u0117ti. Vis pateisinau toki\u0105 draugyst\u0119 pati sau, tu\u0161avau visus neigiamus dalykus ir naiviai tik\u0117jau, kad vien\u0105 dien\u0105 Jis pasikeis, juk sak\u0117, kad myli.. Bet galiausiai pasiekiau ta\u0161k\u0105, kuriame susid\u016briau su realybe ir pama\u010diau kokiame burbule gyvenau tiek met\u0173. Toks stiprus bjaurios tiesos, bet gryno oro gurk\u0161nis. Deja, tam kartui, nes po to ir v\u0117l atsirado naujos iliuzijos burbulas ir taip gyvenau iki tol, kol sutikau \u017emog\u0173, kuris parod\u0117 man koks nuostabus gali b\u016bti gyvenimas jeigu padedame vienas kitam gyventi \u010dia ir dabar tarp m\u016bs\u0173, o ne rytoj ir ka\u017ekur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stengiam\u0117s, kad ir m\u016bs\u0173 vaikai neb\u016bt\u0173 naiv\u016bs, kad pa\u017eint\u0173 vyro ir moters psichologij\u0105, prigimtinius potraukius, kad jau nuo dabar \u017evelgt\u0173 \u012f gyvenim\u0105 realiai. Suvokt\u0173, kad ta romantika, holivudi\u0161ka meil\u0117 neegzistuoja. Tai fantazija, kurios net nereikia vaikytis ir gai\u0161ti laiko! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tikra meil\u0117 statoma tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 tarpusavio nusileidimais, \u012fsiklausimu, pagarba, r\u016bpes\u010diu. Ir tai labai rimtas dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 darbas, kuriame n\u0117ra vietos svajon\u0117ms apie princ\u0105 ant balto \u017eirgo ar dar kok\u012f i\u0161galvot\u0105 heroj\u0173, kuris panor\u0117jus pavirs \u012f ka\u017ek\u0105, ko a\u0161 noriu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Manau, m\u016bs\u0173 u\u017eduotis ruo\u0161ti i\u0161mintingas b\u016bsimas moteris ir tikrus vyrus jau dabar \ud83d\ude0c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u017dmogus link\u0119s svajoti, o v\u0117liau tose svajon\u0117se ir gyventi. O ypatingai moterys susikuria savo iliuzin\u012f pasaul\u012f ir labai sunku jas i\u0161 ten sugr\u0105\u017einti \u012f realyb\u0119. Tod\u0117l aukl\u0117dami savo vaikus siekiame nuo pat prad\u017ei\u0173 pad\u0117ti jiems pa\u017einti gyvenim\u0105 tok\u012f, koks jis yra. \u017dinoma, kad pasitaikys visko j\u0173 gyvenime, bet mes \u017einosim, kad padar\u0117m vis\u0105, kas buvo […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8763,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vaiku-auklejimas-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12344e9a-7b64-4609-9409-30e4d733c421.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"\u017dmogus link\u0119s svajoti, o v\u0117liau tose svajon\u0117se ir gyventi. 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