{"id":8911,"date":"2021-03-22T00:14:35","date_gmt":"2021-03-21T22:14:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=8911"},"modified":"2021-03-22T00:15:46","modified_gmt":"2021-03-21T22:15:46","slug":"erdve-tarp-musu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/erdve-tarp-musu\/","title":{"rendered":"ERDV\u0116 TARP M\u016aS\u0172"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A\u0161 ir jis. Du skirtingi pasauliai. Du skirtingo aukl\u0117jimo, skirtingos aplinkos rezultatai. Kas mus sieja? Kod\u0117l mes kartu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 buvo trauka. Did\u017eiul\u0117. Tada kibirk\u0161tis. O kas toliau? O toliau atsirado tu\u0161\u010dia erdv\u0117 tarp m\u016bs\u0173. Vieta, kuri\u0105 galime palikti be prie\u017ei\u016bros ir tik\u0117tis, kad ,,nu ka\u017ekaip\u201d ji pildysis mums maloniais dalykais, arba galime nieko nelaukti ir patys u\u017eauginti tvarius santykius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ta erdv\u0117, atsiradusi tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 &#8211; tai tre\u010dias elementas tarp j\u0173, kur\u012f abu turi nuolat auginti, saugoti, r\u016bpintis juo. Jeigu \u0161itas laukas stimuliuojamas tarpusavio nusileidimais, supratimu, klausimu ir kalb\u0117jimu, r\u016bpes\u010diu, meile, tai abu partneriai jau\u010diasi laimingi ir laimingus daro kitus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gaila, kad \u0161ia pilnatve gali pasid\u017eiaugti ne visi. Harmoningi santykiai savaime nesivysto. \u010cia reikalingas abiej\u0173 partneri\u0173 dalyvavimas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Visai kaip dar\u017ee: jeigu nepri\u017ei\u016br\u0117sime dirvos, augal\u0105 supan\u010dios aplinkos, viskas tuoj ap\u017eels pikt\u017eol\u0117mis ir nustelbs tai, kas i\u0161 tikro vertinga ir reikalinga \u017emogui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Neveltui prad\u0117jau nuo pirmojo susi\u017eav\u0117jimo. Visi turb\u016bt pamename t\u0105 jausm\u0105, kai pabuvimas su antr\u0105ja puse tampa svarbesnis net u\u017e maist\u0105! O su metais tas susi\u017eav\u0117jimas, santyki\u0173 svarba po truput\u012f dingsta ir darosi vis sunkiau priimti savo partner\u012f tok\u012f, koks jis yra, derintis prie jo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nepri\u017ei\u016br\u0117toje erdv\u0117 tarp dviej\u0173 \u0161ird\u017ei\u0173 gimsta vieni\u0161umo jausmas. Partneriai atitolsta vienas nuo kito, vis ma\u017eiau kuria bendr\u0173 plan\u0173, svajoni\u0173, dalinasi savo norais&#8230; juos sieja tik bendras turtas, gal bendras hobis. Ber \u012fdomu kaip jie i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 jau\u010diasi? Ar juos tenkina toks gyvenimas? Link kur vystosi j\u0173 santykiai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kas jeigu jie pasirinkt\u0173 kit\u0105 variant\u0105? Jeigu jie prad\u0117t\u0173 r\u016bpintis ta bendra erdve tarp j\u0173?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2014\u2014\u2014\u2014<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0161 ir jis. Du skirtingi pasauliai. Du skirtingo aukl\u0117jimo, skirtingos aplinkos rezultatai. Kas mus sieja? Kod\u0117l mes kartu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien galiu atsakyti taip: ,,mus sieja ta erdv\u0117 tarp m\u016bs\u0173, kuri maitina mus, motyvuoja, palaiko, supranta, i\u0161klauso. Tai bendras abiej\u0173 siekis b\u016bti kartu ir nepasl\u0117pti nemalonius dalykus po kilimu, bet nepaisant j\u0173 koncentruotis \u012f t\u0105 tre\u010di\u0105j\u012f element\u0105, kuris ir yra santykiai, santuoka, \u0161eima&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160tai kod\u0117l mes kartu, kod\u0117l mes skirtingi, kad mokytum\u0117m\u0117s gyventi kartu kaip vyras ir \u017emona, kaip partneriai, kaip bendra\u017eygiai, kaip vienas k\u016bnas su viena \u0161irdimi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2808\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/drasos-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u0161 ir jis. Du skirtingi pasauliai. Du skirtingo aukl\u0117jimo, skirtingos aplinkos rezultatai. Kas mus sieja? Kod\u0117l mes kartu? I\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 buvo trauka. Did\u017eiul\u0117. Tada kibirk\u0161tis. O kas toliau? O toliau atsirado tu\u0161\u010dia erdv\u0117 tarp m\u016bs\u0173. Vieta, kuri\u0105 galime palikti be prie\u017ei\u016bros ir tik\u0117tis, kad ,,nu ka\u017ekaip\u201d ji pildysis mums maloniais dalykais, arba galime nieko nelaukti [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8913,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/095df9eb-62e4-4b54-994d-b8b6572aeb6e.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"A\u0161 ir jis. 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