{"id":9048,"date":"2021-03-29T23:29:11","date_gmt":"2021-03-29T20:29:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=9048"},"modified":"2021-03-29T23:29:12","modified_gmt":"2021-03-29T20:29:12","slug":"sos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/sos\/","title":{"rendered":"SOS!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Da\u017eniausiai, kai viduje kyla ka\u017ekokie nepa\u017e\u012fstami jausmai, nesuvaldomi norai, mintys, b\u016bsenos, mums b\u016bna sunku apie tai kalb\u0117ti. Norisi atsiskirti nuo vis\u0173, pab\u016bti su savimi. Ir tai kaip ir gerai. Tik per ilgai trunkanti tyla skatina atitolim\u0105, at\u0161alim\u0105 ar net neigiamas reakcijas i\u0161 kito \u017emogaus. Visada padeda pokalbis su \u017emogumi, kuris i\u0161klauso, palaiko. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O kaip vaikai? Jiems \u0161is pasaulis naujas, kasdien naujos patirtys, nepa\u017e\u012fstamos situacijos, \u017eini\u0173 tr\u016bkumas ir pan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Norisi bent jau \u0161eimoje kurti toki\u0105 atmosfer\u0105, kurioje vaikai nebijos pasakyti, kad pykstu, arba darau kvailystes, nes taip reikalauju tavo d\u0117mesio. Svarbu, kad vaikas gal\u0117t\u0173 pa\u017einti save ir neb\u016bti u\u017e tai smerkiamas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pasteb\u0117jau, mano vaikams vis dar kartais sunku \u012fvardyti kas juos ,,u\u017evald\u0117\u201d. Matau j\u0173 akyse, kad elgesys tarsi ,,r\u0117kia\u201d reikalaudamas d\u0117mesio, bet pasakyti \u017eod\u017eiais negali. Tada nebe\u017einai i\u0161 kokios pus\u0117s prieiti ir kalb\u0117ti su vaiku. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kartais jis tiesiog pyksta arba ignoruoja kitus, kartoja savo pretenzijas, demonstruoja nepasitenkinim\u0105, tai jeigu ignoruosiu &#8211; situacija padvigub\u0117s ir abu nei\u0161moksim \u0161ios pamokos, o jeigu kalb\u0117siu, tai kaip kalb\u0117ti, kad tai neb\u016bt\u0173 moralas? Daug plonybi\u0173, su kuriomis vis bandome susipa\u017einti kasdien ir visos jos tik tam, kad tobul\u0117tume kaip \u017dmon\u0117s. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0160iandien savo ma\u017eojo i\u0161rad\u0117jo papra\u0161iau sukurti ka\u017ekok\u012f prietais\u0105, kuris informuot\u0173 visus, kad vienam i\u0161 \u0161eimos nari\u0173 ka\u017ekas nutiko, jam reikia pagalbos, net jeigu tai ir reik\u0161, kad jis tyl\u0117s. Svarbu pasteb\u0117ti, kad manyje ka\u017ekas pasikeit\u0117. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kaip ir tik\u0117jausi, varpelis skamb\u0117jo da\u017enai \ud83d\ude01, nors ir ne pagal paskirt\u012f. Bet mano tikslas buvo bent po truput\u012f s\u016bnui prad\u0117ti steb\u0117ti save: kas \u012ftakoja tokias reakcijas, gal\u0117jau jas suvaldyti ar ne, kaip tai paliet\u0117 kitus, kokios dabar pasekm\u0117s? Taip pat, rodant, kad mums r\u016bpi vaik\u0173 i\u0161gyvenimai, \u017eaidimas galb\u016bt skatins poreik\u012f kalb\u0117tis, pasidalinti kas pasikeit\u0117, su kuo negali susitvarkyti ir pan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taigi, gim\u0117 toks k\u016brinys &#8211; SOS varpelis, ,,valdomas\u201d mygtuku \ud83e\udd29. Kai ka\u017ekam reikia pasitarti su \u0161eima &#8211; spaud\u017eiam \ud83e\udd17. Vaikams dar reikia ilgiau pa\u017eaisti \u0161\u012f \u017eaidim\u0105, kol susigaudys kas ir kaip, o a\u0161 jiems jau rodau pavyzd\u012f, skambindama varpeliu ir papra\u0161ydama pagalbos (labiau emocine prasme, negu buitine, nors jeigu ir buitiniai dalykai li\u016bdina ar d\u017eiugina &#8211; reikia spausti SOS mygtuk\u0105\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"600\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/f9fd3a28-ad74-440b-8d9f-5d4f488ed382.jpg\" data-id=\"9046\" class=\"wp-image-9046\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/f9fd3a28-ad74-440b-8d9f-5d4f488ed382.jpg 800w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/f9fd3a28-ad74-440b-8d9f-5d4f488ed382-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/f9fd3a28-ad74-440b-8d9f-5d4f488ed382-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Labai svarbus momentas yra tas, kad vaikai, jeigu neturi kitoki\u0173 i\u0161ugdyt\u0173  elgesio \u0161ablom\u0173, \u012f visk\u0105 reaguoja nat\u016braliai. Tai yra i\u0161 prigimtin\u0117s pus\u0117s, kuri neaukl\u0117jama yra tiesiog laukin\u0117 ir nesiskitanti su niekuo, net savo t\u0117vais&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Da\u017eniausiai, kai viduje kyla ka\u017ekokie nepa\u017e\u012fstami jausmai, nesuvaldomi norai, mintys, b\u016bsenos, mums b\u016bna sunku apie tai kalb\u0117ti. Norisi atsiskirti nuo vis\u0173, pab\u016bti su savimi. Ir tai kaip ir gerai. Tik per ilgai trunkanti tyla skatina atitolim\u0105, at\u0161alim\u0105 ar net neigiamas reakcijas i\u0161 kito \u017emogaus. Visada padeda pokalbis su \u017emogumi, kuris i\u0161klauso, palaiko. O kaip vaikai? 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