Manau, kad kiekvieni s\u0105moningi t\u0117vai pasirenka vienoki\u0105 ar kitoki\u0105 aukl\u0117jimo krypt\u012f ir jos laikosi, atnaujina, papildo, bet visada turi savo, tik jiems \u017einom\u0105, jud\u0117jimo trajektorij\u0105 ir tiksl\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pamenu, kai gim\u0117 pirmasis vaikas, labai ai\u0161kiai \u017einojome ko mes sieksime, k\u0105 d\u0117l to paaukosime ir kod\u0117l. Pirmaisiais metais tik\u0117jausi pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 supratimo, paklausta ,,kod\u0117l mes darome kitaip nei visi\u201d nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai dalinausi savo \u012f\u017evalgomis, kol galiausiai pama\u010diau, jog beveik visi klausiantieji nor\u0117jo arba pamokyti, arba perkalb\u0117ti, arba pa\u0161iepti, arba sukelti abejoni\u0173. Tuomet reagavau gan jautriai, nes buvo keista, kad net artimi \u017emon\u0117s vardan m\u016bs\u0173 draugyst\u0117s negali pasilaikyti savo nuomon\u0117s sau. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bet kaip sakoma: ,,Su metais ir praktika ateina i\u0161mintis\u201d. Dabar suprantu, kad tiesiog su savo l\u016bkes\u010diais beld\u017eiausi ne \u012f tas duris. Kiekvienas \u017emogus yra toks, koks yra. Tod\u0117l kaskart ir reikia pasirinkti tuos \u017emon\u0117s, kurie tikrai atitiks mano l\u016bkes\u010dius. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nereikia ie\u0161koti palaikymo ten, kur jo n\u0117ra ir nebus. Ten, kur tave bando \u012ftikinti ,,mesti\u201d ar keisti savo tiksl\u0105,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
suabejoti savimi ar savo \u0161eima, b\u016bti kaip visi, kai viduje jauti, jog turi ka\u017ek\u0105 ir uniklaus. Nei\u0161koti = nesitik\u0117ti palaikymo tarp t\u0173, kuri\u0173 vertyb\u0117s kitokios nei mano. Mes vieni kit\u0173 niekada nesuprasime, tai kam \u0161vaistyti laik\u0105? Galb\u016bt su tais \u017emon\u0117mis kalb\u0117tis apie ka\u017ek\u0105, kas mums visiems priimtina?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Svarbu i\u0161mokti nesitik\u0117ti, kad kiekvienas supras k\u0105 a\u0161 darau, kod\u0117l, kaip… ir tai tikrai sunku. Bet kai tai supratau – \u0161ioje vietoje mano gyvenimas palengv\u0117jo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuo tada dalinuosi man ir m\u016bs\u0173 \u0161eimai svarbiais dalykais tik su tais, kam tai \u012fdomu. O su kitais jau turiu patirties, tod\u0117l mokausi mandagiai i\u0161sisukti nuo atsakymo arba per giliai nesileisti \u012f ai\u0161kinimus, nesukurti vietos bandyti mane mokyti, \u012fkalbin\u0117ti ar kitaip paveikti, kas padaryt\u0173 \u017eal\u0105 tam, k\u0105 mes darome, \u012f k\u0105 mes tiek daug investuojame, kuo mes gyvename.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Palaikymas visada yra tarp \u017emoni\u0173, kuriuos jungia pana\u0161i id\u0117ja, aukl\u0117jimo kryptis, mokymosi stilius ir pan. Tod\u0117l tik tokiose aplinkose ir ie\u0161kau palaikymo. Beje, pastaruoju laiku jo gaunu tiek daug, kad noriu dalintis tuo su kitais!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Manau, kad kiekvieni s\u0105moningi t\u0117vai pasirenka vienoki\u0105 ar kitoki\u0105 aukl\u0117jimo krypt\u012f ir jos laikosi, atnaujina, papildo, bet visada turi savo, tik jiems \u017einom\u0105, jud\u0117jimo trajektorij\u0105 ir tiksl\u0105. Pamenu, kai gim\u0117 pirmasis vaikas, labai ai\u0161kiai \u017einojome ko mes sieksime, k\u0105 d\u0117l to paaukosime ir kod\u0117l. Pirmaisiais metais tik\u0117jausi pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 supratimo, paklausta ,,kod\u0117l mes darome kitaip nei […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9870,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9871","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/f6a0ccd9-4374-4c14-a3f1-1d2c91d15fe9.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"Manau, kad kiekvieni s\u0105moningi t\u0117vai pasirenka vienoki\u0105 ar kitoki\u0105 aukl\u0117jimo krypt\u012f ir jos laikosi, atnaujina, papildo, bet visada turi savo, tik jiems \u017einom\u0105, jud\u0117jimo trajektorij\u0105 ir tiksl\u0105. Pamenu, kai gim\u0117 pirmasis vaikas, labai ai\u0161kiai \u017einojome ko mes sieksime, k\u0105 d\u0117l to paaukosime ir kod\u0117l. Pirmaisiais metais tik\u0117jausi pa\u017e\u012fstam\u0173 supratimo, paklausta ,,kod\u0117l mes darome kitaip nei…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9871"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9872,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9871\/revisions\/9872"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}