{"id":9919,"date":"2021-06-15T23:20:18","date_gmt":"2021-06-15T20:20:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=9919"},"modified":"2021-06-15T23:20:19","modified_gmt":"2021-06-15T20:20:19","slug":"santykiu-bangavimas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/santykiu-bangavimas\/","title":{"rendered":"SANTYKI\u0172 ,,BANGAVIMAS\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Visada tik\u0117jau, kad santykiai arba savaime vystosi, arba tiesiog tas \u017emogus ne man. Tai buvo pagrindinis vertimo kriterijus iki kol nesitikau savo vyro. Tada supratome, kad jeigu du \u017emon\u0117s s\u0105moningai nestato santyki\u0173 &#8211; j\u0173 niekada ir nebus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Savo kailiu patyr\u0117me, kad gyvenime niekada neb\u016bna viskas vienodai: tik viskas gerai ar tik viskas blogai. Santykiuose visada jau\u010diame tai suart\u0117jim\u0105, tai atitolim\u0105, po kurio laiko v\u0117l suart\u0117jim\u0105 ir t.t.. Da\u017eniausiai tai visi\u0161kai neplanuotos situacijos, netik\u0117tos reakcijos ir nevaldomos emocijos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bet kas lemia tuos \u0161uolius, tok\u012f santyki\u0173 ,,bangavim\u0105\u201d? Ar galima j\u0173 i\u0161vengti? O gal galima tai panaudoti m\u016bs\u0173 meilei stirpinti?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei atvirai, tai mums i\u0161vengti ,,bangavimo\u201d nepavyksta, BET labai tuo d\u017eiaugiam\u0117s, nes kiekvienas sunkumo \u012fveikimas, tylos pauz\u0117s nutraukimas, nusileidimas &#8211; visa tai tik susitiprina ry\u0161\u012f ir leid\u017eia pajausti kokie visgi esame LAIMINGI, tur\u0117dami vienas kit\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Per septynerius savo santuokos metus i\u0161siai\u0161kinome, kad gal ir ,,bangavimo\u201d negalime sustabdyti, ta\u010diau galime j\u012f su\u0161velninti ir gyventi kartu su juo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u0161band\u0117me labai efektyv\u0173 princip\u0105 &#8211; pasiruo\u0161im\u0105 sekan\u010diam nesutarimui, konfliktui, atmetimui. Kai esame geruose santykiuose, mes neleid\u017eiame sau pilnai atsipalaiduoti ir patik\u0117ti, kad taip gyvensime visada. Taip, mes d\u017eiaugiam\u0117s ta akimirka, bet tuo pat metu ie\u0161kome b\u016bd\u0173 kaip \u012fsipareigoti vienas kitam, kad kai nenor\u0117sime pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117ti vienas \u012f kit\u0105, gird\u0117ti k\u0105 sako kitas, priimti kito nuomon\u0117s, visgi tur\u0117tum\u0117me ka\u017ek\u0105 tokio, d\u0117l ko gal\u0117tume nusileisti vienas kitam.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anks\u010diau vienas i\u0161 \u0161eimas ri\u0161an\u010di\u0173 dalyk\u0173 buvo vaikai. \u0160iandien jau nebe. \u0160iandien i\u0161silaiko tos poros, kurios i\u0161sikelia auk\u0161tesnius, nei j\u0173 asmenin\u0117 nauda, tikslus. Tai poros, kurios nuolat yra budrios: nesvarbu ar sutaria, ar ne. Jos niekada nemiega (ry\u0161io ar\u017evilgiu \u263a\ufe0f). Neatsipalaiduoja. Jos m\u0117gaujasi viskuo, kas joms nutinka ir, svarbiausia, palaiko vienas kit\u0105 ir yra begalo laimingi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matau, kad toki\u0173 por\u0173 yra. Jos taip \u012fkv\u0117pia vilties! Norisi, kad tokia santyki\u0173 svarba apsigyvent\u0173 kiekvienuose namuose ir ,,bangavimas\u201d tapt\u0173 \u017eavi m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimo dalis. \ud83d\udda4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2804\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles.jpg 820w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-300x132.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/meiles-768x337.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Visada tik\u0117jau, kad santykiai arba savaime vystosi, arba tiesiog tas \u017emogus ne man. Tai buvo pagrindinis vertimo kriterijus iki kol nesitikau savo vyro. Tada supratome, kad jeigu du \u017emon\u0117s s\u0105moningai nestato santyki\u0173 &#8211; j\u0173 niekada ir nebus. Savo kailiu patyr\u0117me, kad gyvenime niekada neb\u016bna viskas vienodai: tik viskas gerai ar tik viskas blogai. 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