{"id":9979,"date":"2021-06-16T00:31:11","date_gmt":"2021-06-15T21:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/?p=9979"},"modified":"2021-06-16T00:32:22","modified_gmt":"2021-06-15T21:32:22","slug":"pirmoji-ledus-pralauzia-moteris","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/pirmoji-ledus-pralauzia-moteris\/","title":{"rendered":"PIRMOJI ,,LEDUS PRALAU\u017dIA\u201d MOTERIS"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Straipsnis skirtas rimtai santykius kurian\u010dioms poroms)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gavau klausim\u0105 ir jis man pasirod\u0117 labai vertingas ir aktualus iMami siek\u0117joms (santyki\u0173 tema):<\/p>\n\n\n\n

,,Sveiki. Skaitau j\u016bs\u0173 straipsnius ir baisiai noriu toki\u0173 santyki\u0173, bet mano vyras nenori apie tai net kalb\u0117ti.. esu pasimetusi, kaip ,,pralau\u017eti ledus\u201d?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0160iandien mano dukra su s\u016bnumi apsipyko. Vienas nu\u0117jo \u012f vien\u0105 kamp\u0105, kitas \u012f kit\u0105. Nieko nedarau. Laukiu kas bus. Po keli\u0173 minu\u010di\u0173 s\u016bnus jau ka\u017ek\u0105 konstruoja. Dukra matau dar pergyvena, kad brolis su ja nesikalba. I\u0161 tolo stebi k\u0105 jis daro. Laukia jo aki\u0173 kontakto (\u017eenklo). Deja, s\u016bnus jau savo veikloje. Dukra dar palaukus kelet\u0105 minu\u010di\u0173 atsargiai prieina prie brolio ir sako: ,,Gal pakalbam apie k\u0105 nors?\u201d. S\u016bnus klausia apie k\u0105. Dukra: ,,Ne\u017einau, gal apie skruzd\u0117les? Kaip jos gyvena\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viskas tuo baig\u0117si ir kartu prasid\u0117jo. (Skruzd\u0117l\u0117s yra tema, kuri jiems abiems bendra ir dabar aktuali, dukra ie\u0161kojo kontakto, \u0161tai kod\u0117l pasi\u016bl\u0117 kalb\u0117ti apie jas.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kod\u0117l \u0161is pavyzdys? Nes moteris yra ta, kuri inicijuoja dalykus. Ji kaip aktyvi santykiuose dalis, parodanti ,,\u017eenkl\u0105\u201d, nor\u0105, o tada vyras jau gav\u0119s signal\u0105 atitinkamai reaguoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kiek teko bendrauti su \u012fvairiomis poromis, \u0161eimomis, tai galiu pasakyti, kad labai da\u017ena b\u0117da, kad moteris \u012f vyr\u0105 kreipiasi su vidiniu reikalavimu, priekai\u0161tais ,,ka\u017ekam\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ir jeigu moteris pakei\u010dia savo po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f santykius, \u012f save, \u012f vyr\u0105 – viskas kardinaliai kei\u010diasi. Tada staiga ji pradeda matyti, kad jos vyras labai noriai kalbasi su ja, jis da\u017eniau ie\u0161ko aki\u0173 kontakto, pasako jai kompliment\u0173, \u012fvertina jos pastangas. Tai yra labai da\u017ena vyro reakcija \u012f teising\u0105 moters po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f j\u012f. Ta\u010diau pirm\u0105j\u012f \u017eingsn\u012f \u017eengia ji, nes vyras gali ir likti am\u017eiams ,,konstruoti\u201d savo i\u0161radimus kaip mano s\u016bnus \u012frod\u0117. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar \u012fdomus ir svarbus faktas, kur\u012f gird\u0117jau i\u0161 vyr\u0173 pus\u0117s, kad dar jiems ne\u012f\u017eengus \u012f namus – jie jau jau\u010dia kokios nuotaikos bus j\u0173 moterys. Ne\u017einau ar tai vibracijos, intuicija ar ry\u0161ys, bet vyrai tai jau\u010dia, nors ir nekalba apie tai garsiai. \u017dinant tai, galima \u017eengti pirm\u0105 \u017eingsnel\u012f ir i\u0161 vidinio reikalavimo ,,privalome pasikalb\u0117ti\u201d pereiti labiau \u012f nuo\u0161ird\u0173 pra\u0161ym\u0105 ,,noriu tave i\u0161girsti \u0161iuo klausimu\u201d (TIK su s\u0105lyga jeigu toks poreikis yra!). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vien vidinis nusiteikimas, pri\u0117jimas i\u0161 meil\u0117s ir noras i\u0161 tikro i\u0161girsti kit\u0105 pakei\u010dia atmosfer\u0105 akimirksniu ir net nepajau\u010diame, kaip \u017eodis po \u017eod\u017eio atrandame ka\u017ek\u0105 bendro, ka\u017ek\u0105, apie k\u0105 abu norime pasikalb\u0117ti, ka\u017ek\u0105, kas b\u016btinai turi atsinaujinti santykiuose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nenuleis\u010diau rank\u0173, jeigu pirmaisiais kartais nepavyksta. \u012egauti pasitik\u0117jimo reikia laiko, net jeigu ir esame vyras ir \u017emona. Kartais daug lengviau atvirauti kompanijoje, negu dviese. Tod\u0117l \u010dia reikia ry\u017eto, palaikymo ir kaskart tikrinti save ,,ko a\u0161 siekiu \u0161iuo veiksmu?\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jeigu a\u0161 viduje degu noru sustiprinti m\u016bs\u0173 santykius, i\u0161mokti i\u0161girsti vienas kit\u0105, pa\u017einti kas mes, gyventi bendrame r\u016bpestyje – to pakanka, kad u\u017esimegzt\u0173 pirmas kontaktas ir vyras pajaust\u0173, jog jis \u012fdomus, reikalingas ir kad \u0161alia jo tokia i\u0161mintinga moteris.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Visada yra kaip prisibelsti \u012f kito \u017emogaus \u0161ird\u012f, tik reikia nenustoti ie\u0161koti KAIP. Juk galiausiai norime gyventi kartu, laimingai ir ilgaaaaaai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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(Straipsnis skirtas rimtai santykius kurian\u010dioms poroms) Gavau klausim\u0105 ir jis man pasirod\u0117 labai vertingas ir aktualus iMami siek\u0117joms (santyki\u0173 tema): ,,Sveiki. Skaitau j\u016bs\u0173 straipsnius ir baisiai noriu toki\u0173 santyki\u0173, bet mano vyras nenori apie tai net kalb\u0117ti.. esu pasimetusi, kaip ,,pralau\u017eti ledus\u201d?\u201d \u0160iandien mano dukra su s\u016bnumi apsipyko. Vienas nu\u0117jo \u012f vien\u0105 kamp\u0105, kitas \u012f […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9981,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moteris-mama-straipsniai","category-vyrai-moterys-santuoka-straipsniai"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2.jpg",800,400,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2-300x150.jpg",300,150,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2-768x384.jpg",768,384,true],"large":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2.jpg",800,400,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2.jpg",800,400,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/aed2835b-064b-440c-ae4f-c9b2fb45a5e2-2.jpg",800,400,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"iMami","author_link":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/author\/roberta-rumbutienegmail-com\/"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"(Straipsnis skirtas rimtai santykius kurian\u010dioms poroms) Gavau klausim\u0105 ir jis man pasirod\u0117 labai vertingas ir aktualus iMami siek\u0117joms (santyki\u0173 tema): ,,Sveiki. 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Vienas nu\u0117jo \u012f vien\u0105 kamp\u0105, kitas \u012f…","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9979"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9979\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9980,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9979\/revisions\/9980"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9981"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ugdymasirauklejimas.lt\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}